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42 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 30–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Has cats
English, LISP (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Musical, grounded, independent and healthy, free and open-minded. Enjoying outdoors, thinking, solving, and playing. I am free to see whom I want to see. I'm here looking to connect with a lady (or dude) who knows what's up. Maybe it's you?
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising a daughter, playing music, loving my career. I have been seeing a married couple for over a year.
I’m really good at
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Making music. Writing code. Drunk bicycle riding.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue-framed glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Santigold -..- Goldfrapp -..- Yeah Yeah Yeahs -..- Radio Head -..- Sufjan Stevens -..- The Ting Tings -..- Röyksopp -..- The Knife -..- MNDR -..- Ween -..- The Flaming Lips -..- M.I.A. -..- Peaches -..- Daft Punk -..- Boards of Canada -..- Deadmau5 -..- Four Tet -..- Tech-House -..- Dub Step -..- Hip hop -..- Miles Davis -..- Herbie Hancock -..- Chopin -..- Le Beatles -..- Led Zeppelin -..- Prince -..- White Stripes -..- Bowie.

Food: Sushi, Indian, Mexican, Thai, Ethiopian. I like to make tacos and sushi, or anything that has avocados, basil or limes in it. I am pescatarian.

Books: Gödel, Escher, Bach: An Eternal Golden Braid, Sex at Dawn, anything by J. Krishnamurti, Philip Pullman's Dark Materials trilogy, The Lords of Darkness books, by Tanith Lee, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance.

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Children of Men, Fight Club, Amelie, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Empire Strikes Back. There Will be Blood.

Television: True Blood, and little else, really.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My brain
2. My body
3. Music
4. Ocean
5. Mountains
6. My bike
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where the human race is headed in the 21st century. Astrology, astrobiology, neolithic life, origin of life, space travel, artificial intelligence, Jazz improvisation, human sexuality, relationships, polyamory, disruptive technologies, overpopulation, global warming, poverty, the power of love and cooperation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making music, having a drink with friends, dancing.
You should message me if
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