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23 F Portland, OR

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
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Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Mongolian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
A friend of mine asked a random man sitting on the street with a miniature typewriter to write a poem about me the other day.

Here comesthe sulk
all that bleeding heart
its a bigheart, don ja know
like a bean bag chair
as charming and absurd as a red nose
godlove her
trying to dive into a coffee cup
she never gets it right
till you walk into the room
pour a cup for two
youwish she could see her grace
as she swims into your warm
andgush you heart with wonder
hands familiar as morning
her touch gentleas rain

So you can take that for what it is?
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated recently with a degree in Religion, an enormously broad topic, and within it a particular interest in hermeneutics (also quite vague). There is a theme emerging. I think a lot about language and other modes of expression; how we attempt and the ways in which we fail and succeed to see and speak with one another. Nowadays I'm working and trying to get as much sky as I can in the off hours. Most of the time I'm just trying to figure the next thing out, or the present moment out, learning to cook with more than four ingredients, posting lots of letters, deconstructing top 40 lyrics with my housemates, and aiming to be a little more useful to myself and others.
I’m really good at
Avoiding direct questions. Making eye contact. Welding. Hyperbole. Being crass in an accommodating way. Six degrees of anyone.
The first things people usually notice about me
Not sure people really do? It’s probably the eclectic “fashion” choices. On a good day, my carhartt overalls.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Everything good and everything bad, for different reasons, but probably equally. Have to ask me this in person.
Books: Currently reading Cryptonomicon by Neal Stephenson, the last book that made a deep impression on me was Nicole Krauss' A History of Love, and the last book I truly loathed was The Marriage Plot (if you want to argue about this, feel free to)
Shows: Firefly, Buffy, Deadwood, Breaking Bad, Arrested Development, Archer, BSG, BBC Sherlock, and on the less dignified side, Vampire Diaries.
All food. I love food.
Music: Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young, smashing pumpkins, Yes, umphrey's mcgee, kate bush, Doomtree, queens of the stone age, mika, the band, the black keys, the weepies, blind melon, Tool, shins, Bear's den, Jason Anderson, Josh Ritter, Alice in chains (mtv unplugged is pretty awesome), cat stevens, Florence and the machine, stevie wonder, indigo girls, queen, starkid, the who, pretty much anything from the 90's will make me smile and sing (though you'll probably wish it didn't)
The six things I could never do without
A pen, my dog, pair of boots, someone with a better sense of direction, bread, my friend’s voice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Oh, everything. Also a lot of time devoted to nothing. Right now, probably sleep, food, alcohol, depression and feminism. Mainly about the intersection of normative narratives (around gender and also around mental health), and how we can think more productively, consciously, and creatively. I think a lot about architecture and spatial awareness. Also a lot about cognitive dissonance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Making tea, making dinner, drinking, drinking my dinner, dancing, biking, drawing, shout-singing, pretty much anything. Happily alone, happily with other people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I know every lyric to every song from all three High School Musicals. Actually many people know this, I have very little shame.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you need extras to reenact any infamous sea battles. If you need a drinking partner. You have a car and want to travel to the nearest tallest roller coaster. Or if you just want to argue about utopias/dystopias.