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47 Quincy, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 21
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Likes cats
My self-summary
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can you come out to play? and are you ready for a real partner - someone you can lean together with?

tl;dr version: Cultured! Very liberal! playful, passionate, Ready to partner. sks Same in a maybe quirky, definitely unbearded, slenderish guy. any kids 13+

i'm a little wacky, yes. but a lot more straight than most wacky folks. i have my grouchy moments - but i actively work to be kind. i Choose to "overlook" many negatives, and i don't care about most of the little stuff - and most of the stuff is little. so life can be a lot less complicated around me. yes, i do have strong opinions, and i don't use pussyfoot-around language. and, i'm flawed by any measure. But - day after day, few folks are as easy and as interesting to hang out with. i strive for communication balance: transparency & respect, but not over-processed. cuz ugh. that shit gets old.

i have a comedy-variety show featuring puppets.

about interests:
i Love culture. it's my #1 fun. i hang out with others into culture (audience is fine) - we have great conversations - my #1 turnon. i'm in love with aesthetics & beauty, but the really important things to me are Far below the surface. i seek someone also swimming in the depths. i get along best with the politically Aware & Very Liberal - but not libertarian, conspiritorial, or Deeply cynical/negative.

about looks /attraction:
i have chemistry w/ sometimes quirky, always fairly slender men (runner/tennis build, not football/stocky), w/out a hairy face. ie: leonard cohen, barack obama, anderson cooper, lance armstrong.

deep, evolving people Yes, can have basic 'chemistry' orientations - but - are most concerned with Insides. if you're hung up on intimate hair removal or barbi style, we're not a match.

about kids:
mine (1) is an adult. i'd prefer to date someone w/out kids <13.
What I’m doing with my life
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i'm soaring into the air of an art career - without a net.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creating win-win situations
The first things people usually notice about me
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if i'm 'on' - my ineffable magnetism. if i'm off - i'm flying under the radar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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sushi, green tea mochi, coconut ice cream, dark chocolate,Ethiopian food, Salvadoran enchiladas, cilantro, ginger beer, hard cider, liquers, malbec
it's a wonderful life, defending your life, i <3 huckabees
WERS, indie rock, WUMB, funk, afropop
too many books. a few - the little prince, sinclear lewis, edith wharton.... supersad true love story
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
are the 6 Secrets to Happily: Science, Sex, Psychology, Culture, Exploration, and Games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to help move the world forward .00000000000001% faster than it would already go; how to communicate from a place of compassion
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
looking at art or engrossed in an interesting conversation

but one way or another, always evolving. (but i am not ani difranco ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i never wanted to do comedy and play with puppets, it just worked out that way
You should message me if
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if you ARE the droid i'm looking for - interests (culture!) - politics (liberal!!) - looks (rather slender! non-furry!)

i know first messages R hard. but i can't make dating a full time job, so: generic one-liners on the 'hi how are you doing' spectrum, copy-pastes in the spam vein, random compliments on one's physical presence, and empty profiles are uninspiring of a reply. it's really hard to see if someone is likely to be a good match and i can't take time to meet everyone in person. let's help each other find each other! - by making a bit of effort and being creative &fun.


i'm looking for intellectual compatibility & someone who's also seeking a life partner. no, i don't want to immediately lock someone down or give up the freedom & independence i value. but i can't date someone who is not in a space to Enjoy the "be vulnerable and bond" life-moment.

i am in a life stage where i'm exploring Lots of new friendships &don't have time to explore platonic friendships with people i meet thru online dating, because of the volume. if we'd make great friends hopefully we'll meet by chance IRL and can explore friendship possibilities then!

for dating: i Am open to people 'outside the edges' of my wishlist, but not the opposite of what i'm looking for.

OPPOSITES include: current/recent military/police; STOCKY/heavy build/football player body structure, permanent facial hair; no cultural interests; >1.5 hours' drive from boston; <36; anti vaxxer, 911 truther, food avoidance/illness obsessions; lifestyle S/M; more than 1 child <14, any children <12; conservative or libertarian