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30 Brooklyn, NY Man


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  • Ages 25-36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 23
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Lately I've been comparing myself and people I know to characters from Rockos Modern Life. I'm not sure why, but I remember that show being incredible.

But seriously, folks.

Mainly I do social work and therapy in the Bronx. Also, I invent nonprofits and develop business plans for them in my head, then forget them; play with my dog; and go to bars. These things go well together, but generally not at the same time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Christ, if you figure it out, message me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Psychotherapy. Adapting and dealing. Funny, funny jokes. Turning drinking problems into drinking solutions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Blue eyes, Midwestern politeness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Man's Search for Meaning, stuff by Brendan Behan, John Steinbeck novels (East of Eden, The Grapes of Wrath, The Winter of Our Discontent, Of Mice and Men), Baldwin, the Bhagavad Gita, The Book of Laughing and Forgetting, stuff having to do with mental health (An Unquiet Mind, A First Rate Madness), sometimes comic books.

Movies: Blues Brothers, Stripes, Apocalypse Now, The Seventh Seal (which I originally watched in order to be pretentious but genuinely enjoyed), horror movies (both good and bad).

Shows: House of Cards, Wilfred, The West Wing, The Simpsons, The Marriage Ref, Better Off Ted, The Wire, Cheers, Mad Men, The Walking Dead, Colombo.

Music: Tom Waits, The Black Keys, K'naan, Howlin Wolf, The National, Warren Zevon, Leonard Cohen, The Roots, Gil Scott-Heron, Parliament Funkadelic, Ismael Lo, Handsome Boy Modeling School, Iggy Pop.

Food: Anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, cigarettes, strange encounters, street cart food, my notebook, my dog Malcolm.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The weird, ugly and desperate beauty of everything. Whether there's a rational argument for optimism. Whether it's better to experience the world intellectually or emotionally. But mostly either deeply appreciating or deeply hating subway ads. ("It's a chalice, not a glass"? Fuck you, Stella Artois.)

UPDATE: Now there are subway ads for Coors tall boys. Those are the kinds of ads I deeply appreciate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a bar with people I care about, watching Netflix, or playing air guitar with my roommate. We actually only played air guitar once, but it was SO FUCKING EPIC.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ice cream trucks cruising the streets of Brooklyn don't fill me with childish joy and nostalgia, but deep unease.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think sitting on a fire escape listening to music is a good way to spend a night. 'Cause I'm doing that now and I gotta tell you, it's pretty sweet.