Now on the less conventional side..... I'm in an open relationship of sorts and get the whole polyamorous lifestyle. I'm looking for a few very select friends to invite into my life and if it feels right it could be a friend with benefits situation. You must be honest and discreet! No, I am not cheating or embarrassed but we have children and want our children to make up their own minds about how they define their relationships. If you are married I would prefer if your Mr. is okay with this, I have no desire to be target practice lol. For things to be sexual there must be mutual attraction for both of us! The mother of my children would be fully aware of the situation. We are roommates and aren't intimate anymore but we are trying to raising our youngest together. So there isn't going to be any jealous drama for you to deal with. Oh and just so you know I'm a dad of four boys.
It's true that chemistry and physical attraction are important but kindness, conversation, and friendship goes a long way too. I am a sensitive, caring person by nature but don't have a problem with a little rough and naughty if that's what your into and I can appreciate someone who handles themselves the same. I'm not looking for a notch in my belt but for friendship and then see where that leads! If you are wanting to meet for sex before actually getting to know each other then I may not be your guy, that's just not how I'm wired or want to conduct myself! I am careful whom I allow into my circle of friends. If you are just looking for a friend well then that's cool too, I have no desire to manipulate out pressure you into anything. Desire comes because you want something and not because someone pressures, tricks, guilts, or forces it on you. Nothing could be further from my mind. I seek mutual desire and nothing less, besides I could always use a good coffee buddy. ..although no convenient store coffee though... I do have some rules and standards ... lol.
For sexual preferences.. I enjoy working out and staying healthy and I'm attracted to those who do the same.I'm not looking for Barbie but ppl who work hard to take of themselves I find very attractive . Cuddling, kissing are awesome and sure we can increase that list as we go... ;- ) If you would like to talk please just send a note. I would love to sit down and chat with ya over coffee or drinks if you have interest. Hope to hear from you soon.