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41 Minneapolis, MN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 18
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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So after being on this site for a while, I realize that there is absolutely NO point to sugarcoating "me". Also, I'm diabetic, so sugarcoating "me" would be... Bad?
Don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong with me. I like me! Others act like they like me. Just decided that you might like honesty, even if it sounds a bit like gibberish...?

I'm a big kid... Seriously.
I'm mature and responsible about the things that matter [at least "I" think I am...?], but generally I almost never think of myself as 40something. College grad with own car, one roommate, and a socially akward cat. Bit of an introvert with an aversion to crowds.
Whole lot of a geek, but I keep it on the low-low... Most of the time? [Play Magic the Gathering, have a World of Warcraft account that I haven't touched in months, and have been known to play D&D occasionally. Bonus points if you know what a "D20" is, lol!]
I'm a tattooed, bull-ringed, stretched ear, fuzzy faced [No, I'm not shaving it off.], "lightly padded" guy who loves cartoons, bicycles, fishing, working with my hands [learning how to knit?!?!], and sleeping in on the weekends.
Winter is my season! I do like all the outdoors stuff you can do in the summer, but I was apparently born with a broken thermostat that is permenantly stuck on "high". I tend to sweat [a lot] while being outdoorsy in the summer. That's just me!
Love me or.... Don't? I guess?
Cat owner and animal lover... I even "like" bugs? [Have no problem re-locating the occasional spider or house centipede, anyway.]
I'm a liberal non-NRA-card-carrying gun owner who has never been hunting, but is not against the idea. Would never hunt for "sport". Food only. [Doubt I could actually bring myself to shoot an animal...] Like to meet a girl who's not afraid to go out to the gun range with me...?
I haven't been in a serious relationship for a while. Got out of a serious one and got pretty comfortable flying solo, for too long?
I am a one woman guy. I'm not looking for an open arrangement, not going behind anyone's back, and I'm never the "other guy". This is what I ask in return... [Its one of those non-negotiable kinda things, lol.]
Basically, average guy looking for a girl to share life with... If you're interested [and still reading this far], let me know. :)

*Disclaimer* - I should warn y'all, I have a bad habit of checking this site RIGHT before I drift off to sleep. Speedy replies are not a consistent thing with me sometimes and when I am quick, I'm not always eloquent, or... Ummm, coherent? So bear with me, and I'll try and get back to you as soon as I can. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m really good at
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Stupid section...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Also kinda stupid... Everyone thinks about all KINDS of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing laundry, creating something crafty. Might be making chili, given the season...?
You should message me if
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... you want to hang out with no expectations and no pressure. You should NOT message me if you're expecting some kinda relationship, or a "sleep-over" within the first few times we hang out. Putting yourself out there can be awkward enough without that drama...
Like to figure out if we can be friends first, then we can rush into all the rest! If not...? Well, we're "adults", right? We move on and meet someone new!

Also, if you're gonna hit "like" on my profile... Drop me a line? Maybe [Oh, I don't know] say... "Hi"? ;) I make no guarantees [*see disclaimer in first section], BUT I will do my best to reply in kind!

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