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38 M San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:45pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm an engineer that loves to dance! But don't worry... though some may perceive my ways as eccentric, I've chosen to use this power for good... to help people, and to fight for truth, justice, and the american way!
What I’m doing with my life
In 2013, I decided to take control of my life. I'm refocusing it on the things that matter to me... starting my own business so that I can be in a better position to help improve the world in my own small way. And spending my time with such spiritual endeavors as aerial silks and acroyoga.
I’m really good at
- Shooting down aliens, but only the bad ones and only if they really deserve it. pew pew!

- Looking things up on the interwebs.

- making 3 point lists
The first things people usually notice about me
One of my friends loves to introduce me as the 6' asian guy that does Irish dance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
What I love about Doctor Who is that it's excellent fantasy and often deeply inspirational.

Once Upon A Time is beautifully interwoven tapestry of fairytale characters.

Pushing Daisies and Amélie have phenomenal storytelling.

Gilmore Girls is quirky and funny and cute and exactly the way I think the world should really be.

Just Like Heaven and The Time Traveler's Wife because I'm a hopeless romantic.

And of course Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy and Monty Python and the Holy Grail because come on, it's British humor set in a Sci-Fi/Fantasy world.
The six things I could never do without
6. My iPhone has really become a way to navigate the world.
5. dim sum and Chicken tikka masala... yummy! (but not together, okay?)
4. Lasers to put on the heads of animals... what else are you going to do with them?
3. open spaces to dance in (even better if it's with a real dance floor!)
2. Inspirational people
1. My family & friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Life, the Universe, and Everything. But most importantly, what to have for lunch.
- What and how to teach my future kids.
- one day being able to come home to my best friend.
- whether I'll ever be able to do a double pirouette cleanly
On a typical Friday night I am
letting my tights dry in the shower. You wanna know why? Because I'm BATMAN!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have this strange medical condition... every night I'll pass out for like 8 hours. I haven't figured it out yet... maybe I should see a doctor.

Seriously though, here's one for you... I was voted "most shy guy" of my high school class. And I recently gave a speech to a room full of 60+ strangers and was complimented on my speech giving skills

As you can see I'm a pretty open-book. No drama here.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're a sweet girl who's looking for a noncompetitive, non-macho guy.