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30 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 30, 2014
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
English, Sign Language (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a powerful, empathetic, creative, busy, intelligent mother.

I am open minded and accepting of others. I tend to get along best with those who are not neurotypical (if there even is such a thing).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing and facilitating the activities of an entire household. Cooking, talking, singing, encouraging, loving, accepting people, elaborating, multitasking, drawing, cuddling, hugging, sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: IAMX, Nine inch Nails, Jay Brannan, Patrick Wolf, Dan Black, Imogen Heap, Marina and the Diamonds, Bjork, Gogol Bordello.
Live music! Dancing!

Books: So many books.

Favorite Foods:
Free food, Foraged foods, Food I grew, New foods, Food people I know grew, Organic Food, Juice, Almond Butter, Spicy, Seafood, Avocados, Carrots, Apples, Berries, Lentils, Rice. Any food from a happy plant. Any food lovingly made from scratch.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tea, My kids, Touch, Art, Food, Oxi-clean!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who I am...

The challenges and benefits of having poly relationships and raising children simultaneously.

Primal, feral thoughts.
Kink, Sex and Sadomasochism. Yearning, longing, daydreaming.

Whether I am doing this that or the other thing right for my kids. Whether they are getting enough of this or too much of that. How to teach my ideals to my children without forcing them. How to respectfully communicate with children without being a pushover.

How to balance the needs of everyone I love and still make adequate efforts to meet my own.

Gender, social norms, idealism etc
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm never sure what's going to happen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not telling without a lengthy lovingly painful interrogation! :p

I am kinky and I love to talk about it. Ask me anything.
I am on fetlife.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*You LOVE biting
*You are in a poly household with kids and want more friends like you.
*Are a parent of multiples.
* You touch with intent!
* You want to do something ACTIVE!!!
* You are open minded!
* You would like to meet up or play with me (and/or Kris).
* You appreciate learning.
* You are hairy.
* You are an explorer of the depths of yourself!
* You have something to teach me!
* You understand where things come from and where they go.
*You are interested in being submissive to a badass, brutal, loving, empathetic, experienced, poly, mama bear!

I want to go out. Take me somewhere fun!