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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Oct 15
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I enjoy random creativity. I am Spock dreaming he's Baryshnikov. During the day, I speak in bits and bytes, but at night I count only in 8's as I do piqué turns.
What I’m doing with my life
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Update 2015: My soul has been captured by SoulCapturer. I'm no longer dating, but keeping my profile to make new friends and because I like OkCupid's quizzes and such. Local friends are awesome and I'd love to make friends in other countries as well!

In 2013, I decided to take control of my life. I'm refocusing it on the things that matter to me... starting my own business so that I can be in a better position to help improve the world in my own small way. And spending my time with such spiritual endeavors as aerial silks and acroyoga.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Shooting down aliens. pew pew! But only the bad ones and only if they really deserve it.

- Looking things up on the interwebs.

- making 3 point lists
The first things people usually notice about me
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One of my friends loves to introduce me as the 6' asian guy that does Irish dance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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What I love about Doctor Who is the fantastic storytelling, fantasy, humor, and it's often deeply inspirational.

Once Upon A Time is beautifully interwoven tapestry of fairytale characters.

Pushing Daisies and Amélie have phenomenal storytelling.

Gilmore Girls is quirky and funny and cute and exactly the way I think the world should really be.

Just Like Heaven and The Time Traveler's Wife because I'm a hopeless romantic.

And of course Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy and Monty Python and the Holy Grail because come on, it's British humor set in a Sci-Fi/Fantasy world.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
6. My iPhone has really become a way to navigate the world.
5. dim sum and Chicken tikka masala... yummy! (but not together, okay?)
4. Lasers to put on the heads of animals... what else are you going to do with them?
3. open spaces to dance in (even better if it's with a real dance floor!)
2. Inspirational people
1. My family & friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Life, the Universe, and Everything. But most importantly, what to have for lunch.
- What and how to teach my future kids.
- one day being able to come home to my best friend.
- whether I'll ever be able to do a double pirouette cleanly
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
letting my tights dry in the shower. You wanna know why? Because I'm BATMAN!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have this strange medical condition... every night I'll pass out for like 8 hours. I haven't figured it out yet... maybe I should see a doctor.

Seriously though, here's one for you... I was voted "most shy guy" of my high school class. And I recently gave a speech to a room full of 60+ strangers and was complimented on my speech giving skills

As you can see I'm a pretty open-book. No drama here.
You should message me if
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You're a sweet girl who's looking for a noncompetitive, non-macho guy.