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59 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:55am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Assuming both individuals are relatively sane with no outstanding felony warrants, nothing is more critical in a relationship than chemistry. Regarding us having mutual interests, you must meet these stringent enjoy food, music, intimacy, adventure, conversation, laughing, sunny days and you avoid exceptions.

I am spontaneous, outgoing and laugh easily. I live in the moment, believe in the golden rule, nod fluently, give killer massages, open doors for women and find humor in most situations. My nature is cheerful and honest...lying and playing head games require more energy than I care to expend.

My ideal partner has a great sense of humor, doesn't sweat the small stuff and takes care of her slender/fit/yummy body. She knows that communication and intimacy play an equal part in a relationship. She has some free time on her shapely hands for walks/museums/holding hands/comedy clubs/hiking/watching sunsets/getaways/making mad, passionate love as often as possible.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a very fortunate guy who's very grateful to be living it.
Every day is a good day and my cup runneth over.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people smile.
Hitting the gym hard 4x/week.
More than a few sports.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My shimmering halo and shapely behind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books...Salinger, Roth, Steinbeck, the's all good. I read the news daily.

Movies...The African Queen, In the Loop, Grand Budapest Hotel, Driving Miss Daisy, Local Hero, Groundhog Day, Office Space, Shawshank Redemption, Guy Ritchie/Coen Brothers/Tarantino, most action/adventure movies.

Shows...Mad Men, Colbert Report, Suits, Justified, Elementary, Breaking Bad, Law and Order. 40, classical, old jazz, world music, classic rock, techno, alternative, some rap. Plus, I dance like Elaine Benes.

Food...anything edible from anywhere in the world.
But nothing beats Italian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Belly laughs.
Passionate intimacy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All of the above...teeth, not so much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home alone drinking cheap wine in the dark, mumbling to myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a Russian spy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
no one else will chat with you.

If we hit it off cyberly, then a quick meet and greet over a glass of something to see if there's a mutual spark.

The look in the eyes, smile and tone of voice say it all...either that elusive chemistry is there or it isn't.