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mrengel

34 Saint Louis, MO Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), Portuguese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm passionate about being passionate! I try to stay positive and surround myself with good people doing good things. I want to meet even more of them.

I'm interested in things. A few of them? Music, language, bodies of water, photography, walking, physical fitness, beer, architecture, NPR, Magic: the Gathering, webcomics, coffee, exploration, cities, public transportation, baseball, the St. Louis Cardinals, maps, found items, China, healthy eating, vegetarian food, cooking, record shops, scarves, bees, proper newspapers, satire, cultural relativism, technology, Anglophilia, travel, reading, writing, weather.

I am tenacious, soulful, and weird. But in a good way. Mostly, I'm wicked enthusiastic about life and all the good stuff in it.
What I’m doing with my life
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A few of the things I do: Writing album reviews for a local magazine; listening to massive amounts of music; going to concerts; taking pictures of things; playing Magic: Online; walking everywhere (to everyone's constant bemusement); running/lifting at the gym; working large numbers of Simpsons quotes into everyday conversations; taking way too long to pick out beer (at the pub & at the supermarket); surveying the world via Google Maps, picking up things found on the sidewalk; geeking out over the fact that my iPhone is basically a fully realized artifact from an imagined future; missing and subsequently waiting for trains.

I work for a non-profit doing database + applications programming, along with data quality/analysis. I'm great at what I do, I work my butt off, and I have a fierce work ethic, although my job is emphatically not my life. It pays the bills so I can do the things I am passionate about. Music, writing, travel & photography are what feed my soul, I do what I do professionally so I have time/mental juice to do what feeds my soul. A perfect weekend generally involves grabbing my camera, exploring the city, taking a billion photos, great coffee & beer, a chance to run/work out, and some chill time for music and working on an record review.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening; problem solving; learning foreign languages; data mining; writing/editing; being empathetic; exploring and learning new environments.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My enthusiasm; the way I kind of walk on my tip-toes; weird badges on my jacket/man bag.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Douglas Adams, George Orwell, Nick Hornby, Kurt Vonnegut, The New York Times, "Great Apes", Irvine Welsh, "Dodger Dogs To Fenway Franks", (web)comics collections, all things "Calvin and Hobbes", "The Buddha of Suburbia", National Geographic, "Wonder Boys", the Cambridge Encyclopedias of English and of Language, lots of other nonfiction, especially stuff about the developing world, linguistics, architecture, and urban planning. James Kochalka's "American Elf" series stands as a testament to the inherent beauty & joy of the rhythm of life. Even the bad days.

Movies: Kicking & Screaming (the Noah Baumbach one, the good one), The Squid & The Whale, Annie Hall, The Shawshank Redemption, The Meaning Of Life, High Fidelity, Wonder Boys, Rushmore, Trainspotting, Shakma, The Big Lebowski, Cane Toads, Full Metal Jacket, St. Elmo's Fire, American Beauty, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Lost In Translation, Back To The Future, Barcelona, Clerks, Ghost World, The Ice Storm, Roger and Me, Manhattan, Scenes From A Marriage.

TV Shows: The Simpsons, Big Love, Law & Order, House, Seinfeld, The Office, Mad Men, Dexter, Star Trek DS9, Enterprise, Mission Hill, Cardinals games, The State, Firefly, Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations, Scrubs, Freaks And Geeks, Undeclared, Futurama, Roseanne, Quantum Leap, How I Met Your Mother, Community, Flight of the Conchords, 30 Rock, The Weather Channel.

Music: Marillion, The Smiths, Morrissey, Matthew Good, R.E.M., Ted Leo, Idlewild, The Replacements, Paul Westerberg, Bright Eyes, James, The Clash, Paul Simon, The Beatles, Pet Shop Boys, The Hold Steady, Ryan Adams, Elton John, Manic Street Preachers, Jarvis Cocker, Pulp, Freedy Johnston, Blur, David Gray, Neko Case, Northern soul, Kings Of Convenience, Trash Can Sinatras, Talking Heads, Loudon Wainwright III, Bob Dylan, The Shins, Roger Waters, Pink Floyd, The Church, Peter Gabriel, Arcade Fire, Uncle Tupelo, Wilco, Son Volt, The Jam, Talk Talk, Neil Finn, Crowded House, Orbital, Radiohead, The Divine Comedy, Mansun, Spock's Beard, Emmylou Harris, The Blue Nile, Rush, Pixies, The Who, Randy Newman, They Might Be Giants, Ben Folds, Elvis Costello, Calexico, Joni Mitchell, Dire Straits, Steely Dan, Josh Rouse, Sufjan Stevens, Clarence Carter, Billy Joel, Primal Scream, IQ, Green Day, Toad The Wet Sprocket, Mark Kozelek, Red House Painters, Sun Kil Moon, Tom Petty, Elbow, Porcupine Tree, Yes, Belle And Sebastian, M83, Robbie Fulks, Legião Urbana, Leonard Cohen, The Kinks, Gram Parsons, Jens Lekman, Counting Crows, David Bowie, Coldplay, Bloc Party, The National, Vampire Weekend, The Gaslight Anthem, and many, many more.

Food: Vegetarian. Indian (nothing like a properly radioactive curry). As close to authentic as possible Chinese. Falafel, hummus, and pitas + a crisp pint of ale. Tom yum soup and spring rolls. Vietnamese. A well crafted veggie burger. Humboldt Fog cheese is possibly the most amazing foodstuff on the planet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My iPhone. Cardinals baseball. Ale. My family and close friends. My iTunes library (all 32,000+ songs of it). Opportunities to learn and improve.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music. Travel. Language. Interpersonal communication. How a great deal of the world's problems could be solved with a liberal application of logic and common sense.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
More often than not I'm cooking a meal, then chilling out with a quality pint of beer and a CD changer full of choice tuneage. Some weeks I hit a brewpub happy hour with friends or a concert. I tend to dig a quieter Friday night to recover from the working week, and to get a little more energy intensive on Saturday night. But it's not a hard & fast rule, sometimes Friday night absolutely requires wandering out and about into the city and blowing off some steam.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My life is a constant battle to outwit my own overthinking brain.
You should message me if
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If you think I sound cool and if you're cool. And/or you read this profile & still don't think I'm some kind of long-winded, pretentious freakazoid.