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Well, lets see, another self summary ,, yeah! (sarcasm) anyway, Im a very straight forward, no nonsense kinda guy! I dont play games nor tolerate them being played! I have a huge heart, and even though I have been put through the ringer by fake-ass damsels in distress, this Knight in not-so-shiny Armour is still ever-optimistic. Im am looking for one thing only, my H.E.A. ( ASK ME WHAT THAT MEANS ) Soo if that isnt what you are looking for , I understand, and am not angry, but im tired of the dating scene. I have been in that scene for many years now, i have had to reinvent myself countless times because i thought there was something wrong with me,, i found out, it wasn't me. there is a reason why soo many people would rather do dating websites than go out their front door to a social scene, there WAY too many people saying that they want this, and they need that, but have NO IDEA!! what they want. it gets hard on both sides ladies, real good men like myself have been burned time after time,, trying to find Mrs right, she doesn't exist. just as Mr right doesn't for y'all. i mean there are good men like me out there, but our numbers are being depleted by the minute.

what else about me, I am Sapiosexual Dom. I speak my mind, I love art and music, love too cook, and cars! ( what? im a dude!) Im currently back in school finishing my degree. And trying to stay as humble as possible.,, Ooh yeah this is a bigg one,, IM BLACK!!! lol, being serious, if you have never dated a gentlemen of color before and decided to give it a try, please be aware,, WE ARE NOT LIKE THE LAST GUY YOU WERE WITH!!! especially me! idk what is wrong with me, but i think a woman should be loved unconditionally. made to feel as beautiful as the queens they are. and never taken for granted!! talked to like a adult, not screamed at or called a bitch( unless you like that, and its in play),, and most of all not to used as a soundboard for all of my problems, or abused, because i would hit that guy! i don't believe in it or tolerate it in anyway, but i demand the same for my woman, when we go out she is a representation of me, as i am for her, we should complement each other and look and feel like the royalty we are, soo, that is pretty much me. im sorry if im not a asshole enough, or you dont think me to be the right guy, that's probably because you haven't experienced a Man like me ,, soo its kewl. not madd. But,, If you have anything else to ask, then ask it. I will answer back! tty soon!

Im currently in school. Finishing my degree in business mngmnt. I also work two jobs ( THATS RIGHT I SAID TWO ) tryin to get a third, to get rid of one of the two, and still have two! lol. ,, but if my financiall security is something yu are focussed on, we shouldnt talk at all. just kno,, i take care of me just fine.... as well as the person i wanna be with.

Well lets see, Im good @ cooking. and making someone laugh, even when they dnt want to. Im also good at listening( A DYING TRAIT IN A MAN! ). I love to build stuff( i have a secret affair w/ the lowes on the eastside lol). and im very good at that soo. And most importantly in my book,, Im really good at being there when my friends need me. Especiaslly when my partner needs me too be.,, the " in return " part, is usually the part that doesnt happen! lol.

well thats easy,, They notice that Im very well put together! I love me, soo I make sure before I leave my house, I put my best foot forward in my appearance. Then they notice that im a Sapiosexual B.H.M. ( ASK) Then my eyes, And my smile. What will yu notice?

I try to read alot, but that doesnt work out the way i plan it. I do enjoy reading Stephen King. Anne Rice. Tom Clancey. James Patterson. And Edgar Allen Poe. oh yeah and Shell Silverstein. Movies,, everything action! Some horror. And drama. I love to laugh, soo comdey is a must!! Music,,,,, i use to D.j. soo i like a lil of everything. from death metal to easy listening! lol. from Rammstein,, to Chris Brown. from John tesh,, to 30 Sec. to Mars. from Lil Wayne,, to Bach. and as far as food is concerned,, My edges are Softly Rounded, maybe asking me what food i dnt like , would be a lil easier.lol

1. God in my life
2. A way to make money, so i can live comfy
3. Food( fat kid snacks) lol
4. Friends
5. My Daughter lookin up to me
6. and Cable tv.
7. theres more,, but they only said six!

Being Happy!!!! oh yeah, and Makin my log-trem goals come true!

Being Bored!! :-(. j/k. im usually hanging out @ the fams house, chillaxin. or watching tv.

Im a Nympho! and a Sexaholic!!, also that im very loving,, too a fault. and willing to forgive just about anything. im a bigg dude, and prefer a woman , that can handle a man of my size and stature. finally, i have a very easily brakable heart, cuz i put my heart in everything i do and say. soo if i say i care, that exactlly what it means, soo try not to hurt me.

You are Truly & Actively attempting to get to know someone! Without lies, head games, or using this new person in your life as a scapegoat or buffer for the pre existing drama in your life that WONT die off or go away! Im not your Father! ... and your grown!

tired of being on the back burner in someones life. if you like what you read and see, are willing to try the nice guys for a change!, if you think you deserve better than someone that just thinks of you than just a piece of meat, or mistreats, or beats on, or talks down to you, we should talk. im willing to pick up the pieces. just not get cutt by them!