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29 Federal Way, WA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25-38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 8
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Working on Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hey! I'm Gibby! I'm an open minded, dorky, big hearted, goofy guy! :)

29 ~ 290 ~ 6'2" ~ Blond/Red Hair ~ Blue/Green Eyes

Bearcode ~ B5 f t+ w++ c++ g k+ s- e+ r- p q

I consider myself somewhat of a pup. I have a Sir. He and my pup brothers currently are spread across the country, but we consider ourselves more of a family than it being an open relationship, so the possibility of me having a boyfriend is still there. Just know that my Sir is very much a part of my life and he comes with this whole package. It's about having love for one another, not because we want to sleep around. I've got a lot of love in my heart to share with more than one person! I don't expect many to understand my family, but will be happy to clairify anything they want to ask. Just, please, don't be ignorant and be respectful of my lifestyle.

I'm ~not~ looking to hookup. I'm looking for very strong and mature connections with the possibility of benefits. If it leads to a relationship, awesome, if not, that cool too! I just would like to have more friends in my life that I can do things with. Sex isn't required for friendship, it's just supposed to be something we do for fun. There is a difference between having sex and making love, but mostly I'm only going to bottom for my Sir and for whoever wants to be in a serious relationship with me.

I've been HIV positive and undetectable since 2010. I also have HPV. Use google. Look this up. Educate yourself. I don't mind talking about it, but I'm not a fan of dealing with ignorant questions. No, I won't play bare. No, you can't catch anything if you drink from the same cup as me. Be assured that I do not wish to pass on anything I have to anyone else and would ~never~ put you in any kind of danger. Me admitting this openly should give you a hint that I know what I'm doing. Treat me as you would treat anyone else. I may be weird, but I do have feelings just like everyone else.

That being said, I'm very much a fun loving pup! I love to bowl, play mini golf, watch movies, cuddle, make beaded jewelry, knit scarves in the fall, play board/table top/video games (although I mostly only play my N64, I don't have any of the newer systems), cook, explore new places, hike, go to farmers markets, and more! I'm not really a bar/club guy. It's just not my thing, but I'm very open to ideas and trying new stuff to do!

TL;DR ~ I'm a nice guy unless you give me a reason not to. I have no problem being platonic friends or friends with benefits. Just as long as the friendship outweighs the benefits. I'm nobodies booty call and do not wish to be treated as such. I have a big heart that I wear on my sleeve with lots of love to give to anyone who wants it. There's no reason for anyone to be an asshole to one another. We're supposed to be in the same community and support one another. There's enough crap in this world we have to deal with, so being a troll on the internet isn't going to help anyone. If I woof/compliment ya, please take it as that. Sometimes I'll be too shy to say hi and will stalk your profile multiple times. Just as I've been open and honest with you, I expect the same in return.

Big hugs
What I’m doing with my life
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I tend to work a lot. I'm the store manager at a candy store downtown. Although it may be crazy sometimes (what job isn't?!), I still think I have the best job in the world. I get to introduce diabetes into peoples lives with a smile each and every day. :D
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, height, and/or dorky personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm not really a reader. I don't have the attention span for it, but my favorite book would have to be Hatchet.

My favorite movies include GoldenEye, Lord of the Rings (All), Star Wars (4-6), Ocean's 11, Anything Studio Ghibli, The Prince of Egypt, Toy Story (1-3), Shrek (1 & 2), The Wiz, Grease, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Reincarnation, Audition, Hero, The Cell, Harry Potter (All), Appleseed (1 & 2), Vexille, Dragonball Evolution (Deal with it), The Ring, The Matrix (1-3), Titan A.E., Any Classic Disney Movie, and a lot more.

My favorite shows include Project Runway, How It's Made, Family Guy, The Simpsons, ANTM, Roseanne, RuPaul's Drag Race, Unwrapped, Iron Chef (the original Japanese version), Sabrina the Teenage Witch, Saved by the Bell, The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Family Matters, Dragon Ball Z, Doug, Rocko's Modern Life, SpongeBob SquarePants, Extreme Makeover: Home Edition. Just to name a few...

My favorite music includes.....anything that sounds good! From Classical to Rock, Dub Step to Smooth Jazz. If it sounds good I'll listen to it. Some of my favorite artists would be Evanescence, Darude, Linkin Park, SHINee, 2NE1, Psycho le Cemu, Girugamesh, Hoobastank, Dir en Grey, Armin Van Buuren, Neo Cortex, Ferry Corsten, Enigma, Big Bang, Gackt, Super Junior, Daft Punk, Adam Lambert, and so much more!

My favorite food includes orange chicken, nachos, pizza, cheeseburgers, burritos, yellow curry, tonkatsu, french fries, taquitos, and a lot more. Gimme a Chinese buffet any day!
The six things I could never do without
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1. My Friends and Family <3
2. Music
3. My Creativity
4. My N64
5. White noise /fan while I sleep
6. Crunchy Food /Spicy Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wondering what (this celebrity) is doing at this very moment.

Wondering where I'm going when I get lost, but then realize exactly where I'm going.... The wrong way...

Wondering why the majority of people on this site pay no attention to match and friend percentages.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working or at home doing nothing. So hit me up! I'm down for some board games or maybe even some dinner. Coffee? Tea? Sign me up for that too!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"Then it wouldn't be private!"

Haha, no. How cliché. It's pretty weird when people put that on their profiles. Saying that is lame and avoiding the question. It says "the most private thing I'm WILLING to admit" not "the most private thing about my life that I'm GOING to admit on the interwebs."

But going back to the question, I think I've already answered it with me coming out and saying I'm HIV positive, but I've never been drunk before. Drinking isn't really my thing, neither is the scene, but I do like the music (most of it anyways) and the lights!

Also the seed pods in bell peppers freak me out. THEY LOOK LIKE ALIEN SPIDER SACK BABY EGG THINGIES (ew.)
You should message me if
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You're good at Mario Kart 64. Seriously I've been looking for a challenge.

Would also love a new friend to just hang out with and play board games with. I'm kinduva geek/nerd, but haven't really applied myself into any one fandom. I'll warn you that there's a lot of I haven't seen movie and tv prepared to be shocked....a lot....

But anyone who wants to message me and wants to make a new friend is more than welcome to do so! I answer to EVERYONE! :)