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54 Memphis, TN Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 27
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity but it’s not important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Introspective and funny. Bookish and love good conversation. Passionate about food...I do it professionally. New to the online dating scene and I find it...what is the word? SCARY! I've been told many things about men on online dating sites - I am not that guy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
A great verse from a great song describes this best:
"I am alone, and I am searching,
Hungering for answers in my time;
I am balanced at the brink of wisdom,
I'm impatient to receive a sign;
I move forward with my senses open,
Imperfection, it be my crime;
In humility I will listen -
We're all swimming to the other side."
--Swimming to the Other Side by Pat Humphries
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge. is my passion. I am definitely in my comfort zone in the kitchen.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sense of smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite books: WAY too many to list in such a short space.

Favorite food: Anything Italian. It is what I cook best and what I eat best.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My children
2. My books
3. My memories
4. A chef's knife and 12" non-stick pan :)
5 and 6...under consideration
*update: #5. Jackson Browne radio on Pandora...all the good songs!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Many, many things. The origins of the universe. Our place in the universe. Where we are going (and will we remember where we have been).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting ready for my night job. Now, on Saturday night? A completely different story :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. want to talk about books, music, cooking; have a nice glass of wine and good conversation. Then we can see where it goes from there.