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most_ephemeral

42 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:02am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
INTP, just like Isaac Newton.

Artist/painter with a music degree and a penchant for rotating among a cast of favorite vocations.
What I’m doing with my life
Painting, weaving, organizing records, alchemy. Managing my relationship with my inbred cat.

Listening to Urlicht from Mahler's second symphony. And the prelude to Wagner's Tristan und Isolde.
I’m really good at
NY Times crossword puzzles, critical thinking, an apparently random, wildly fluctuating train of thought that veers and twists hither and yon before coming back home with a recapitulating and integrative sense-making, usually. A mix of right and left brain.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music:

African Head Charge
Bernard Parmegiani
The Shelor Family
Lee Scratch Perry
Giancarlo Toniutti
Lurker of Chalice
Stefan Niculescu
Joan La Barbara
Olivier Messiaen
La Monte Young
Morton Feldman
Pierre Schaeffer
Gordon Mumma
David Behrman
Eliane Radigue
Cocteau Twins
Iannis Xenakis
Francois Bayle
Laurie Spiegel
Giacinto Scelsi
Terence Dixon
Angus Maclise
Andrew Chalk
Robert Ashley
Max Mathews
Gerard Grisey
King Crimson
Gyorgy Ligeti
Amon Duul II
Tony Conrad
Silver Apples
Robert Hood
Pierre Henry
Circuit Rider
Bill Fontana
Brion Gysin
The Locust
Tim Hecker
Bad Brains
Luc Ferrari
John Cage
Terry Riley
Hawkwind
23 Skidoo
Sunn O)))
Ivo Malec
Arvo Part
Moondog
Rare Bird
Stooges
Kleenex
The Fall
Sun Ra
Swans
Factrix
Eleh
Can
Yes

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Non-fiction: Wilhelm Reich, Elaine Pagels, George Lakoff - generally science/religion/psychology/esoterica.

Fiction: the holy trinity of Bukowski, Fante, and Hamsun.

Philip K. Dick.

A few personal heroes: William S. Burroughs (who wrote me a letter once); Austin Osman Spare (no letters from him); my high school teacher (in the brief and sporadic periods I spent in this mostly wasted and corrupt American institution before going directly to college - even then I could only tolerate a small alternative school that taught a heavy dose of 80s-era feminism [unfortunate, mostly] and "real" history [fortunate]; yes this is still a parenthetical statement) who had a very long beard and graciously shared his acerbic sense of humor, healthy cynicism and skepticism, strong sense of self-love, and a nuanced and self-determined view of what it means to be a man; this old spiritualist woman I met as a teen and still think about regularly - she was, by far, the most genuinely spiritual person I have ever met; the aforementioned Wilhelm Reich and Elaine Pagels.

Pasolini, Kenneth Anger, Stan Brakhage.
The six things I could never do without
Milk Duds & high quality hand lotion.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hopefully at my studio, or at home.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating