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33 M Helsinki, Finland

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5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Working on Ph.D program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Finnish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a peaceful boy with a rather simple style of living. My interests have been social issues (like international economy, environment, social sciences, philosophy) and music. I also study languages by myself (previously French, Spanish, last year I got into Chinese).

I live in a small apartment and travel by my bike. My material living standards I tend to keep low. I take my daily biking trips as physical exercise (also practice some running and skiing). I have not had much interest in traveling despite of being interested in international affairs.

When I go through other people's profiles, I always feel that I am too different. Though I don't have a clear idea how much similarity is really needed. This is a kind of ultimate question for me about dating: what kind of people I could contact.
What I’m doing with my life
I am skeptical that I could become a researcher since my ADD symptoms are rather strong. Thus starting to pursue Ph.D was maybe a bad idea but I guess I cannot turn back anymore. It remains to be seen what I can do in the future. Hopefully something related to my studies.
I’m really good at
following self-imposed routines. This compensates my slowness to some extent but not far enough.
The first things people usually notice about me
My default grave face or maybe my careless dressing & movements.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have not developed a habit of watching TV series or movies. It seems I prefer reading texts to watching moving pictures for some reason. However, during the past year I enjoyed watching Yasujiro Ozu's ''Late Spring'' (1949) and "Tokyo Story" (1953).

I used to read lots of books (world literature classics plus some hard sci-fi) at high school but now for many years I have found it difficult to allocate time for reading fiction. I still read something though. Last year I managed to read Lorca's "Gypsy ballads" in the original language. Currently I'm reading Graded Chinese Readers. Also bought that Piketty's opus magnum in French.

I have always taken music very seriously. My primary interests these days are classical and jazz (especially jazz fusion). I am also into other old Afro-American genres like 1970s-funk and old R&B. Further, I may listen to demoscene & gamemusic radios on the Internet. On the classical side I enjoy most of big names from Monteverdi to Schönberg and beyond (lately I've been trying to get into Hindemith & Rautavaara). I seldom go to gigs or concerts, I just listen to music at home. I can play something myself too but I have not been motivated by band projects. Recently I have returned to my old hobby: making tracker music with computers. It has quickly become an important activity for me but it's a bit frustrating since it would require lots of time.

When it comes to food, I am very modest. I try to pay attention for health aspects when choosing what to eat (and I have been vegetarian since 1998, but I certainly do not preach about it). I have rudimentary cooking skills but I prefer not to use much time for cooking.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things like how ideas and ideologies direct our thinking; what I should think about the modern monetary theory; what is the actual meaning of scales in music... And of course, the etymology of all those hanzi characters that I'm learning.
On a typical Friday night I am home, reading texts and chatting at the Internet, listening to music. Friday is a special day since on Fridays I buy (dark) chocolate and a peanut mix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
my operating system is the latest Debian (with LXDE)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are a sad little girl in need of cuddling

...well, just write if you have something to say