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mrffmike

34 / M / Gay / Single

Seattle, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Today – 5:43pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
If you're in another country, you WILL be immediately blocked with no response!

I was born and raised in Colorado, but I've traveled all over the U.S. and the world. I've spent specific time visiting: Wyoming, Illinois, North Carolina, Maryland, D.C., Virginia, Texas, Utah, Arizona, Nevada, Washington, Pennsylvania, Dubai, Iraq, Afghanistan, and Greece! I've seen so much and learned about a lot of places. I love to see and learn about new places and I hope to do a lot more traveling in my life. I actually don't like moving around, but rather I hope to find a permanent home to settle into and then travel from time to time from there. But first I'm looking for a permanent career in public safety (my passion), and a partner who will love, support, and go anywhere with me.

==============ACTIVITIES================

I spend a lot of time watching TV and playing games, but I do enjoy active things, like swimming, hiking, soccer, vollyball, bowling, adventuring and exploring new places. I enjoy the occasional drink, but I have never been drunk and never intend to be drunk. I don't like bars and clubs so if you're the type that frequents them, I'm not for you.

==============PERSONALITY===============

I'm a very caring, compassionate, very cuddling, and loving person. I've lived on my own and taken care of myself for most of my life so I'm more of an alpha male, but I like equality in a relationship. I want a guy that when in a relationship will want to spend all our free time together, even if it's just watching TV or sitting in the park; whether it's just us, or with a group of friends, I don't care, as long as we're together, that's all I want. Having been bullied through my childhood and an outcast most of my life for being different, I have absolutely no desire for "alone time". In fact I actually tend to be pretty clingy. If this scares you, we're probably not a match. However, if you see this as a good quality, like I do, then you're in luck! I like a guy who will show affection and isn't afraid to express his feelings to me. I am a very outspoken, open, and honest person. I communicate very honestly and I want someone who will do the same. Also, I don't care who knows I'm gay or that I have a boyfriend, and it's very important for me to find someone who feels the same way. I have a lot to offer the right person. Being an emotionally needy guy, I also have a large need for loving attention but my heart is very open and I tend to wear it on my sleeve. It allows me to care about and get close to others, quickly. I'm a very loyal guy as I have never and would never cheat on my man and I will dedicate myself to the man that is dedicated to me. That's what I have to offer. :-)

===============ATTRACTION===============
Physically, it's more about he big picture for me, but there are some particular things I look for. I'm not attracted to husky, bear, or muscle builder types at all. I like guys who are on the thinner side. I'm not a fan of facial hair on other guys, but a little is okay. I participate in sports and go to the gym regularly just to stay in shape, and keep healthy. I want a guy who takes care of himself too, but I'm not looking for a gym rat.

==============DEAL BREAKERS=============
These are some important things to know about me, that tend to be deal breakers for many people.

-I find smoking utterly disgusting and repulsive.

-I'm an emotionally needy person. There's no point in faking it or trying to hide this. I have no desire for alone time at all and I like to do most everything as a couple.

-I'm sexually gentle and not into rough sex, role playing, or any unusual fetishes.

-I sleep with the radio on and I cannot stand snoring. If you snore, I'm sorry but this is a deal breaker.

-I love kids but I am no longer interested in having kids of my own. You can ask why, if you're curious, but this chapter is pretty much closed in my life.

-I Don't like Washington and I will eventually move out of here. If you would never move, let's not get anything started.
What I’m doing with my life
I work M-F early mornings as an emergency dispatcher for private company. It's just a job and not a career though. So I'm also applying for the Border Patrol and various fire departments around the U.S. I have very clear intention on moving out of Washington. If I don't get something else, I'm going to try to go to the Seattle Diver's Institute in 2015.

Things are in the works, jobs wise, but nothing definite, so I'm stuck in Seattle for awhile longer. Eventually I WILL get out of here though, just maybe not this year.

I also play soccer every Sunday with the Rain City Soccer Club!
I’m really good at
Problem solving, & Handyman stuff. Also really good at cuddling, caring, loving, protecting, and being romantic. And these are the things that I have to offer to the right guy... I love to cuddle up with my guy and just hold each other in our arms protecting each and comforting each other from all things bad.
The first things people usually notice about me
Everyone who meets me quickly realizes that I'm a very honest and outspoken person. I generally don't try to do too much to "impress" someone outside of my normal self. I am me and I want someone who can not only accept me for exactly who I am, but appreciate and desire me for it too.

Oh, and I'm told I have a nice ass too... just sayin... :-D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't like to read.

I love horror, suspense, and government/military movies.

I watch A LOT of TV and there are a lot of shows I like. Just know that I can't stand adult animated shows (Family Guy, etc.)

I listen to oldies and country mostly, but I do like some modern music, like Adel!

Food really depends on my mood and where I'm getting the food from, but I'm pretty diverse I think. I'm a Meat and Potatoes kind of guy. If you don't eat meat, this is a definite deal breaker for me.
The six things I could never do without
1) HOPE - Without hope, would to be without purpose.

2) WATER - The kind you swim in. I love to swim! Although I guess I couldn't do without drinking it either...the body can only go 3 days without water. Did you know that humans can survive 35-45 days without food if properly hydrated?

3) FOOD - I love to eat :)... So now you know I hven't tested the above science personally...lol

4) A PARTNER - I have found that I am just not truely happy in life without someone to share it with.

5) T.V. - Being ADD and the way my brain works, TV is my way of relaxing and taking my mind off the world.

6) MONEY - Unless there was no need for it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
MY FUTURE... career, partner, life, etc....
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking for someone to cuddle with, watching TV, playing video games, or researching other places to live. I'm up for other things, as long as it doesn't involve a club or bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There's really not much that I don't speak very openly about. Anything I would consider 'private', I certainly would not be telling on here...lol. An unexpected thing about me though...Although I'm a very outspoken person, I'm really socially inept... I find it very difficult to socialize in large groups of people that I don't know.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 24–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you...
-are living in the Seattle area
-do not smoke or do drugs of any kind
-are NOT a vegetarian.
AND
-are ready for and want a long term relationship

NOTE: I will take the time to respond to you, even if I'm not interested, as long as:
1) you are within reasonable dating distance and,
2) you took the time to read my profile first!