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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 24
Open relationship
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Weird but endearing kid with a twisted sense of humour and a tendency to push buttons. Good kisser. Occasionally vegetarian-ish. Loves debates, arguments. Leans toward the left side of the political spectrum, but always willing to hear from the other side. Loves grilled cheese sandwiches, traffic violations, and omitting subjects from sentences. Enjoys watching/critiquing films. Writes when he can focus. Laid-back and low-maintenance. Atheist, but not without occasional pangs of agnosticism. Shy at first, but once gets comfortable, never shuts up. Beware.

Talk to me on AIM: Monsieurxander.

I am opinionated, goofy, and sincere
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After years of city-hopping, I've settled in Portland. I might not stay forever, but this is the first place I've lived where I can see myself "ending up."

Aiming to go back to school in the near future.

In the meantime, doing my best to enjoy my life as it is now, savoring the small victories as they come.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading between the lines.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The beard.

Alternately a sly smirk and a cheesy grin.

I daydream. Intensely.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Candide (Voltaire); Y: The Last Man (Brian K. Vaughn); A Song of Ice and Fire (George R. R. Martin); Slaughterhouse-Five (Kurt Vonnegut); One Hundred Years of Solitude (Gabriel Garcia Marquez)

Movies: In the Mood for Love; Oldboy; Carrie; Unforgiven; Fargo; Alien; Millenium Actress; The Royal Tenenbaums; Sympathy for Lady Vengeance; Once Upon a Time in the West

Television: The Wire; Rome; Angel; I, Claudius; Buffy; Game of Thrones; Serial Experiments Lain

Music: Tom Waits; Interpol; TV on the Radio; Janelle Monae; The New Pornographers; Polysics; Crowded House; Daft Punk; They Might Be Giants

Foods: All things spicy (especially Thai), "greasy spoon" diner food, and occasionally foofy vegan cuisine
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food. Water. Shelter. Breathable air. Clothing. Sexual gratification.

I'm a simple kind of guy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Writing. But I rarely actually do it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're laid-back, open-minded, willing to try new things, open about your sexuality (enough to be affectionate in public) but not obsessed with it, and an all around fun person... and if you like to have a good time with a slightly weird guy.