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39 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:57pm
Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, White
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.


First and foremost (for all the perfectionist) I knew it was Du-Jur when I made it, this was meant to be ephemeral.

A little more about me
I grew up in a family of debaters, but not in the conditional podium straddling way. And I enjoy sharing ideas with open minds just as much as grinding the ole axe. This is of course as long as I don't loose any extremities in the process. I’m terminologically aware (most of the time) and constantly over stimulated by life (when of course dreaming is out of the question). I'm still one that enjoys a mid day nap.

1. As different as you think you are, think again. That picture of you in Peru, skydiving, or with a big cat tells me you may be a victim of trending. Often we do many things the same because those are things we are allowed to immerse ourselves in. Notice what you do and how you do it, you'll find that we aren't so different you and I.

2. I like people who turn to a problem so they can understand it. Those who face the wind, and can look in the mirror and still love themselves. Not knowingly forgetting the things they should remember.

3. Since actually dating someone that I meet here is on the lower end of the bell curve I will remain optimistically skeptical, but it won't deny the fun we could have as long as we go dutch and you have no gentlemanly expectations of me. Simply put if neither party has any expectations it occurs to me that a real date may actually be fun instead of the endless stream of disappointments that eventually becomes irredeemable (awkward).

4. And that old adage that I should look inward, well I do everyday. I make changes to facilitate people all of the time. But I'm baffled why the outcome is the same. It seems to me that people cannot honestly communicate, and delusional placement of how I'm ideologically perceived can cloud judgment and fizzle expectation. So clarity is key, know thy self (TEMET NOSCE) then know me.

There are plenty more wonderful things to know about me and web sites are awful at conveying with accuracy a person’s inner soul, conviction, smell, taste, morals, etc etc etc... In addition to that I enjoy a very wide range of activities and accept new things everyday, but yes just like you I am picky about certain things, and no that shouldn't stop you from calling it an experience and moving ahead with your life. I'm also very passionate and have had enough experiences to know what I want in life, this allows me to be very transparent and forthright with people. And additionally is also where I harvest my creativity. Where do you harvest yours?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Thinking of big things in little spaces, big ideas with little overhead, and large accomplishments with small endeavors.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
eyes, tallness, eyebrows, ridiculous expressions... oh and my lips..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
IT related books (Windows, Mac, Linux, and Cisco related material, Objective C)
Books on marginalized inventors (Tesla, Gordon Gould, Tucker, Delorean)

I love sushi (poor unsustainable fishing habits)
If I'm not sipping on Coffee it's homemade chai or an occasional energy drink. Whilst reading Online news or my KindleMX
Movies include: airplane, the naked gun, and the fifth element. Basically either Sci Fi, Comedy or both. I watch tonnes of documentaries, and although they seem fatalistic I prefer knowing a thing than happily believing what I'm spoon fed. (silly media)

Music Sample:
Roots Manuva
Eddie Harris (cold duck time)
The Fugees
Public Enemy
Good Electroswing
sophisticated dubstep
Mongo Santamaria
much much more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how much time I spend thinking
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
trying to out pinky my brain.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book, you just have to ask the right way.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like to hike, perhaps even camp.
You have your own life, but may find interfacing with mine wonderful.
you recognize the difference between idolatry and reason.
You cannot delineate between dressing up or down.
You've dated more than just brown guys.
You can tolerate verbose mental exercises into obscurity.
Sex is a competition, and love is a currency.
Or you just have a playful nature, but with a managerial spirit.
You're not close to putting your best foot forward on your profile.
If you're not on this site to aggregate blog content.
If you are a good communicator.