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47 Quincy, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 20
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Show me your face -
I crave flowers and gardens
open your lips -
I crave the taste of honey
~ Rumi

THAT is what i'm looking for. do you want that kind of Passion & Affection? will you let it in? work to keep it?

tl;dr version: Cultured! Very liberal! playful, passionate, Ready to partner. sks Same in a maybe quirky, definitely unbearded, slenderish guy. any kids 13+

i'm a little wacky, but more straight than most wacky folks. i have my grouchy moments - but work to be kind. i Choose to "overlook" many negatives, and try not to be holier-than-thou. over many years of contemplation & research I've formulated strong opinions, & i don't use pussyfoot-around language. there's a bundle of contradictions, and i'm flawed by any measure. But - day after day, few folks are as collaborative, flexible about the little stuff, & NON passive-aggressive.

i get a lot of broad smiles from folks, and a good share of puzzled looks. i choose to walk on the sunny side of the street, but sometimes get really down about humanity. i can say the 3 most beautiful words: 'you were right.'

my organization will help bring about the New UtopiaTM.

about interests:
i Love culture. it's my #1 fun. i hang out with others into culture (audience is fine) - we have great conversations - my #1 sexy. i'm in love with aesthetics & beauty, but the most important things to me are Far below the surface. i seek someone also swimming in the depths. i get along best with the politically Aware & Very Liberal - but not libertarian, conspiritorial, or Deeply cynical/negative.

about looks /attraction:
i have chemistry w/ sometimes quirky, always fairly slender men (runner/tennis build, not football/stocky), w/out a beard. ie: leonard cohen, barack obama, anderson cooper, lance armstrong.

deep, evolving people Yes, can have basic 'chemistry' orientations - but - are most concerned with Insides. if you're hung up on intimate hair removal or barbi style, we're not a match.

about kids:
mine (1) is an adult. i'd prefer to date someone w/out kids <13.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i'm Escaping the cage of a design business and soaring into the air of an art career - without a net.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
solving problems efficiently and calmly. bringing out the best in people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
if i'm 'on' - my ineffable magnetism. if i'm off - i'm flying under the radar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i like people who talk about serious matters
people who can also play and have fun
people who can open up to love and intimacy
people who don't complain very much about little day to day stuff
people who don't criticize others' looks
people who have an Existing strong interest in arts & culture
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
are the 6 Secrets to Happily: Science, Sex, Psychology, Culture, Exploration, and Games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to help move the world forward .00000000000001% faster than it would already go; how to communicate from a place of compassion; how to communicate criticism (like in political discussions) without seeming patronizing or holier-than-thou.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working on the project of a lifetime, or, taking a much needed break to go look at art or to commune with friend/s ...

but one way or another, always evolving. -
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am a big softie who can tear up at advertisements, the news...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you ARE the droid i'm looking for - interests (culture!) - politics (liberal!!) - looks (rather slender! non-furry!)


i'm looking for intellectual compatibility & someone who's also seeking a life partner. not couples, hookups, etc.

i Am open to people 'outside the edges' of my wishlist, but not the opposite of what i'm looking for. i try hard to reply at least with a nice decline, except for opposites.

OPPOSITES include: current/recent military/police; STOCKY/heavy build/football player body structure, permanent facial hair; no cultural interests; >1.5 hours' drive from boston; <36; anti vaxxer; trans or lifestyle S/M; more than 1 child <14, any children <12; conservative or libertarian ('fiscal conservatism' is immoral).

i am strongly anti racist, feminist, egalitarian, as are All my friends and anyone i date. there are no technicalities. no one deserves to die for shoplifting or jaywalking, and everyone deserves equal rights and opportunities regardless of race, sex, class, or sexual orientation.