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  • Ages 25-34
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My details

Last online
Sep 13, 2013
5' 11" (1.81m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
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I am a British person who came to the U.S. for grad school about 8 years ago, fell in love with California and never left. I still have many good friends and family in the U.K., but I love it here and have no plans to leave (should be getting citizenship next year, which would make me dual).

I think my friends would say that I am funny, or perhaps they are just laughing at my accent. In any case, comedy and laughter are important to me.

My other passion is surfing. I have been a surfer all my life and grew up at the beach, surfing with my dad and my sisters. I couldn't live without surfing, it is a constant source of joy and has taken me all over the world.

Anyway, I just decided to give this site a whirl as a way to meet some new people. Hope it works!
What I’m doing with my life
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Well, I suppose I am living in San Francisco and working as a software engineer. I am just trying to be a good person, enjoy my friends, surf some waves, laugh a lot, travel, visit family in England and appreciate how lucky I am. If this is as good as it gets, I am more than happy with that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmm. I suppose, I would say I'm a good friend, I'm a good traveler. I'm pretty good at over-analyzing things. I dunno. I'm good at modesty
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess my accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love everything by David Foster Wallace ("A supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again" was the only thing that got me through a pretty horrific package holiday experience). I also read a lot of popular science and philosophy books. I have a bit of a man crush for Sam Harris and Christopher Hitchens (rip).

My all time favorite film is probably Lost In Translation. I guess I like a lot of films that you would not describe as "feel good". Pan's Labyrinth and more recently Four Lions and Melancholia.

I keep up with a lot of British shows, comedy mostly (anything by Armando Iannucci or Christopher Morris, for example. The Office, Alan Partridge, The Thick Of It etc). Also love U.S. comedy and drama - Louie and South Park for example. Breaking Bad is probably my all time favorite non-comedy show. I also surprised myself by really loving Battlestar Galactica.

I grew up listening to Bay area punk - Rancid, NOFX, that sort of thing (it went with the 90s surfing and skating territory...). Still love those bands but now I really do listen to everything. My Pandora station list couldn't be more random. I went to the symphony last weekend.

Food...Thai is my favorite I think. Curries, anything Asian. Sushi. Indian. That's one thing I really love about living here and miss when I'm away - so many great places to eat in San Francisco.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The usual, plus surfing and making people laugh and being made to laugh
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and whether I'm living it properly. And whether I'm thinking too much about whether I'm living it properly.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In the bar with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I guess it's not that cool that I got hooked on Downton Abbey.
You should message me if
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If you realize that there is more to life (much more) than work, no matter how interesting and important you may think your job is. If you wanna have a good time doing those non-work things with me :)