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MrJonesAndU

30 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 3:14am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hey, I'm Nick. Colorado-rasied, New York-aged since 2001.

I'm big on open-heartedness, honesty, and humor. I think it's important to have some kind of passions and interests in addition to working and partying. I believe exercise is as good for your confidence and general well-being as it is for your physique and health. I'm attracted to people with a solid sense of self, and who aren't obsessed with the approval of others.

I'm not big on any preoccupation with being "masc" or declaring who you're not into. Of course it's perfectly natural to have preferences, but I find it tacky and closed-minded to tell entire categories of people that they're wasting your time. Money and status don't mean much to me, I'm more interested in the content of your character.

I'm a person with many sides. I love parties and socializing. My favorite aspect of New York is the chance to meet people from all over the world and all walks of life. I also value alone time, like running through the park to my favorite music or having a good book as my dinner date. I love an excuse to dress up for a fancy event. I also love an excuse to dress up in something crazy and put my white boy moves on display (see pictoral evidence).

I love being a gay man and know that it has had a huge impact on the person I've become. It opened up a whole different life and perspective, in a much broader sense than just the gender I'm attracted to. At the same time, I strive for balance. I enjoy hopping around gay bars with friends once or twice a month. I count pride weekend as one of my favorite holidays. Fire Island is a bit overwhelming for me; I'd rather spend the money on a trip abroad, ya know?
What I’m doing with my life
I'm on the brand creative team at a J.Crew. Spouses are eligible for company discount, wink wink.

Hobbies tend toward the artistic. I sing with a great classical choir (no, not the gay men's chorus), and take jazz dance classes with friends (no, we don't use jazz hands). I love seeing theater and going to museums and galleries. My favorite luxuries are travel and eating out. For exercise I cycle, run, and take crossfit.
I’m really good at
Procrastination.

Also, you should try my backrubs.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmm, people seem to like to comment on the various stages of my beardedness.

Or they're like "oh nice (clothing item)," and I'm like "Thaanks, it's from J.Crew."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I do believe this stuff is way more fun to find out along the way. But I'll give a little taste.

Voracious reader. I'll read anything. Gimme suggestions.

I really enjoy Wes Anderson,Christopher Guest and Tarantino films. And Mean Girls (RIP LiLo's career).

Give me Nikka Costa any day of the week. Part of dating me will be attending her concerts whenever she's in town (you will love her, trust). Also enjoy Foo Fighters, Rufus Wainwright, and P!nk, among diverse others.

I'm an adventurous eater. UB2.
The six things I could never do without
a book on hand for downtime
gettin sweaty
cuddling
8 hours of sleep
baked goods (sorry, abs)
fancy grooming products
I spend a lot of time thinking about
whether I'm the man I want to be. Whether I'm in touch with the woman I could have been. Whether I love others well enough. Whether I love myself well enough.
On a typical Friday night I am
Everything! Or nothing!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I never make the bed unless I anticipate visitors.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you want to. Take the plunge. That's why we're here, is it not? If I'm into you, I'll reply. If not, I'll still respond with something nice. It's win-win!