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monkeywithaname

23 / F / Bisexual / Single

San Francisco, California

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:58am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Judaism and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Japanese

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My self-summary
Made In California raised in Honolulu...

I follow the law of attraction. I am infinitely blessed with the fortunate understanding that our wildest dreams ever imaginable are entirely within reach. I am working on creating myself. I am a life long student and am learning to wield the powerful sword of intention.

I take pride in learning from my peers and experts in order to defy the impossible. I hope to effectively grow, lead, inspire, and help people realize their highest potential.

One of my ideals is that the path of an entrepreneur and founder should have the same merit to young people as rockstar or celebrity. I want future generations of children to grow up in a world where they'll learn to possess scientific superpowers, a creative or artistic understanding, aesthetic values, and fierce athletic ninja skills.

Sometimes I forget to smile and then come off as intimidating or pretentious. You may find my sense of humor arrogant at times. I assure you that I am quite down to earth. I am extremely genuine. I love the little things in life like Neuro-Enhancement drinks, gum, tailored blazers, v-neck shirts, tapered jeans, and cyborg gadgets.

I am highly sensitive and get attached to specific objects. I like to buy the same things over and over. I am not impressed easily but love to be impressed by someone who I can learn new things from.

I love the idea of using the seven deadly sins for social progress and reform.

I also love flying, skydiving, traveling, food, extreme sports, driving fast, and the adrenaline rush of doing something dangerous. I am a big fan of sailing and have an international sailing passport. I love Andy Warhol, Basquiat, and the whole NY scene during the 80's. I enjoy the finer things in life such as the symphony, opera, museums, shopping, romance, and being a woman.

I must be challenged intellectually. I only allow myself to be surrounded by motivated and progressive individuals. I can say my greatest flaw is probably my intolerance for the mundane. I am nearly incapable of undertaking any sort of tasks that my very unusual brain considers menial. I consider sanity to be a measurement of how well an individual can exhibit a sane reaction to an insane world.

Time is the most valuable resource in my life. I take my interpersonal investments quite seriously. My friends are quite dear to me. They are the family in life that I have chosen. Most people would say I am very eccentric. I am not always the best with first impressions. I value intelligence, motivation, a sense of humor, empathy, and loyalty above all else.

Life is a movie screen. If 80% of the population agreed with me... I would consider it failure... I am a Post-Human Idealist.
What I’m doing with my life
As a first time entrepreneur my main focus is to offer innovative and simple solutions to resolve complex issues. I have failed repeatedly and consistently go back to the drawing board. I am currently building my first company and it is the most daunting task I have ever undertaken. Embracing the CEO role is very complex because you have to have an understanding of every facet of business and leadership. There is a lot to focus on and keep in mind. I am also writing a book in my very limited free time. I have sort of dared myself to develop a new literary style so we'll see how that goes.

I love consulting and helping people reach their highest potential. I am very fond of all things pertaining to analytics, marketing, and branding. I have knowledge in both the tech and entertainment industries. I love Javascript, HTML5, and am deciding between learning Node.JS or Backbone. I also love big data, gamificaition, and all things mobile.

I plan on going to space in the next few years. I hope to eventually achieve a space pilots license for fun because having that freedom will be so baller. My long term goals are to build a crowd funded hedge fund for social impact to invest in life extension technologies, biotech, and commercial space real estate & tourism.
I’m really good at
I excel at predicting trends and communicating with people from very diverse backgrounds. I am also a great friend. I studied professional voice in my earlier years and also acting. I used to compete professionally with some of my writings. I would also say that I am really good at being professional and chill at the same time. I know how to throw a party and I love pushing the envelope. I know how to be quite adaptable in every social situation. I can handle the most complicated situations and tend to perform really well under pressure. I also am pretty awesome at Scrabble. If I am interested in something I will perform very well. I collect people and would consider myself an archivist in all things pertaining to the arts and culture. I play guitar and have been practicing DJING and toying around with music production in my spare time. I ALSO LOVE COOKING and have always cooked meat for my partners/lovers.
The first things people usually notice about me
People tend to really enjoy my hair and have frequently compared me to the real life version of... "The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo"... I do not have tattoos nor do I want any identifiable markings at this point. I am actually in the process of growing my hair out again which is cool. If I decided to acquire some sort of marking in the future it would be in the form of a dattoo or data tattoo. There are some pretty sweet benefits from having LED's on your body apparently.

I also always get asked if I am related to Kirsten Dunst or told that I look like her...

I can tell you an observation made by one of my favorite teachers. She once told me that this quote was the perfect description of me.

"If personality is an unbroken series of successful gestures, then there was something gorgeous about him, some heightened sensitivity to the promises of life, as if he were related to one of those intricate machines that register earthquakes ten thousand miles away. This responsiveness had nothing to do with that flabby impressionability which is dignified under the name of the "creative temperament"-it was an extraordinary gift for hope, a romantic readiness such as I have never found in any other person and which it is not likeley I shall ever find again" (Fitzgerald, 1925.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS:

DOUGLAS ADAMS, Godel Escher Bach, Snowcrash, THE CYBORG HANDBOOK! The Guide To Cyborg Anthropology, The Catcher In The Rye. Raymond Kurzweil, Allen Ginsberg, The 4 Hour Work Week, Popism, Sex Drugs and Cocoa Puffs by Chuck Klosterman, The Diary of An Emotional Idiot by Maggie Estep, Mishna Wolff cracks me up, Betsy Lerner- The Forest For The Trees, The Perks of Being A Wallflower, The Mixed up Files of Basil E. Frankweiler, A Very Hungry Caterpillar, Dr. Seuss, Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera, Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde, Choke by Chuck Palahniuk, She by Saul Williams, Letters To A Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke or any
Stephen Mitchell translation of Rilke, Prozac Nation by Elizabeth
Wurtzel, Brave New World by Aldous Huxley , To Kill a Mockingbird
by Harper Lee...Foxfire by Joyce Carol Oates, William Gibson, Franny and Zooey by J.D. Salinger, Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing by Judy Blume, Ayn Rand, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Herman Hesse, Sylvia Plath, Anne Sexton poetry, E.E. Cummings, T.S. Elliot, Mina Loy, H.D., Ann Rice, The Moon & Sixpence by W. Somerset Maugham, A Crack up at the Race Riots by Harmony Korine, Eye Scream by Henry Rollins, Jim Carroll, Sappho's poetry, Ezra Pound, William Carlos Williams, Jim Morrison, Bret Easton Ellis, Nietzsche... 1984 by George Orwell, The Dictionary of Cultural Literacy, Phillip K. Dick, The Personal MBA: Master The Art of Business, A Short History of Nearly Everything, The Unibombers manifesto, Last Exit to Brooklyn, Making Ideas Happen: Overcoming Obstacles Between Vision And Reality, Freakonomics, The Education Of Millionaires by Michael Ellsberg, the UNCOLLEGE reading list, strange graduate papers from The Strand, I love old book stores, Running With Scissors, and countless others.

Movies:

Control, Cloud Atlas, Breathless by Jean Luc Godard, Green Hornet, Love & Other Drugs, Party Monster, Geek movies, cult classics, The Godfather series, American Gangster, Hackers, Hedwig & the Angry Inch, Party Girl, Requiem For A Dream, Best In Show, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, American Beauty , Who Killed the Electric Car? Igby Goes Down, Waiting, 54, Amelie, Titanic, He Loves Me He Loves Me Not, Capote, Love Me If You Dare, Limitless, The Devil's Double, Largo Wynch, The Aviator, Happy Gilmore, Black Sheep, Tommy Boy, A Night at the Roxbury, Billy Madison, Holiday Inn, Cat On A Hot Tin Roof, Cleopatra, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill, Memento, Ferris Bueller's day off, The Lion King, Those Christmas Claymation movies, Capote, Ray, Hotel Rwanda, Blood Sport, King Arthur, The Terminator 1 & 2, Freeway, Basketball Diaries, Phantom of the Opera, Swingers, Being John Malkovich, Resevoir Dog's, House of Flying Daggers, Bruce Lee Fist of Furry, Beavis & Butthead Do America, Iceage, Before Sunrise/ After Sunset, Mad love, Nightmare On Elmstreet, Show Me Love (Russian film), Monster, Gia, Cool hand Luke, My Fair Lady, Breakfast At Tiffany's, The Odd Couple, Moulin Rouge, Edward Scissorhands, Nightmare Before Christmas, I shot Andy Warhol, Basquiat, Pi, Rules of Attraction, Donnie Darko, How to Kill Your Neighbors Dog, ,200 Cigarettes, A Very Long Engagement, Devil Wears Prada, Poor Little Rich Girl, Frieda, Mullholland Drive, Darjeeling Limited, and countless others.

TV Shows:

Will & Grace, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, Ren
& Stimpy, Weeds, E! True Hollywood Story, The Colbert Report,
That 70's Show, The Daily Show, The L Word..The Liam Kyle Sulivan Show, Game Of Thrones, The Big C, American Horror Story, and my favorite is Gossip Girl.

Music:

I LOVE SPOTIFY!!!!! Joy Division, The XX, deadmau5, Skrillex, Lana Del Rey, MIA, Foxes, Gucci Mane, Erik Satie, Naked & Famous, Royce Da 5'9, Nicki Minaj, Kaskade, The Streets, Game, Jay-Z, Eminem, Britney Spears, araabMUZIK, The Jezabels, Marilyn Manson, Metric, The Joy Formidable, Jai Paul, Edward Sharp & The Magnetic Zeroes, Drake, David Guetta, Broken Social Scene, Daft Punk, Designer Drugs, The Velvet Underground, New Order, Tori Amos, Radiohead, MGMT, Erol Alkan, MSTRKRFT, Times New Viking, Lil Wayne, Nicky Minaj, Britney Spears, Ke$ha, Timbaland, Rihanna, Lykke Li, Florence & The Machine, Peter Bjorn & John, New Young Pony Club, Free Blood, Brian Eno, Amanda Blank, T.I., Siouxsie & The Banshees, Arcade Fire, Crystal Castles, VNV Nation, My Bloody Valentine, Explosions In The Sky, Hot Chip, Xiu Xiu, Modest Mouse, Ugly Cassanova, Dirty Bird crew, Dim Mak crew, Portishead, Massive Attack, Tiga, The Distillers, Bikini Kil, Azure ray, Conor Obherst, Rainer Maria, Deerhoof, Coco Rosie, The Sounds, Sonic Youth, GRLFRNDS, Neutral Milk Hotel, Billy Idol, Beethoven, Blonde Redhead, Mirah, Madonna, Michael Jackson, Freddy Mercury (Queen), Billie Holiday, David Bowie, Simon & Garfunkel (Paul Simon), The Weakerthans, Pavement, The Doors, Pink Floyd, The Cure, Fiona Apple, Elvis Costello, TV On The Radio, Of Montreal, Ratatat, Garbage, Yeah Yeah Yeah's, Pinback, The Strokes, Blondie, Jimmy Hendrix, Metric, Low, Janis Joplin, Joan Jett, Smashing Pumpkins, Poe, Bob Dylan, At The Drive Inn, Mazzy Star, Cat Power, The Beatles, John Lennon, The Shins, Broken Social Scene, Leslie Feist, Sufjan Stevens, M83, Le Tenia *Nick Ross*, BRMC, Sparta, Mates of State, Melon Galia, Starsailor, Beck, Ida, Zero 7, Aretha Franklin, Amy Winehouse, Ellie Goulding, Jakwob, Placebo, The Dandy Warhols, Jesus & Mary Chain, Air, Joni Mitchell, The Pixies, Wilco, Thelonius Monk, Nat King Cole, Norah Jones, The Flaming Lips, Mono, The Smiths, Morrisey, The Blow, The Walkmen, The Thermals, Aerosmith, The Rolling Stones, The New Pornographers, Richie Havens, Janes Addiction, Liz Fair, Malcom McClaren, Aphex Twins (Richard D. James), Sarah Brightman, Van Halen, Erykah Badu, David Bowie, Lauren Hill, Belle & Sebastian, Peaches, Jamie Cullum, Elton John, The Jealous Girlfriends, Apples In Stereo, Godspeed You Black Emperor, The Pretenders, Clinic, White Stripes, Black Flag, Mark Kozelek (Red House Painters), P.J. Harvey, Ladytron, Ryan Adams, Cursive, The Brakes, Blood On The Wall, Echo & The Bunny Men, Beastie Boys, Nico, Iron & Wine, Trail Of The Dead, The Boredoms, Ween, The Likes, Giant Drag, Nick Cave, Beth Orton, Mumford & Sons, Kate Bush, Animal Collective, Killing Joke, My Life With The Thrill Kill Cult, Tears For Fears, Eurythmics, Fields Of The Nephilim, Duran Duran, The Virgin Prunes, Bad Brains, Wolf Parade, Johan Gielen, Wolfgang, Urge Overkill, Cruxshadows, Cabaret Voltaire, Do Make Say Think, The Number 12 Looks like You, Cocteau Twins, Beth Gibbons, Circle Jerks, Nirvana, REM, The National, Ramones, The Germs, Sun Kil Moon, John Frusciante, Telepopmusik, Songs Ohio, Primitive Radio Gods, Atmosphere, Jay Z, Glenn Miller, Miles Davis, Pictureplane, Santigold, Au Revoir Simone, Eli Escobar, Gui Boratto, The Hundred In The Hands, Kendrick Lamar, Kavinsky, N.A.S.A., Parachute Youth, Passion Pit, Robyn, Sleigh Bells, JJ, Fabolous, Charli XCX, EDX, Cassie, Kylie Minogue, Alex Gaudino, and much much much more... I love reading Sleep.Fuck.Party... and admittedly was addicted to PitchFork as a kid.

Food:

I have a Foodspotting account linked to my instagram, fouresquare, twitter etc. You'll find me taking pictures of my food before I eat it when we grab food together.

Obsessive Foodie Days:

South Indian Food, Thai, Italian, Lebanese, Greek, mmm lots of Kale Salad, smoothies, African, various ethnic cuisines, and I prefer low carb foods now.
The six things I could never do without
Humor/Hip Hop
Cognitive Neuro Enhancements+ Stimulants
Family/BFF's... and Play Mates...
Lap Top/Smart Phone
Showers!/Tooth Brush/Exceptional Grooming & Bubble Baths
Sleep (complete darkness and absolute silence)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The Four Hour Work Week, Trends, Netnography, Geopolitics, and anything pertaining to any kind of Data Analysis. I think like a Quantitative Research Analyst.

I contemplate how to be more like Aeon Flux. I think about the Higgs Boson and visiting CERN in particular. I did get invited on a personal tour in Geneva to visit Cern and the LHC because a pal's mom works there.

I spend quite a bit of time contemplating new theories about alternative rocket theory. I contemplate the technological singularity and Princeton University's Research on the Noosphere. I also really like the idea of combining practicality and luxury into high tech fashion.

What does SETI know that I don't? How can I build a better hacker and maker culture... think Hackerspace 2.0 meets Hogwarts University...

Cyber Security is a very strong interest of mine... penetration testing... white hat social engineering...

How the hell we are going to be able to go faster than the speed of light? Will the creation of an Intergalactic Union ever be possible? I just want to travel to Kepler's Goldie Locks planets such as Kepler 22b.

How I can obtain immortal life...

I contemplate forcing myself to become one of the only or very first women to atmospherically skydive. I would have to gain lots and lots of practice skydiving traditionally first. This should be realistic eventually.

Additionally, why didn't we build a transportation system through the center of the earth? It would certainly make traveling to other parts of the world a lot faster.

Virus Vaccines & Preventatives, and life extension technologies in general.

Culture hacking society....

Hmm, how far will we advance in the next ten years with gene therapy? I am eager to see the outcomes of the first gene therapy drug that was issued for use in Europe.

I also think about the U.C. Berkeley learning machine quite a bit. Mostly I contemplate advancements in BCI/HCI.

I read news on Space, Earth, Mars, and Space War daily. I love the PULSE News app.
On a typical Friday night I am
I love to go to sweet mansion parties. I also require a lot of alone time. I gain fulfillment by working on my projects. I also enjoy being very spontaneous and making last minute plans. You could say that I am ultimately in a relationship with myself first. Sometimes I love to be at home curled up with my security blanket and if I'm very lucky with a companion... or sometimes I want to go out to a night club and rage.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been in the tabloids for a joke or spoof. I have also been accused of questionable hacking activities.

For the record: I would like to start out by saying that I am polyamorous and would consider monogamy for the right person. I have a fear of being tied down to anyone or anything ever. I am not afraid of commitment. I loathe boredom. I really enjoy my space and freedom. I am very genuine, loyal and honest. I am the kind of person who may want to take a fellowship in a far distant country or a vow of silence in a temple for a year at some point. That means that you need to be the kind of person who can enjoy being alone and are as passionate about your work and career as I am. You should also really enjoy physical intimacy and intellectual foreplay. I am also very expressive, experimental, and at times demanding. I require a lot of breathing room and may not respond right away. I am very ambitious and hope that you will not take offense if it takes quite a while for a response. I am prone to "disappearing" but it isn't because I don't care. I simply would rather focus my attention on professional and creative endeavors and I do not play games unless they are of the kinky variety. I am not possessive, jealous, or controlling. I can be quite giving, supportive, and protective. I do not fall in love or out of love very easily and I do possess tremendous staying power. I do believe in marriage and respect tradition but I aim to rebel against anything that stifles my vision of the future. I can make a wonderful companion and friend. I tend to get overwhelmed by the amount of social traffic I encounter on a daily level. I prize myself on introspection but can be very outgoing. I desire long-term friendship and depth in whatever I am doing. I enjoy intimacy and I am learning to be allergic to both my own bullshit and other peoples bullshit.

P.S. I can sometimes have a bit of trouble with initial eye contact and have been known to give pretty awkward hugs at times. Additionally, I've dating myself for quite a while and it has been going reasonably well. I am also deeply in love with myself but there is room for possibly someone like you as well :) I am an utter romantic...
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
If you are...

A LifeHacker, incredible developer, consultant, social/web/business analytics guru, polymath, math genius, Graphic/UI/UX Designers, Engineers, Hackers, musician, producer, film maker, angel investor, venture capitalist, artist, financial guru, you work with and love hedge funds, academic, a self-taught or self made individual who hacked their education/profession, scientist, doctor who hopes to pioneer their field of medicine, researcher, mentor, ethical lawyer, passionate law student, professor, supermodel, architect, entrepreneur, basketball enthusiast, lover of tennis, surfer, xtreme sports athlete, a genuine individual, pilot, space enthusiast, foodie, an eccentric, the brilliant, a genius, if you have Aspergers or Autism, the absolutely hilarious, and those who are down to go on an amazing adventure, (or any of the following who would like to be interviewed for a book i am writing.... a current or former Madam, Courtesan, Escort, Call Girl, Sexologist, Porn Star, Sugar Baby, Sugar Daddy, Dominatrix, and anyone else super interesting that falls into this rather unusual category that isn't creepy)

P.S. At some point I desire to learn more about Arduino projects. Additionally, I would probably like you if you study or possess expertise in the fields of BCI, UX, Graphic Design, Cyber Security, and other interests I have listed.

Bonus points if you speak another language very well or maybe French perfectly and like to whisper into the ears of pretty girls and take enjoyment in role playing.

I hope that you also hated "Little House On The Prairie" as a child. We would get along if you feel like you could be best friends with Karen Walker from Will & Grace. We would probably vibe if you ever liked that awkward goth girl who ate sandwiches made out of cereal in the move The Breakfast Club.

MANDATORY:
It is an absolute requirement to possess a passion for intellectual growth and expansion in every sense. You must have a highly evolved understanding and admiration of one or more of the following: Business, Global Politics, Entrepreneurship, Technology, Science, or Art. You must have exceptional grooming habits. Please take pride in your mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical health. You are a doer and a thinker.

SUMMARY!!!!:
We can only meet if you believe you are one of the baddest b*tches on the planet. You must be a lady or a gentleman with the manners of royalty. You should know how to act in every situation whether or not it's the Upper East Side, dining with the President, lost in a developing country, or at a warehouse party in Dumbo. You must always be gracious, amazing, professional, fierce, trustworthy, and overall f*cking awesome! You should be brilliant, passionate, and definitely down to party. I want friends that are versatile and full of life. It would be preferable if you enjoy flying planes and possess an interest in the unusual, erotic, and the exotic.