As per my Great Grandmother's advice, I'm a Jack Of All Trades, Master Of Few. I believe that being wise and having common sense is more important than book intellect. Although I am proud to know a little bit about a lot of things, I don't claim to know everything about anything; no matter what, there's always someone smarter.
============== PERSONALITY ================
Those who meet me quickly find out that I am a very caring, and compassionate person. I will stand up and speak for myself, and for others whom I believe are being pushed down. I also a very cuddly, passionate, and loving person. I'm looking for similar qualities in a partner. I'm OCD, ADD, have a joke for just about everything, and my mind is almost always in the gutter!
I believe in EQUALITY OF ALL! I have accepted my sexuality and I DO NOT care who else knows that I am gay. I am proud to be who I am. Although most people would not guess that I'm gay upon first impression, once you get to know me, it is very apparent that I am. I absolutely refuse to hide that I have a boyfriend, just because we are in public. I like to hold hands, call each other pet names, and lay in the park together, just like any straight couple would. I also completely lack the desire for alone time. When I'm seeing someone, I like to spend most of our free time TOGETHER. I don't care whether we're at watching TV, or outside doing something; whether it's just us, or with a group of friends, I just want to be TOGETHER.
=========== ATTRACTION, TO ME ===========
No picture = No chat...PERIOD!
Physical attraction, for me, is more about the entire picture than any one body part, so I like to see pictures of an entire person, and not just their head or legs, or whatever. I do prefer slim, twinkie, less hairy guys; and I am definitely NOT attracted to husky, bear types, or muscle builder types.
I also feel that it is important to have emotional and mental attraction to someone. This requires that we share some common interests, morals, and values. We don't have to have everything in common or agree on everything either; I can respect someone who has understanding for other points of view, even though they may not agree.
============= ACTIVITIES ===============
Clubs and bars are NOT my thing, and don't like to be around drunk or high people; I admit that this does limit me socially, but there are lots of other things to enjoy in life besides clubs, bars, and intoxication. Some of my favorite activities include: Soccer, Volleyball, Swimming, Boating, Board Games, Video Games, Bowling, Adventuring/Exploring, Hiking, and just cuddling up with someone in front of the TV. :-)
============ DEAL BREAKERS ============
-Smoking and/or Drugs: Not because I'm against it, but because I think it's disgusting!
-Liars & Flakes: If you're not a man of your word, then I won't have any respect for you.
-Vegetarians: Again, not against it, but I do eat meat and I don't want to have separate meals from my partner all the time.
-Regular Snoring: I just can't sleep with someone snoring loudly. (negotiable if you're willing to do something to stop it)