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  • Ages 35-50
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My details

Last online
Jul 8, 2014
Hispanic / Latin
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and it’s important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Computer geek. Into porn, computers, cars, walking, yoga. Married since 1996. Three beautiful children.

I am intelligent, geeky, and perverse

Update for 2013:

Existing in what I consider to be a sexless marriage.

As a 'reach for the stars' wish, I love the idea of becoming FWBs with a couple that have similar fetish interests.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working supporting the family. Sleep when I can. Surf the 'net when I can. Work on my car when I can.

I do attend local munches in the San Gabriel valley, too :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a computer geek. Fixing cars. Household plumbing, electrical.
(Basically I am good with my hands.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am chatty. I love to read.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sci-Fi: William Gibson, Neal Stephenson,Harry Harrison, Steve Perry, Heinlein, Asimov, Herbert. ...Too many authors to list them all!

Since I hit my 40s in age, selections from 'the top 100 classic books', so have read 'Moby Dick', 'Angle of Repose', 'Death With Interruptions', '100 years of solitude', and plan to keep reading more of them.

Almost anything serious with Angelina Jolie -- Playing by Heart, Original Sin.

Movies that let me know others out there in the world "get it" for alternative sexuality: "The Secretary".

Geek flick funny favorite: "Hackers."
Geek flick serious drama favorite: "Gattaca."

Music Armin Van Buuren's A State of Trance, Above and Beyond's Group Therapy and such (vocal trance). Orbital. Old faves include 80's music. Rush. Mannheim Steamroller. Jazz. Classical.

I like it spicy! Thai, Indian, Sushi, Italian, and the occasional burger too... did I mention... pizza!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family.
My friends!
The internet (for work, for porn... did I mention porn yet?).
My car.
My bicycles.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to further succeed in life.
How to have adventures erotic experiences without falling into the trap of being a sexaholic -- could be too late for that one. Hmm....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home with the family. Reading stories, watching TV (usually Netflix).

Interacting on the web via LiveJournal
interacting on the web via Fetlife
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a 'kinky' sex person: I have had interest since my mid 20s, continue to be aroused by, and participate with: bdsm, cuckold roleplay, hotwife roleplay, and cuckquean roleplay.. I buy my sex toys from The Stockroom, m'kay?
You should message me if
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You are also a fetishist. Consider yourself a bit of a sexaholic. Are not repulsed about the concept of Friends With Benefits, BDSM, alternative lifestyles, and such.

You can also interact with me at my blog , or on Fetlife.