Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am in an open marriage, here for friends that could become
friends with benefits. I am happily seeing another woman and so for
the time being only casually interested in meeting new
I'm the in-the-kitchen-at-parties type that is fun if you get to
know me but may not appeal to you in passing. I'm INTJ and eerily
I mix an awesome cocktail, can handily grill just about anything,
ride motorcycles whenever possible and regularly find myself
lacking time to read classic and contemporary literature.
I am happy to share face photos in private messages. My wife is on
okcupid: I'll send you her profile once we establish that we don't
know each other in a way that would make this awkward. She is low
key, not jealous and interested to meet you.
My wife and I are equally interested in meeting you individually or
as a couple. We would also be interested in meeting a couple.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm self employed somewhat by mistake though it's working out fine
and it suits me.
Maintaining a 100+ year old row home that may never completely stop
Working on our place in the endless mountains of PA that is
perpetually under seige by mountain weather and wood boring
I'm very good at buying, getting better at renovating but not yet
so good at renting investment properties. Drop me a line of you are
looking for a nice three bedroom in a hip neighborhood.
I ride motorcycles less than I'd like but more than most would
Contemplating whether it's within my abilities to replace second
gear on my beloved but financially worthless 15 year old Honda
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Computer integration. There is of course nothing sexy about that
but it's true. I think you'll find me sexy once you get to know me.
My social skills in no way reflect my profession I assure
I'm pretty handy around the house though lack the well rounded
skill-set and interest to build one. I can, however, ad hoc
renovate an old Philly row home with the best of them.
I do a lot of my own motorcycle maintenance and can talk
intelligently about literature even though I read less than I'd
like these days.
I'm a decent cook and I'll rock your world on the grill. Seriously
I make killer ribs. And rib stew a few days later. I also grill
pretty good tofu and vegetables. My wife cooks the best Brussels
sprouts you've likely had--even if you're only interested in
I make an awesome gin and tonic, tequila or gin gimlet and
margarita. Really: try me. I believe Tequila is under used as a
cocktail ingredient. I recently discovered the Tom Collins which I
believe is an under appreciated cocktail. I can't drink highballs
without thinking of Gatsby.
I'm an avid amateur photographer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair and jaw. I've fought it for years but I have decent genes.
I have had long hair since i was 14. I'm relatively thin in part
because I eat well and exercise regularly but primarily because of
the genes. I am frustratingly literal at times but I like to think
it's endearing once you get to know me. I am fair and honest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I listen to a lot of FM radio: primarily NPR and college radio. I'm
an avid podcast listener--we're listening to Mountain Stage as I
type. I listen to many different types of music, from Joy Division
to The National to post rock (Isis, Pelican) to Dylan, Rolling
Stones and Elvis Costello. I love the WXPN Blues Show and American
Routes on WHYY.
I was an English minor: I can talk Russian literature, American
post modern, once in a while I pick up a classic that I didn't read
I endeavor to eat vegetarian for health and moral reasons but too
often vegetarian cooking just doesn't taste enough like rare meat.
I recently mastered cooking over easy fried eggs in cast iron thus
making my wife's fancy non stick cook wear unnecessary.
I love zombie movies, well done (non-slasher) horror and slow
moving beautiful French films. I like sci-fi and can get into
action movies in the right mood. I'm still amazed by the new
Battlestar Galactica--it's better than you probably think, even if
you're not interested in sci fi. I'm pretty into sci fi so take
that with a grain of salt.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A quiet place in the mountains
Shelves packed with books
FM radio through warm vintage speakers
A few motorcycles and a place to store and work on them
A fast computer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work--I'm almost completely self directed so I think about what is
going on: both the politics and the technology.
House renovation--the rental property seems like it will never be
ready. I know enough to do a lot of the work but not enough to hire
someone to do it way quicker than I can.
How to retire on rental real estate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On the way to the mountains, having dinner and drinks with friends,
grilling at home or catching up on Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm on okcupid looking for women. Aside from my wife and close
friends it is not common knowledge. I realize that's a cop-out to
some degree but it's true.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interested in or would like to be involved in
You're looking for a casual relationship to fill your free time
while you look for mr./mrs. right.
My wife is attracted to women so we're also interested in meeting
women who are curious to meet a couple or I'm happy to just
introduce you to her.
There seems to be some stigma about threesomes. It's not everyone's
thing but it's great. We're easy going and low drama--if this is
something you're curious about join us for a no-expectations
We would also be interested to meet a couple.
Who are you looking for?
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