flowers and gardens
open your lips
the taste of honey
THAT is what i'm looking for. you? want that kind of Passion & Affection? will you also Let it in, Nurture it, go to effort to keep it?
tl;dr version: Cultured! Very liberal! playful, passionate, Ready to partner. sks Same in a maybe quirky, definitely unbearded, slenderish guy. any kids 13+
i'm kinda wacky, but more straight than most wacky folks. i have my biting moments - especially in online discussions - but i actively work on being kind, & choose to overlook many negative aspects of people/situations. i also avoid holier than thou-ness. i have strong opinions - from years of contemplation - & don't use pussyfoot-around 'feminine' language. there's a bundle of contradictions, and i'm flawed by any measure. But - day after day, few people are as collaborative, flexible about the endless little stuff, respectful, & NON passive-aggressive. And few are as self aware and insightful.
people tend to find me fairly fascinating. i get sincerely smiled at a Lot, & a share of puzzled looks. i have an uplifting take on things, but at times get really down about humanity. i'm an introvert who has self-molded into Partial extroversion. i can get along with introverts &extroverts, but really hyper folks wear me out. i founded an organization to take over the world & bring on the New UtopiaTM. we're looking for ambassadors! It's the American Family Happily Institute - found on face place, uboobtube, &soon, taking the show on the road in Boston parks. http://youtu.be/JHnA39lEHcY
i Love culture. it's my #1 fun. i like to hang out with those who are into culture (as audience is fine) so we can have great conversations. great conversations are my #1 sexy. i'm in love with aesthetics & beauty, but the most important things to me are Far below the surface. i seek someone similarly swimming in the depths. i get along with folks who are politically Aware & Very Liberal - but not libertarian, conspiritorial, or Deeply cynical/negative. cynicism is like salt - a little, it's flavoring. too much - it's distasteful.
about looks /attraction:
i have a specific orientation: towards sometimes quirky, always fairly slender men (runner/tennis build, not football/stocky), w/out a permanent hairy face. think: leonard cohen, barack obama, anderson cooper, lance armstrong.
thinking, deep, evolving people Yes, of course can have basic 'chemistry' orientations - but around details - are more concerned with Insides. if you fixate on intimate hair removal, high heels, or size 0-3 as opposed to 6-8 (1% of women over 30 vs 5 to 15%), we're not a match.
i'm not currently rearing kids. mine (1) is an adult. i'd prefer to date someone w/out kids <13. if you want new kids - I'm not having babies. i'd love to adopt children from foster care someday, but only if the fates align.