I am in fact looking for a consistent playmate if there is mutual attraction personality and physically speaking. First of all let me say that if you contact me I won't harass, or pressure you into anything... so if that's your fetish or need from a man then you may want to move on cause I'm not your guy. I actually find it important to like the women I invite into my life. Please read my profile and If my situation is something that works for you, drop me a note... I'm very approachable and nice guy.. Well more about me, I have spent about the last 20 years working in area of human services and find it to be emotionally satisfying and love helping ppl.
Now on the less conventional side......well I'm in an open relationship and get the polyamorous lifestyle. I'm looking for a few very select friends to invite into my life if it feels right it could be a friend with benefits situation. You must be honest and discreet! No, I am not cheating or embarrassed but we have children and want our children to make up their own minds about how they define their relationships. PLEASE NOTE,If you are married then your Mr would need to be ok with this.... I have no desire to be your deep dark secret or target nor target practice for your significant other either. Sooooo honesty is a must! For things to be sexual there must be mutual attraction for both of us! Keep in mind the Mrs would be fully aware of the situation and fully supports me having others in my life.... she also has friends she plays with. There isn't going to be any jealous drama for you to deal with. No more than is common with any friendship. If you would like to confirm that with her that wouldn't be a problem and wouldn't be a problem to arrange. I'm a dad of four boys.
True that chemistry and physical attraction are important but kindness, conversation, and friendship goes a long way too. I am a sensitive, caring person by nature and I can appreciate someone who handles themselves the same. I'm not looking for a notch in my belt but for friendship and then see where that leads! If you are wanting to meet for sex before actually getting to know each other then I may not be your guy, that's just how I'm wired or want to conduct myself! I am careful whom I allow into my circle of friends. Please know that If you are just looking for a friend then that's cool too... I can always use a good coffee buddy. ..although no convenient store coffee though, I do have some rules... lol.
For sexual preferences.. I enjoy working out and staying healthy and I'm attracted to those who do the same. Cuddling, kissing are awesome and sure we can increase that list as we go... ;- ) If you would like to talk please just send a note. I would love to sit down and chat with ya over coffee or drinks if you have interest. Hope to hear from you soon.

I donate several hours a week volunteering time as well. This isn't to be a martyr but because I truly care. I'm not rich but try to give what I do have.. ...my time and effort in an attempt to make the world a little better place to live.

Music, compassion, being in front of a crowd, puns, listening, cooking, being a dad, caring, seeing the gold in ppl, friendship, caring about ppl, and etc. I have been a vocalist in bands for many years.

Smile, personality, voice, physique

TV: BBC's Sherlock (Love It! )...Sons of anarchy, Dr who, Dexter, etc. MOVIES: Tombstone, IP man, cable guy, dumb and dumber, etc. FOOD: All kinds of food (in moderation)

My boy's love, Affection, music, exercise, friends,and I'll admit it.... sex.

Hmmmm well there's a loaded question.. ... Well I think about my boys a lot and my family and friends are very important to me. I am a male and I do about women a lot too. Once I get to know you... I love to flirt, touch, kiss, cuddle, and open to explore from there. I also love to mentally engage with someone. I may not have the letters behind my name but I'm pretty quick and witty and can hold my own with the best of them..... lol.

Nothings completely predictable and Friday doesn't have to determine when I find time to visit or play.

Well being in an open relationship is pretty private information. ...lol I also love going to clothing optional hot springs or events. I love spending time at Orvis when time permits.

You're not looking for a sugar daddy! If you are open minded and have interest or you're Curious/intrigued by true friendship that's open to how we define it. If you have the capacity to show affection without the burden of jealousy and secrecy. If you have interest in being part of an open relationship or learning more about it or if you are looking for a friend and coffee buddy!