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46 F Quincy, MA

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5′ 3″ (1.60m)
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Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
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My self-summary
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Show me your face
I crave
flowers and gardens
open your lips
I crave
the taste of honey
~ Rumi

THAT is what i'm looking for. want that kind of Passion & Affection? will you let it in? nurture it?

tl;dr version: Cultured! Very liberal! playful, passionate, Ready to partner. sks Same in a maybe quirky, definitely unbearded, slenderish guy. any kids 13+

i'm kinda wacky, but more straight than most wacky folks. i have my biting moments - but work to be kind. i choose to overlook many negatives. i also avoid being holier than thou. i have strong opinions of many years' standing, & don't pussyfoot-around with 'feminine' language. there's a bundle of contradictions, and i'm flawed by any measure. But - day after day, few people are as collaborative, flexible about the endless "stuff," respectful, & NON passive-aggressive. And few are as self aware and insightful.

i get sincerely smiled at a Lot, & a share of puzzled looks. i have an uplifting take on things, but at times get really down about humanity. i'm an introvert who has self-molded into Partial extroversion. my friends are mostly introverts with a few extroverts - but really hyper folks wear me out.

i founded an organization to take over the world & bring on the New UtopiaTM.

about interests:
i Love culture. it's my #1 fun. i hang out with others into culture (as audience is fine) - we have great conversations - my #1 sexy. i'm in love with aesthetics & beauty, but the most important things to me are Far below the surface. i seek someone also swimming in the depths. i get along with folks who are politically Aware & Very Liberal - but not libertarian, conspiritorial, or Deeply cynical/negative.

about looks /attraction:
i have chemistry with sometimes quirky, always fairly slender men (runner/tennis build, not football/stocky), w/out a permanent hairy face. samples: leonard cohen, barack obama, anderson cooper, lance armstrong.

deep, evolving people Yes, can have basic 'chemistry' orientations - but - are more concerned with Insides. if you're hung up on intimate hair removal, high heels, or barbi style, we're not a match.

about kids:
i'm not rearing any. mine (1) is an adult. i'd prefer to date someone w/out kids <13. i am good with teens. also - not having any more babies. i'd love to adopt children from foster care someday, If fates align.
What I’m doing with my life
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i'm trying to escape the cage of a design business and fly into the air of an art career.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
solving problems efficiently and calmly. recently i got a queen box spring down two full stairwells and around three major corners, by myself. i get stuff done.
The first things people usually notice about me
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if i'm 'on' - my ineffable magnetism. if i'm off - i'm flying under the radar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i like
cocktail parties, theatre, unusual performances.
world music, 88.9 WERS.
stephen colbert, smart cars, sushi.
green tea mochi, coconut ice cream, dark chocolate.
black & white movies, robert maplethorpe.
louise bourgeois, andy warhol.
the smell of a woodshop.
dr. who, startrek, skeeball.
dancing. the beach after dark.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
are the 6 Secrets to Happily: Science, Sex, Psychology, Culture, Exploration, and Games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
moving from point a to point b. taking over the world thru comedy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing art, looking at art, working, dinner with friends, house projects, swaying in the ocean breeze on the porch hammock ...

but one way or another, always evolving. -
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am a big softie who can tear up at advertisements, random songs, news stories...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 39–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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if you ARE the droid i'm looking for - interests (culture!) - politics (liberal!!) - looks (rather slender! non-furry!)


to sexy dudes: sex is Awesome & i love it but i'm only looking for it in the context of a relationship - with men over 39 kthkx.


finally, WHY DO YOU CONSERVATIVES KEEP WRITING? i will Never date a conservative - not even a 'fiscal conservative' - these ideas Offend me. abortion, guns, homosexuality, 'creationism,' social safety nets... it's not rocket science, i can tell. i know, it's a blue state, pickings are few. i know the good deep inside of you is attracted to fun-loving liberal women. how about becoming liberal? or celibate. that's probably what your god is telling you.

i Am open to people 'outside the edges' of my wishlist, but not opposites. i reply (at Least w/ polite decline) to all inquiries except from opposites.

OPPOSITES include: current/recent military/police; STOCKY/heavy build/football player body structure, permanent facial hair; no cultural interests; >1.5 hours' drive from boston; <37; in a couple; truther/anti vaxxer; S/M / trans; more than 1 child <14, any children <12.

it makes sense to seek out those we'll actually fit with, n'est-ce pas?