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31 Wellington, New Zealand Woman


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  • Ages 24–44
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My details

Last online
May 1
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Dislikes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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I have been described as a hippy goth. I can be a bit of a nerd too, which seems almost mandatory for this place!

I love making crafty things, opshopping, learning stuff (like trying to learn sewing, driving theory and about computer hardware at the moment). I am not sure how into 'art' I am since being at art school for a long time, but I am still driven by the urge to make things and to think about how the world works.

I really like camping and outdoorsy things, however the lack of money and time has made it really hard to do lately. I did get away for a week recently and got to use my new tent which was awesome! I love beach and bush walks and skinny dipping and that sorta jazz, but I am not really hardcore or fit enough for tramping/mountain climbing/biking currently.

I would like to be more into reading but too addicted to the internet to get through many books. But I do get into mainly novels, cultural theory and sci fi.

I consider myself pagan and more vaguely spiritual than religious.

While I am not currently activist, I am a feminist, queer, trying hard to be kind and respectful of other people's differences. I am not perfect but I really would like to be better at that.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am studying again. It seems to be the main thing I have done with my life so far. Personally I can't think of anything I would rather have done- tho some travel would be nice in the future too.
I’m really good at
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finding worthless treasure- like shells, branches and secondhand pants.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am kinda tall have piercings and have often have interesting coloured hair. People say I have a friendly face. Friendliness gets you far in life, I reckon.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I consume a massive amount of media products and have a terrible memory so it is difficult to define what should go on these lists. There are probably many more things I could add.


Ian M Banks, Clan of the Cave bear series, Heinlein, Atwood, The Secret History, Ginsberg, (this list is under construction)


I watch lots of movies. Some I have enjoyed recently or are favorites include:
Transfer, Time Crimes, Weekend, The Holy Mountain, The Neverending Story, Pandorum, Hair, Angels in America (I think it's technically a miniseries), Soylent Green, Zachariah, Antiviral, Another Earth, Forbidden Planet, Megacities.


Obsessed about Adventure Time.


things that might be found on my ipod-
P J Harvey, Patti Smith, Outkast, Murs, David Bowie, Amanda Palmer, Frank Zappa, Nick Cave, Gogol Bordello, Tom Waits, Bjork, Lou Reed, Manu Chao, Lykke Li, Neutral Milk Hotel, Arcade Fire, New Order, Flying Lotus, Nick Cave, Pentangle, Fiona Apple, Steeleye Spam, Lee Scratch Perry, Le Tigre, Dead Can Dance, Siouxie and the Banshees, Television, Patti Smith... I could go on here for a couple of pages but I won't.


Oysters and rock melon (served sequentially)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how human culture works.
how my own brain and other people's brains work.
what's for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with friends at a gig or some such or else I am home with the cat and some TV shows. Either works.
You should message me if
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You have similar interests and attitudes and want to make a new friend to chat about stuff with.