Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


44 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
***Update: I just moved to Portland and would love to meet some new people in my new town!***

I’m creative, open-minded and easygoing. I'm also a little dorky, a bit introverted and have a sarcastic sense of humor. If you have a wicked side, we will probably get along!

I love outdoor festivals (especially art and wine festivals), seeing live music, flea markets, dive bars and taking road trips. I'm also happy staying in with some good company, a cocktail and a movie. Or maybe spending the night with my myriad of art supplies. Want to join me?

Expensive toys and big houses are not important to me, I'm all about the simple things in life. I'm looking for someone who feels the same.

I'm a big animal lover, and have an adorable little dog that I'm crazy about. I'm also mostly vegetarian... I don't eat meat at all but love seafood! I don't expect you to give up meat, but I would love if you are open to trying vegetarian restaurants once in a while.

I think open and honest communication is one of the most important things in a relationship.

And... I love art -- looking at it, reading about it and making it. It would be great if you were up for hitting some galleries or playing with some paint!

And finally, some random things that just make me happy:
* an ice cold gin and tonic with a splash of grapefruit
* doggie playdates
* the smell of paint
* crispy belgian waffles
* singing in the car
* brunch (anyone for bottomless mimosas?)
* waking up without an alarm clock
* color
* people watching
* disco
* flip flops
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Getting ready to move to Portland after living in the Bay Area for over 30 years!

Working in the veterinary field.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being spontaneous.
Spelling. Plus I know the difference between you're and your like nobody's business.

Being thrifty, I love a good bargain!

I make a mean Bloody Mary! I've yet to find one that rivals mine.

What I'm not good at: dog training, apparently. Any suggestions?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my green eyes.
that I look younger than I am.
that I can be a little shy at first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anchorman, Office Space, 500 Days of Summer, zombie movies & other scary stuff, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Vanilla Sky, The Jerk, Three Amigos, When Harry Met Sally, Grease, Donnie Darko, Forgetting Sarah Marshall, Good Will Hunting, Boogie Nights. I'm probably forgetting a whole buncha good ones...

Sushi! Also Thai, Indian and pretty much anything that has vegetarian options. Except pasta. Sorry if that upsets anyone =)

More to come soon!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art supplies - I have boxes and boxes full of these...
Classic rock - it just makes ya feel good...
Affection - one of the best things in life...
My pup - my adorable little brat....
My Mini Cooper - she's a sexy machine...
Tofu - don't worry I won't make you eat it, unless you want to...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people do the things they do. My BA is in psychology, and even though I am not working in that field, the subject still fascinates me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at happy hour. Or listening to some live music. Or at a food truck. Or watching a movie.

Or painting. Or meeting some new Portland peeps who want to show me their favorite spots?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a terrible memory! If I forget something you tell me, it doesn't mean I don't care...

Also, I have a weakness for facial hair. Just sayin...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to show me some fun stuff to do in Portland!
You agree there is more to life than things.
You appreciate art.
You like dogs! If you don't like my dog, and vice versa, there might be an issue. :)
You want to meet up right away instead of exchanging endless messages. Might as well find out if we have any chemistry in person.
You are not "available" or "polyamorous".
You have room in your life to date.