I have accepted my sexuality, I am proud to be who I am, and I DON'T care who else knows that I am gay. When I'm seeing someone, I like to spend most of our free time TOGETHER. I don't care whether we're at watching TV, or outside doing something; whether it's just us, or with a group of friends, I just want to be TOGETHER. I believe in EQUALITY OF ALL! and I absolutely refuse to hide that I have a boyfriend, just because we are in public. I like to hold hands, call each other pet names, and lay in the park together, just like any straight couple would.
============== PERSONALITY ================
Those who meet me quickly find out that I am a very outspoken person. I'm not afraid speak up and say what's on my mind, good or bad. Although I prefer to avoid confrontation, I won't hesitate to stand up for myself, or for others who are being bullied or mistreated. I am a Gemini though, so I definitely have a more vulnerable, warm, compassionate, loving, caring, and cuddly side of me too.
I'm also OCD, when it comes to organization and cleaning. I have an ADD brain, and my jokes are often more on the crude and sexual side.
=========== ATTRACTION, TO ME ===========
First off: No picture = No chat...PERIOD!
Physical attraction, for me, is more about the entire picture than any one body part, so I like to see pictures of an entire person, and not just their head or legs, or whatever. In general I will say that I am only attracted to slim (<33"waist), younger looking, and mostly shorter guys.
I am NOT attracted to husky, or bear types at all.
My ideal partner will also share some common interests, morals, and values. We don't have to have everything in common or even agree on everything either; I respect someone who shows understanding for points of view they may not agree with. Honesty, understanding, cleanliness, and a general caring nature are prime qualities to me! Anyone I date, much also MUST be "OUT". Again, I have no intention of hiding that we are together.
============= ACTIVITIES ===============
Clubs and bars are NOT my thing, and don't like to be around drunk or high people; I admit that this does limit me socially, but there are lots of other things to enjoy in life besides clubs, bars, and intoxication. Some of my favorite activities include: Soccer, Volleyball, Swimming, Boating, Board Games, Video Games, Bowling, Adventuring/Exploring, Hiking, and just cuddling up with someone in front of the TV. :-)
============ DEAL BREAKERS ============
-Smoking and/or Drugs: Not because I'm against it, but because I think it's disgusting!
-Liars & Flakes: If you're not a man of your word, then I won't have any respect for you.
-Vegetarians: Again, not against it, but I do eat meat and I don't want to have separate meals from my partner all the time.
-Loud Snoring: Negotiable if you're willing to do something to stop it.
-Those who MUST sleep in complete silence: I sleep with lite music on. I can keep it down, but I do have to have it.