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My self-summary
Well, to give what I feel to be the best "summary " of who I am.

I like to think of myself as an "amateur philosopher".

I consider myself to be someone of character and substance. To go a little further into detail about what I mean by that. I am a decent, honest, hard working, caring and compassioniate man who lives his life each day by the values of honesty, empathy, personal responsibility, having a strong work ethic and always being true to my word.

I have a good job, nice place to live, decent car, good friends and a real understanding of what makes me " tick".

Now all I am missing is someone special to go down all of the roads that we all tend to come across in life. I really am on here looking for "Ms. Right" not "Ms. Right Now".

Let me also make it very clear that even though I am looking for a relationship that I am not "needy", "desperate" or "clingy". I want to find someone special but I don't want to be with someone strictly for the sake of being with someone. I would still rather be alone than with the wrong person.

I know that a lot of people are not completely honest when they write their profile on an on-line dating site or may even outright lie but I want to say right now that I wouldn't be making the following statement about myself if I didn't feel it was true:


I know that seems like a pretty bold statement to make but I do feel that way because I know how women are looking to meet men who will treat them with respect, always stand by their side through both the good times and the difficult times, be honest with them, be faithful to them and above all understand how fragile her heart is and do nothing to cause it damage or pain. IN MY HEART OF HEARTS I KNOW I AM THAT KIND OF MAN.

What I’m doing with my life
I am currently employed with one of the top hotels in Columbus. I love my job and look to expand my career with my current employer.
I’m really good at
Being real, being sincere, being honest, working really hard and just plain being amazing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Some things people tend to noticed about me (over time) is that when you first meet me I come across as quiet and a bit on the reserverd side but once folks really get to know me they discover I'm full of surprises.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Some of my favorite things, this may take a minute :).

My favorite tv shows are Mike & Molly, Family Guy, American Dad, 2 Broke Girls and The Big Bang Theory. I find them to be great for a laugh.

My favorite movies include The Shawshank Redemption (I grew up in the town where it was filmed), Magnolia, Stalag 17 (great World War II action/comedy), The Truman Show, Fight Club, SLC Punk, Gone Girl, Tommy (rock opera by The Who) and The 40 Year Old Virgin.

My tastes in music I think could be described as being rather eclectic. I mainly listen to classic rock, alternative and hard rock but on my MP3 player I also have songs from Willie Nelson, Johnny Cash, Frank Sinatra and I probably shouldn't be mentioning this but I do have one song by Lady Gaga.

Favorite foods, I try to keep my diet on the healther side but I do enjoy a good cheeseburger every now and again.
The six things I could never do without
Six things I could never do without:

1. My Family
2. My Friends
3. Good Music
4. Good Coffee
5. The Gym up the road from me
6. The Drive each day that pushes me to be a better man
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Becoming "Superman", Looking forward to concerts coming to towm, HOW I AM GOING TO SPOIL MY SPECIAL SOMEONE WHEN I EVENTUALLY FIND HER. ;-).
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't think there is a such thing as a "typical friday night" with me. Some friday nights I am working, sometimes I like to check out the new movies hitting the theaters, sometimes see a local band playing at a hole in the wall bar with friends and even sometimes just having a quiet evening at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
We will need to message back and forth a bit before I leak any real private things about myself (and I also respect that in others).
You should message me if
You're really sweet, funny, genuine, sincere, easy going and read for a great guy to sweep you off your feet.

For the first date I prefer to keep things on the simpler side and just do something along the lines of going for coffee, drinks, lunch, a walk in the park, really anything that would just give us the oppurtunity to talk and get to know each other.

So in conclusion if you liked what I had to say in my profile than please feel free to send me a message and we'll go from there.

In the mean time Take Care and All The Best