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39 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:19pm
Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, White
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
First and foremost (for all the perfectionist)I knew it was Du-Jur when I made it, this was meant to be ephemeral.

Know me better stalk me.

I grew up in the bay area (Oakland).
Oakland is a huge city with many facets if you care to know.
I love learning about people, places, and things.
I enjoy word play, and spirited conversation.
Chess is my favorite game.
Life can be so snarktacular.

After being single for three years, and dating on okcupid for an equal amount of time I've noticed some disturbing trends.

1. If you're on here either you have deleterious past or you live in the boondocks with a limited selection of bachelors. Or your gay friends really aren't helping you at all. (tell me the story about your gay friend that made out with you again).
2. You will be either totally enamored by me or you're playing the field. But I will notice it and when you give me a nebulous answer I will already know I can't trust you. In modern social circles this would be associated with emotional intelligence. But I'd like to stick to real intelligence. Empirical intelligence that is. And if you're a flunky trying talk yourself into something, then you can just as easily talk yourself out. I want no part in either experience.
3. As different as you think you are, think again. That picture of you in peru, skydiving, or with a big cat tells me you've lost touch with the big picture. Example: Who takes a picture with the space shuttle? Please observe your environment and pay attention to trending.
4. If you've taken pictures from a strange angle or omit pictures of your whole person, then automagically it tells me that is what you loath about yourself. It's crystal clear, so you're trying to fool someone?
5. Almost every date I've gone on, the dates seem to be surprised that I'm the actual height listed. Desperate single men are isolated by standards that most women shouldn't have, but if we're playing that game I'll put it on the table (I'm really six one). Everyone is wasting their time.
6. If you're diving nose deep into some exercise or physical activities to emancipate yourself from your previous relationship. Well that's not ganna work. Because you're not dealing with your issues you're running away from them. Keep running, please stay away from me. Thanks
7. Since actually dating someone that I meet here is on the lower end of the bell curve I will remain cynical, but it won't deny the fun we could have as long as we go dutch and you have no gentlemanly expectations of me. Because a real woman puts out.(j/k)... So if neither party has any expectations it occurs to me that a real date may actually be fun instead of the endless stream of disappointments that I happened upon.
8. And that old adage that I should look inward, well I do everyday. I make changes to facilitate people all of the time. But I'm baffled why the outcome is the same. It seems to me that people cannot honestly communicate, and delusional placement of how I'm ideologically perceived can cloud judgment and fizzle expectation. So clarity is key, know thy self then know me.
What I’m doing with my life
Thinking of big things in little spaces, big ideas with little overhead, and large accomplishments with small endeavors.
I’m really good at
Lots of things.
The first things people usually notice about me
eyes, tallness, eyebrows, ridiculous expressions... oh and my lips..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
IT related books (Windows, Mac, Linux, and Cisco related material)
Books on marginalized inventors (Tesla, Gordon Gould)

I love sushi (poor unsustainable fishing habits)
If I'm not sipping on Coffee it's homemade chai or an occasional energy drink. Whilst reading Online news or my KindleMX
Movies include: airplane, the naked gun, and the fifth element. Basically either Sci Fi, Comedy or both. I watch tonnes of documentaries, and although they seem fatalistic I prefer knowing a thing then happily believing what I'm spoon fed.

Music Sample:
Roots Manuva
Eddie Harris (cold duck time)
The Fugees
Public Enemy
Good Electroswing
sophisticated dubstep
Mongo Santamaria
much much more.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how much time I spend thinking
On a typical Friday night I am
trying to out pinky my brain.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book, you just have to ask the right way.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you like to hike, perhaps even camp.
You have your own life, but may find interfacing with mine wonderful.
you recognize the difference between idolatry and reason.
You cannot delineate between dressing up or down.
You've dated more than just brown guys.
You can tolerate verbose mental exercises into obscurity.
Sex is a competition, and love is a currency.
Or you just have a playful nature, but with a managerial spirit.
You're not close to putting your best foot forward on your profile.
If you're not on this site to aggregate blog content.
If you are a good communicator.