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45 F Lakewood, WA

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 29–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:20pm
Native American, White, Other
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, German (Poorly), Italian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Warning! I am a real person.
I am human , maybe I'm Barbarala 😝

This is a test it's all a test....
Yep, ENTJ is me..
Just follow me down people...

The rabbit hole! Geez get your mind out of the gutter, Mister😝

Type of person I am:
I am independent, strong minded & love a good conversation.
If you don't enjoy stimulating conversation and know how to listen then we would not be a very good match.

Passionate about:
I enjoy art, looking at it and making it.
I do paint. I love to be creative!!!!!
When I get the chance I love to build things, or design clothing, or think up needed ferret products to make a million on...

Insight into me:
I just like knowing why something is the way it is.
It's how I am wired and I can't turn it off.
I have tried.
I enjoy finding out how things work. So if you are a fellow tinker you know what I mean...

People watching is a fun way to pass the time when I'm bored. You never no what you will see or over hear. Better then tablod news or reality TV.

So, if you suspect Walmart is being used as a social science experiment by the government or space aliens.
You have wondered about the birth of a star and how effects our atmosphere;)
You just might enjoy a conversation with me;) Heehee sounds better after a margarita or two.

Honesty and directness:
What you see is what you get with me.
Lying and being dishonest or disloyal have no place in my life and will not be tolerated.

Respect diversity:
I don't judge others, it's not my place.
I don’t view the world or people as being strictly black, or white or gray for that matter.
Life & people are to colorful to put in a box.

Just because I may not be into it or I may not agree with it or you doesn't make it wrong.
There are exceptions to most rules. I do however believe in inherent wrongs are just wrong.

I statements
I reserve the right to change my mind on anything at any time.
I am a woman after all ;-)
I am a true southern women with southern values I hold strong too.

Humor :)
I love to laugh and crack myself up often.
I'm a big goofball much of the time but on the flip side also very serious.

Mission statement of self.
I believe in putting myself out there warts and all.
I just don't believe in hiding things as it all comes to light eventually. It anyways does.
If you like me you like the real me .
Not the social mask most everyone now seems to wear.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it the best way I can.
Working on my next degrees & my business plans.
Rescuing ferrets and building them cute hideouts and jungle gyms.
Then trying to find were they are hiding or
what they have stolen and hiden;)

Trying to find someone worth knowing that isn't a surface dweller...

Someone who can handle me asking questions and, being told exactly what I'm feeling and thinking even the negative when I am feeling it. .
I asked the hard questions and except an answer.
I hate guessing don't you?
Plus I'm not like those lil girls that plays games nor do I allow anyone to play them with me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being creative and helping others.
Conflict resolution.
Building things.
Motivating others.
Talking. I am southern after all.
Making people laugh, grin and smile!
Attracting and repelling men.
Being a Bitch and a friend when needed.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How welcoming and friendly I am.
Physically I am told it's my eyes and smile.
You can't help but smile right back ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like a wide range of all of them when I have time.

The Wheel of Time by Robert Jordan & Brandon Sanderson.
Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy Douglas Adams
The Mortal Instruments Cassandra Clare
Dresden Files Jim Butcher
The Dark Tower Stephen King
Terry Brooks Who doesn't love an Elf....
7 Habits of Highly Effective People Stephen R. Covey
Getting to Yes R. Fisher & W.Ury

Red * Breakfast Club * The Stand

American Pickers * Doctor Who

Pretty much like all genre of music, it just depends on my mood.
Yes that mean Country music:-P

I will try most things once. With the exception of bugs or live things.
Just can't do it.. Gives me the willies just thinking about it.

I am an excellent cook.
I can taste it then go home and recreate it.
You should cook with me some time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Creative outlet
Paint brush
Cast Iron skillet
You would honestly be surprised at what you can do with out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why everyone doesn't own ferrets. Lol attack ferrets😜.
Why people can't be honest even when they can be without repercussions.?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home studying or out with friends. Or being attract my fuzzy posse...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love board games.You name it, I'll play it. Pool, darts. Cards, dice. I own over 40 board games own a pool table ( not very good at it),dartboard and occasion with friends video games. Game night is awesome!!!!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You will not only put up with my wacky moods, but may even think they're cute, (even if you won't admit it). Understands we all have bad days, lose our temper can be difficult but you will stick around because life is messy sometime.

You are confident & self assured, but not cocky with an over inflated ego. You think of others and has most of if not all your stuff together, has a car, your own place and loves life.

Most importantly you appreciates that I say what's on my mind if I feel it needs to be said.
An that I will question things or, actions I don't understand, bothers me, raises my supision or just cause I want to know.
You understand that because I confront things head on doesn't mean it's causing drama but, understands getting under the surface of the social mask we all wear and, getting to know the real person mean sharing and showing emotions even the not happy ones.

You are not just looking to get laid but want a true friendship. If it grows into more good, if not we have each made a new friend.

So if any of this novel I wrote has you interested & you think you may be him then take a deep breath, get ready & say "Howdy"

Then get ready for one hell of a ride............Maybe?