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25 Brooklyn, NY Genderfluid


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 8:33am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
somewhere between everything and nothing
i recently realized that i can be all of the things i want to be simultaneously.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
walking in the woods
information technology
being present
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
absorbing, broadcasting, reflecting
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Neko Case
The Jezabels
Pat Metheny
Nils Frahm
Israel Nash
Fear of Men
The Preatures
The Stone Roses
Dum Dum Girls

looking for someone to discuss the new HEALTH album with.
my favorite song right now is "hands all over me" from the new tamaryn album

my favorite TV show is Don't Trust the B---- in Apt. 23

anything with garlic and onions sautéed in butter. i eat a lot of beans and rice but i just really like parmesan cheese and bacon.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
soups and stews
leaving the city
coming back to the city
you can't think about feelings so not those
butternut squash
lentil soup
I'm hungry
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
NOT DRINKING TONIGHT. then having a drink.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i really do care that you recognize both my masculine and feminine selves, and that gender play is something you like or are at least interested in. (note: this isn't meant to be exclusionary, or one of those aggressive sentiments like IF UR A REPUBLICAN DONT MSG ME, i'm just sayin' that i'm particularly attracted to humans who are compatible with non-binary gender positions.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you want to tell me a joke
- you want company for a day trip upstate
- you want to get brunch or any kind of meal actually, i like food
- you're a geek and want to talk about the web platform as an artistic medium
- you have tattoos
- you get my OKC username and it makes you happy
- you're in love with life
- none of the above, but still
- not even that, but now you find yourself staring at the screen, tempted. maybe even curious. what does the sensation feel like? what is the best possible thing that could happen as a result of messaging me? what is the best possible thing that could happen as a result of not messaging me? which scenario do you like more?