Who can express her wit, and enjoys and can appreciate food.
Someone who can laugh and make me laugh.
Someone who enjoys getting off a plane
or curled up on a couch.
Someone who does not equate anger with passion.
Or mistakes possessiveness for affection.
Or believes that arguing is a form of discourse and communication.
All else is in that realm of undefinable; magic, chemistry, the right click, destiny, timing, divine intervention or just a blind date and luck.