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44 F San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I’m creative, open-minded and easygoing. I'm also a little dorky, a bit introverted and have a sarcastic sense of humor. If you have a wicked side, we will probably get along!

I love outdoor festivals (especially art and wine festivals), seeing live music, flea markets, dive bars and taking road trips. I'm also happy staying in with some good company, a cocktail and a movie. Or maybe spending the night with my myriad of art supplies. Want to join me?

Expensive toys and big houses are not important to me, I'm all about the simple things in life. I'm looking for someone who feels the same.

I'm a big animal lover, and have an adorable little dog that I'm crazy about. I'm also mostly vegetarian... I don't eat meat at all but love seafood! I don't expect you to give up meat, but I would love if you are open to trying vegetarian restaurants once in a while.

I think open and honest communication is one of the most important things in a relationship.

And... I love art -- looking at it, reading about it and making it. It would be great if you were up for hitting some galleries or playing with some paint!

And finally, some random things that just make me happy:
* an ice cold gin and tonic with a splash of grapefruit
* doggie playdates
* the smell of paint
* crispy belgian waffles
* singing in the car
* brunch (anyone for bottomless mimosas?)
* waking up without an alarm clock
* color
* people watching
* disco
* flip flops
I’m really good at
Being spontaneous.
Spelling. Plus I know the difference between you're and your like nobody's business.

Being thrifty, I love a good bargain!

I make a mean Bloody Mary! I've yet to find one that rivals mine.

What I'm not good at: dog training, apparently. Any suggestions?
The first things people usually notice about me
my green eyes.
that I look younger than I am.
that I can be a little shy at first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anchorman, Office Space, 500 Days of Summer, zombie movies & other scary stuff, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Vanilla Sky, The Jerk, Three Amigos, When Harry Met Sally, Grease, Donnie Darko, Forgetting Sarah Marshall, Good Will Hunting, Boogie Nights. I'm probably forgetting a whole buncha good ones...

Sushi! Also Thai, Indian and pretty much anything that has vegetarian options. Except pasta. Sorry if that upsets anyone =)

More to come soon!
The six things I could never do without
Art supplies - I have boxes and boxes full of these...
Classic rock - it just makes ya feel good...
Affection - one of the best things in life...
My pup - my adorable little brat....
My Mini Cooper - she's a sexy machine...
Tofu - don't worry I won't make you eat it, unless you want to...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why people do the things they do. My BA is in psychology, and even though I am not working in that field, the subject still fascinates me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably relaxing after a very long work week.

Or out for drinks. Or seeing a band. Or eating at the food trucks in San Jose.

Or painting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a terrible memory! If I forget something you tell me, it doesn't mean I don't care... =)

Also, I've seen Hall & Oates live in concert at least 5 times...

Also, I have a weakness for facial hair. Just sayin...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You agree there is more to life than things.
You appreciate art.
You like dogs! If you don't like my dog, and vice versa, there might be an issue. :)
You want to meet up right away instead of exchanging endless messages. Might as well find out if we have any chemistry in person.
You are not "available" or "polyamorous".
You have room in your life to date.