I am intelligent, geeky, and perverse
Update for 2013:
Existing in what I consider to be a sexless marriage. Not interested in breaking up my marriage at this time. Am interested in having a long-term friend with benefits, preferably also married, preferably also not interested in breaking up their marriage.
Perhaps one, any of, or all of: "28 Hotel Rooms." Friday lunches that turn into more than lunch. Going to the movies but not see the ending. Being as safe, secret and discreet as two married FWBs can be about the 'benefits' part.
As a 'reach for the stars' wish, I love the idea of becoming FWBs with a couple that have similar fetish interests.