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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 28
Relationship Type
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Two-year college
Might want kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, to give what I feel to be the best "summary " of who I am.

I'm a man of character and substance. To go a little further into detail about what I mean by that. I am a decent, honest, hard working, caring and compassioniate man who lives his life each day by the values of honesty, empathy, personal responsibility, having a strong work ethic and always being true to my word.

I am at the point in my life where I am ready for the right woman to come along. I am sincerely looking for a real relationship that lasts several years if not the rest of my life. I'm a gainfully employed homeowner who pays his bills on time and has his life together. I don't do games, drama or nonsense. I am very much an adult.

Let me also make it very clear that even though I am looking for a relationship that I am not "needy", "desperate" or "clingy". I want to find someone special but I don't want to be with someone strictly for the sake of being with someone. I would still rather be alone than with the wrong person. I am very secure with who I am and I do like the person I have become.

I know that a lot of people are not completely honest when they write their profile on an on-line dating site or may even outright lie but I want to say right now that I wouldn't be making the following statement about myself if I didn't feel it was true:


I know that seems like a pretty bold statement to make but I do feel that way because I know how women are looking to meet men who will treat them with respect, always stand by their side through both the good times and the difficult times, be honest with them, be faithful to them and above all understand how fragile her heart is and do nothing to cause it damage or pain. IN MY HEART OF HEARTS I KNOW I AM THAT KIND OF MAN.

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently employed with one of the top hotels in Columbus. I love my job and look to expand my career with my current employer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being an asset to my job and being a real friend. Someone who can always be counted on when times are tough.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think the first thing most people notice about me upon meeting me is my sincerity and that with me you're getting the real deal. I don't put on any acts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my favorite things, this may take a minute :).

My favorite tv shows are The Office, Family Guy, American Dad, Two and a Half Men and The Big Bang Theory. I find them to be great for a good laugh.

My favorite movies include The Shawshank Redemption (I grew up in the town where it was filmed), Magnolia, Stalag 17 (great World War II action/comedy), The Truman Show, Fight Club, SLC Punk and The 40 Year Old Virgin.

My tastes in music I think could be described as being rather eclectic. I mainly listen to classic rock, alternative and hard rock but on my MP3 player I also have songs from Willie Nelson, Johnny Cash, Frank Sinatra and I probably shouldn't be mentioning this but I do have one song by Lady Gaga.

My favorite types of books to read are really anything to do with philosophy I just finished a book called "Hardcore Zen that was really insightful. I also spend a lot of time on both MSN and CNN.COM.

Favorite foods, I like to keep my diet on the healther side but I do enjoy a good cheeseburger every now and again.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things I could never do without:

1. My Family
2. My Friends
3. Good Music
4. Good Coffee
5. The Gym up the road from me
6. The Drive each day that pushes me to be a better man
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Doing things that I feel "Charge My Spirit".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't think there is a such thing as a "typical friday night" with me. Some friday nights I am working, sometimes I like to check out the new movies hitting the theaters, sometimes see a local band playing at a hole in the wall bar with friends and even sometimes just having a quiet evening at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
We will need to message back and forth a bit before I leak any real private things about myself (and I also respect if you feel the same way).
You should message me if
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The two things I feel that everyone should have in this life are contentment and happiness and I think I have a great deal of both.

Again I wish to mention that I am at the point in my life where I am ready for the right person to come along. What I am truly looking for is an honest, sincere and heartfelt connection with someone and to build on that connection for the both of us to have real emotional intimacy and to have a very loving and long lasting relationship.

For the first date I prefer to keep things on the simpler side and just do something along the lines of going for coffee, drinks, lunch, a walk in the park, really anything that would just give us the oppurtunity to talk and get to know each other.

So in conclusion if you liked what I had to say in my profile than please feel free to send me a message and we'll go from there.

In the mean time Take Care and All The Best