I was born and raised in Colorado, but I've traveled all over the U.S. and the world. I've spent specific time visiting: Wyoming, Illinois, North Carolina, Maryland, D.C., Virginia, Texas, Utah, Arizona, Nevada, Washington, Pennsylvania, Dubai, Iraq, Afghanistan, and Greece! I've seen so much and learned about a lot of places. I love to see and learn about new places and I hope to do a lot more traveling in my life. I actually don't like moving around, but rather I hope to find a permanent home to settle into and then travel from time to time from there. But first I'm looking for a permanent career in public safety (my passion), and a partner who will love, support, and go anywhere with me.
I spend a lot of time watching TV and playing games, but I do enjoy active things, like swimming, hiking, soccer, vollyball, bowling, adventuring and exploring new places. I enjoy the occasional drink, but I have never been drunk and never intend to be drunk. I don't like bars and clubs so if you're the type that frequents them, I'm not for you.
I'm a very caring, compassionate, very cuddling, and loving person. I've lived on my own and taken care of myself for most of my life so I'm more of an alpha male, but I like equality in a relationship. I want a guy that when in a relationship will want to spend all our free time together, even if it's just watching TV or sitting in the park; whether it's just us, or with a group of friends, I don't care, as long as we're together, that's all I want. Having been bullied through my childhood and an outcast most of my life for being different, I have absolutely no desire for "alone time". In fact I actually tend to be pretty clingy. If this scares you, we're probably not a match. However, if you see this as a good quality, like I do, then you're in luck! I like a guy who will show affection and isn't afraid to express his feelings to me. I am a very outspoken, open, and honest person. I communicate very honestly and I want someone who will do the same. Also, I don't care who knows I'm gay or that I have a boyfriend, and it's very important for me to find someone who feels the same way. I have a lot to offer the right person. Being an emotionally needy guy, I also have a large need for loving attention but my heart is very open and I tend to wear it on my sleeve. It allows me to care about and get close to others, quickly. I'm a very loyal guy as I have never and would never cheat on my man and I will dedicate myself to the man that is dedicated to me. That's what I have to offer. :-)
Physically, it's more about he big picture for me, but there are some particular things I look for. I'm not attracted to husky, bear, or muscle builder types at all. I like guys who are on the thinner side. I'm not a fan of facial hair on other guys, but a little is okay. I participate in sports and go to the gym regularly just to stay in shape, and keep healthy. I want a guy who takes care of himself too, but I'm not looking for a gym rat.
These are some important things to know about me, that tend to be deal breakers for many people.
-I find smoking utterly disgusting and repulsive.
-I'm an emotionally needy person. There's no point in faking it or trying to hide this. I have no desire for alone time at all and I like to do most everything as a couple.
-I'm sexually gentle and not into rough sex, role playing, or any unusual fetishes.
-I sleep with the radio on and I cannot stand snoring. If you snore, I'm sorry but this is a deal breaker.
-I love kids but I am no longer interested in having kids of my own. You can ask why, if you're curious, but this chapter is pretty much closed in my life.
-I Don't like Washington and I will eventually move out of here. If you would never move, let's not get anything started.