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mr_tobes

40 Seattle, WA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:20pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Sometimes shy guy looking for... well, not sure just yet. Maybe just someone to snuggle up and watch a movie with.

I'm open to suggestions.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been transitioning into singlehood after the end of a 7 year relationship for the last year and a half, which means that I'm a little out of sorts.

Otherwise, I'm librarianing and hanging out with my friends.

I enjoy cooking, and while many of my meals don't quite turn out or are strangely idiosyncratic, I can turn out a bolognese that's delicious! I enjoy trying new recipes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- occasionally contributing a good one-liner.
- cuddling.
- roller skating.
- slicing onions.
The first things people usually notice about me
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- My crooked, near perma-smile
- My awkward way of laughing when I'm nervous
- my blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books
Get to know me on goodreads to find out... I'm a librarian, and it's just not fair to ask me what my favorite book is.

Movies
I've watched a lot of movies and like many of them.

Music

American Analog Set | Arcade Fire | Beach House | Best Coast | Bonnie Prince Billy | Camera Obscura | Cut Copy | Das Racist | Del | Destroyer | Ghostland Observatory | Hidden Cameras | Kiki & Herb | Magnetic Fields | The National | New Pornographers | Nina Simone | Okkervil River | Passion Pit | Ratatat | The Smiths | Tegan and Sara | Unbunny |

Food
I like cooking and if you're lucky I'll make you bolognese sauce (which takes about 5 hours!). Sometimes I cook amazing things, and other times I just cobble together whatever's available pretending that I'm on chopped and have to use a weird combo of mystery basket items. I like eating out and trying new places. I love a good sandwich.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends
Cuddling
Books
Music
Water
one other thing

... just to name a few in no particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Traveling, but spend less of my time actually doing it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with friends, or hanging at home wishing I had someone to cuddle with, because I sometimes work on Saturdays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is that I'm private.
You should message me if
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you want. I'm not making any promises, but I am a nice guy at least.