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46 F Quincy, MA

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5′ 3″ (1.60m)
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Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
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Likes cats

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My self-summary
Show me your face
I crave
flowers and gardens
open your lips
I crave
the taste of honey
~ Rumi

THAT is what i'm looking for. you? want that kind of Passion & Affection? will you also Let it in, Nurture it, go to effort to keep it?

tl;dr version: Cultured! Very liberal! playful, passionate, Ready to partner. sks Same in a maybe quirky, definitely unbearded, slenderish guy. any kids 13+

i'm kinda wacky, but more straight than most wacky folks. i have my biting moments - especially in online discussions - but i actively work on being kind, & choose to overlook many negative aspects of people/situations. i also avoid holier than thou-ness. i have strong opinions - from years of contemplation - & don't use pussyfoot-around 'feminine' language. there's a bundle of contradictions, and i'm flawed by any measure. But - day after day, few people are as collaborative, flexible about the endless little stuff, respectful, & NON passive-aggressive. And few are as self aware and insightful.

people tend to find me fairly fascinating. i get sincerely smiled at a Lot, & a share of puzzled looks. i have an uplifting take on things, but at times get really down about humanity. i'm an introvert who has self-molded into Partial extroversion. i can get along with introverts &extroverts, but really hyper folks wear me out. i founded an organization to take over the world & bring on the New UtopiaTM. we're looking for ambassadors! It's the American Family Happily Institute - found on face place, uboobtube, &soon, taking the show on the road in Boston parks.

about interests:
i Love culture. it's my #1 fun. i like to hang out with those who are into culture (as audience is fine) so we can have great conversations. great conversations are my #1 sexy. i'm in love with aesthetics & beauty, but the most important things to me are Far below the surface. i seek someone similarly swimming in the depths. i get along with folks who are politically Aware & Very Liberal - but not libertarian, conspiritorial, or Deeply cynical/negative. cynicism is like salt - a little, it's flavoring. too much - it's distasteful.

about looks /attraction:
i have a specific orientation: towards sometimes quirky, always fairly slender men (runner/tennis build, not football/stocky), w/out a permanent hairy face. think: leonard cohen, barack obama, anderson cooper, lance armstrong.

thinking, deep, evolving people Yes, of course can have basic 'chemistry' orientations - but around details - are more concerned with Insides. if you fixate on intimate hair removal, high heels, or size 0-3 as opposed to 6-8 (1% of women over 30 vs 5 to 15%), we're not a match.

about kids:
i'm not currently rearing kids. mine (1) is an adult. i'd prefer to date someone w/out kids <13. if you want new kids - I'm not having babies. i'd love to adopt children from foster care someday, but only if the fates align.
What I’m doing with my life
i'm trying to escape the cage of a design business and fly into the air of an art career.
I’m really good at
philosophizing. satire. conceptual art.
The first things people usually notice about me
if i'm 'on' - my ineffable magnetism. if i'm off - i'm flying under the radar, and usually succeed in not being noticed much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i like
cocktail parties, theatre, unusual performances.
world music, 88.9 WERS.
stephen colbert, smart cars, sushi.
green tea mochi, coconut ice cream, dark chocolate.
black & white movies, robert maplethorpe.
louise bourgeois, andy warhol.
the smell of a woodshop.
dr. who, startrek, skeeball.
dancing. the beach after dark.
The six things I could never do without
are the 6 Secrets to Happily: Science, Sex, Psychology, Culture, Exploration, and Games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
moving from point a to point b. taking over the world thru comedy.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing art, looking at art, working, dinner with friends, swaying in the ocean breeze on the porch hammock ...

but one way or another, always evolving. -
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i am a big softie who can tear up at advertisements, random songs, news stories...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 39–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
oh hai! sex is Awesome & i love it but i'm only looking for it in the context of a relationship - and with men over 39 only kthkx.

if - you tell me something FRESH. INTERESTING.

if - you ARE the droid i'm looking for - interests (culture!) - politics (liberal!!) - looks (rather slender! non-furry!)


if you're conservative (including 'strong fiscal conservatives' or 'government/regulations are bad'), forced birther (non pro choice), or gun "enthusiast" (against all gun safety regulation ie, gun nut) or are a libertarian, you will need to find a woman who shares your views that females and gays are inferior or about the awesomeness of the wild west, people dying from capitalism unfettered and red in tooth and claw, or somali libertarian paradise! yay! also, good luck with that.

i Am open to people 'outside the edges' of my wishlist, but not opposites. opposites include: current/recent military/police; stocky/heavy build, permanent facial hair; no cultural interests; >1.5 hours' drive from boston; <37; in a couple; communist/ anarchist /truther /anti vaxxer; S/M lifestyle; more than 1 child <14, any children <12. Someone Else is probably out there for you.