Weird but endearing kid with a twisted sense of humour and a
tendency to push buttons. Good kisser. Occasionally vegetarian-ish.
Loves debates, arguments. Leans toward the left side of the
political spectrum, but always willing to hear from the other side.
Loves grilled cheese sandwiches, traffic violations, and omitting
subjects from sentences. Enjoys watching/critiquing films. Writes
when he can focus. Laid-back and low-maintenance. Atheist, but not
without occasional pangs of agnosticism. Shy at first, but once
gets comfortable, never shuts up. Beware.
Talk to me on AIM: Monsieurxander.
I am opinionated, goofy, and sincere
What I’m doing with my life
After years of city-hopping, I've settled in Portland. I might not
stay forever, but this is the first place I've lived where I can
see myself "ending up."
Aiming to go back to school in the near future.
In the meantime, doing my best to enjoy my life as it is now,
savoring the small victories as they come.
I’m really good at
Reading between the lines.
The first things people usually notice about me
Alternately a sly smirk and a cheesy grin.
I daydream. Intensely.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Candide (Voltaire); Y: The Last Man (Brian K. Vaughn); A
Song of Ice and Fire (George R. R. Martin); Slaughterhouse-Five
(Kurt Vonnegut); One Hundred Years of Solitude (Gabriel Garcia
Movies: In the Mood for Love; Oldboy; Carrie; Unforgiven; Fargo;
Alien; Millenium Actress; The Royal Tenenbaums; Sympathy for Lady
Vengeance; Once Upon a Time in the West
Television: The Wire; Rome; Angel; I, Claudius; Buffy; Game of
Thrones; Serial Experiments Lain
Music: Tom Waits; Interpol; TV on the Radio; Janelle Monae; The New
Pornographers; Polysics; Crowded House; Daft Punk; They Might Be
Foods: All things spicy (especially Thai), "greasy spoon" diner
food, and occasionally foofy vegan cuisine
The six things I could never do without
Food. Water. Shelter. Breathable air. Clothing. Sexual
I'm a simple kind of guy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing. But I rarely actually do it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
You're laid-back, open-minded, willing to try new things, open
about your sexuality (enough to be affectionate in public) but not
obsessed with it, and an all around fun person... and if you like
to have a good time with a slightly weird guy.