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48 Quincy, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42-62
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 15
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Average build
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i'm a lot more straight than most wacky folks. i actively work to be kind. i Choose to "overlook" many negatives, and i don't care about most of the little stuff - and most of the stuff is little. life can be a lot less complicated. i do have strong opinions, and i don't pussyfoot-around. i strive for communication balance: transparency & respect, but not over-processed. drama is boring over 40.

i have a comedy-variety show featuring puppets, among other unusual endeavors, but i am not my characters.

about interests:
i Love culture. it's my #1 fun. i'm in love with aesthetics & beauty, but the really important things to me are Far below the surface. i get along best with the politically Aware & Very Liberal - but not libertarian, conspiritorial, or Deeply cynical/negative.

about looks /attraction:
i have chemistry w/ sometimes quirky, always fairly slender men (runner/tennis build, not football/stocky), without a hairy face. ie: leonard cohen, barack obama, anderson cooper, lance armstrong.

deep, evolving people Yes, can have basic 'chemistry' orientations - but - are most concerned with Insides. if you're hung up on intimate hair removal or barbi style, we're not a match.

about kids:
mine (1) is an adult. i prefer not dating anyone currently in a stage of life with kids under 13.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i'm soaring into the air of an art career - without a net.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creating win-win situations
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
if i'm 'on' - my ineffable magnetism. if i'm off - i'm flying under the radar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
sushi, coconut ice cream, Salvadoran enchiladas, cilantro
ginger beer, hard cider, liquers, malbec
it's a wonderful life, defending your life, i <3 huckabees
WERS, WUMB, music from around the world
the little prince, sinclear lewis, edith wharton
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
are the 6 Secrets to Happily: Science, Sex, Psychology, Culture, Exploration, and Games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to communicate from a place of compassion
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
looking at art or engrossed in an interesting conversation

but one way or another, always evolving. (but i am not ani difranco ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i never wanted to do comedy and play with puppets, it just worked out that way
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you ARE the droid i'm looking for - interests (culture!) - politics (liberal!!) - looks (rather slender! non-furry!)

dating is not my job, thus i cannot reply to every note, since so many are inappropriate. generic one-liners on the 'how you doing' spectrum, copy-pastes in the spam vein, random compliments on physical presence, and empty profiles will not inspire a reply. strike up a conversation.


i'm looking for intellectual And chemistry compatibility. i'm currently building a lot of new friendships and not interested in building new platonic friendships solely thru meeting on this portal.

I am currently in a non-monogamous partnership.

if you're the opposite of what i'm looking for, this will also not inspire a reply, so please don't waste either of our time or energy. the right person is out there for you elsewhere. seriously, i wish everyone the best, but this is not a catalog, and you don't get to have anyone specific who strikes your eye. if we both are interested, that will be great, if not, that's not an insult to you. it's just you not being the flavor i'm looking for.

Opposites include: current/recent military/police; STOCKY/heavy build/football player body structure, permanent facial hair; no cultural interests; >1.5 hours' drive from boston; <39; anti vaxxer, 911 truther, food obsessions; lifestyle S/M; children <13; conservative or libertarian