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27 San Diego, CA Genderfluid


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:30pm
Open relationship
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Working on Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

Forward: I've been dating Umberial for about 2.5 years as of this update,

We made a couples profile if you have any interest in reading that kind of thing. DarthSquish

I would say we are quantum-poly.

Also, apparently ISFJ if you're into that kinda thing

~~~~~~~~~And now, the weather~~~~~~~~~
This is the time of night when the moonlight shines down and we can reveal who we truly are
Within the darkest most depraved
Of joys

If your afraid to say
But you'd like to try
Just give me the safe word and take your hand
And smack me in the mouth , my love
Straight people bore me. But go ahead and try to change my mind.

I'm about 5'8 to 5'10 depending.
White mut.
Brown hair.
Blue/green eyes.
Never liked an idea for a tattoo long enough to get one, but maybe later. Well, I do have one idea, now I just need a location..

I've lived in SD for all my life, minus three years of madness. Don't really plan on moving to far away. Other than really really far away. (talking different country)
I really enjoy music, I don't discriminate against genre, style, or language. If I like it, I like it, unless I don't.
Lately I've been enjoying the penetration of my ears by: Grum, St Vincent, Tom Waits, Nick Cave.

Beyond Belief keeps me breathing

I love movies. I really do. I want to maybe be a director or a starving artist, or a beach-bum surfer..I just can't decide! Perhaps I'll just split our dimension into a muli-verse where I live out all of those dreams at the same time....

I wish I could write but I fear I just don't have the right mind for it. So, as you can tell, I am not a writer. I'll attempt to write something but it just turns into a big list of things...
Any questions?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been trying my best to find time to play all the games I spent way to much on during the past two steam summer sales.... I've said it once, and I'll say it again, I am a weak man.

I'm trying to find what I want to do with the rest of my life. I'm going back to school for office administration because it seems like a field that'll pay off now, but I know it isn't what I want to do for the rest of my life.
I do like the idea of maybe getting back into photography and/or Film.. But I don't standards are to high for myself to reach.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having good cinematic scenes in my mind, but completely fail to write them down or use them for anything before they fade away into the past.

Also I'm pretty good at making other people feel like they are super good at video games
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my bigish hair. It gets pretty long before my annual haircut.
I've had people complement my eyes in the past.

Or that the majority of my clothing are from vintage thrift stores.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have enjoyed most everything I've read by Lovecraft, Giaman and Clive Barker.
I just recently accidently spent $45 at a used bookstore I was walking past after getting sushi... I am a weak man.

For movies..well..errm..
I watch a lot and enjoy a good amount of them. Far to many to list...oh, lets just see whats on my quick access shelf for frequent viewings.
Both Waynes Worlds
Everything by Wes Anderson
Almost all things Woody Allen, Mel Brooks, David Lynch, and Lars Von Trier.
Shawn of the dead and Hot Fuzz,
Cabin Boy,
Princess Bride,
Battlefield Baseball,
The Super Mario Bros live action movie. oh yes.
Only lovers left alive, and What we do in the shadows were the best movies I saw last year.

I've fallen out of most TV shows..but there are a few I try to catch up on now and then.
Doctor Who
Modern Family
The Late Late Show(rip Craig)
Bob's Burgers
Umm..a handful of more I think..
Oh, and MST3K even though..yeah.

Now music..that would be a lot like Movies. Far to much to list.
If you want to know, just ask, It'll probably be a yes.
I'll just link to my last.Fm/mournfulwalrus

Now food...Yes, food.
I love good food, I want to travel the world and eat anything and everything that gets in my way.
but that is rather unlikely at this juncture.
So I'll have to say Mexican and Japanese are at the top I think. Oh, and Pho and Banh Mis. nom. And Thai and good Italian... The list Always grows..
But I'll try anything at least three times.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oh god..I'm just everywhere at all times.
But thoughts with frequencies I've taken note include:
Where to eat next,
What I would do if ______.,
Where I can get my next fix(of exciting new Japanese food),
What's the best price I can get for ____,
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably doing homework, or if fates be willing, I would love to be wandering the cliffs in OB, or enjoying horrible movies with friends and playing some kind of game, like munchkin or Fluxx or something.

A more recent paradigm shift in Friday night activities, Im known to be at The Merrow on occasion, enjoying some musical delights/burlesque! So that's fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a little birthmark..somewhere..lower.

But no, I'm a really open person these days. Just ask and I'll tell in most cases. If I want you to know, of course.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-if you're groovy with the fact I'm poly and have a primary -

If you have any interest in anything I've said, or want to have a three way, or make some brownies and get drunk. I'm pretty open to anything.

But really, I'm always looking for friends to hang out/get drunk/fool around with/lose games to.
So if this sounds like you, you may already be a winner! So come on down!