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38 M San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:45am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm an engineer that loves to dance! But don't worry... though some may perceive my ways as eccentric, I've chosen to use this power for good... to help people, and to fight for truth, justice, and the american way!

I believe in trying to be a good person. And I enjoy manly things like watching Power Puff girls... I mean Professor Utonium, seriously! He created these super powered girls in a lab in his basement (in a totally non-creepy way) and still manages to play with them, teach them right from wrong, and tuck them in at night.

And of course, nothing makes me feel more manly than holding the hand of a cute girl.
What I’m doing with my life
In 2013, I decided to take control of my life. I'm refocusing it on the things that matter to me... starting my own business so that I can be in a better position to help improve the world in my own small way. And spending my time with such spiritual endeavors as aerial silks and acroyoga.
I’m really good at
- Shooting down aliens, but only the bad ones and only if they really deserve it. pew pew!

- doing just about anything. ;-) Well... provided I have the internet to look it up and plenty of practice. And you know what they say about engineers and dancers... we'll keep doing it until we get it right.
The first things people usually notice about me
One of my friends loves to introduce me as the 6' asian guy that does Irish dance.

I enjoy scifi, love dance, appreciate creativity, and have a weakness for girls with genuine kindness. I spend a lot of time studying ballet, jazz, and modern dance... I'm terrible at club dancing, but enjoy social dancing like Waltz and Swing and the occasional line dancing, though I haven't done much of it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My current favorite tv shows are Doctor Who, Once Upon A Time, So You Think You Can Dance, and Orphan Black. Past favorites include Pushing Daisies, Dead Like Me, and of course Buffy the Vampire Slayer and manly shows like Gilmore Girls and Jane by Design.

Favorite book has to be Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy. Ender's Game and the Uglies books are also up there.

Favorite movies include: Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Amélie, The Hunger Games, The Hogfather, and Just Like Heaven.

It's been a while since I've seen much good anime, but some of my all-time favorites are: Escaflowne, and Nausicaa.

As for music, I'm really enjoying the Mediaeval Baebes, but Loreena McKinnett, Barrage, and Avril Lavigne are staples. I'm finding I rather like Selena Gomez's voice as well. There's also no substituting all of Weird Al's works.
The six things I could never do without
6. My iPhone. It's my gateway to the interwebs
5. dim sum and Chicken tikka masala... yummy! (but not together, okay?)
4. Lasers to put on the heads of animals... what else are you going to do with them?
3. open spaces to dance in (even better if it's with a real dance floor!)
2. Inspirational people
1. My family & friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Life, the Universe, and Everything. But most importantly, what to have for lunch.
- What and how to teach my future kids
- one day being able to come home to my best friend.
On a typical Friday night I am
letting my tights dry in the shower. You wanna know why? Because I'm BATMAN!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have this strange medical condition... every night I'll pass out for like 8 hours. I haven't figured it out yet... maybe I should see a doctor.

Seriously though, here's even 3 for you:
- I was voted "most shy guy" of my high school class
- I recently gave a speech to a room full of 60+ people and was complimented on my speech giving skills
- I have a weakness for girls with small chests (yup, I'm an outlier)

As you can see I'm a pretty open-book. No drama here.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're a sweet girl who's looking for a noncompetitive, non-macho guy. You want a relationship where we're both equals and doesn't matter who wears the pants... because let's face it, relationships are better when no one wears pants ;-)