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67 M Petaluma, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 28
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
Hate feeling as though I'm offering myself up as part of "The Boy Buffet." You know, I'm just a nice, open, easy going guy who's trying to figure out the next few steps for the next few years. Like everyone, I have a history that has brought me here and made me who I am now: A work still in progress...

Like all, I'd love to find "The One." That spark, that fire.., that feeling of safety and openness that allows complete surrender. But for now, a cool "girlfriend" who likes some of the same junk I do would be pretty neat...

"The man who trims himself to suit everyone, soon runs out of material."
I smoke, occasionally. I know.., but I enjoy it. I have a glass or two of red wine with dinner most nights. Prefer the classic Bordeaux's, particularly Cab Franc and Malbec. I think casino's can be as much fun as a trip to the museum, a walk or bike ride as much fun as a trip away, and I'll sometimes watch mindless crap on TV just because...
Also should mention that I am thin-thin and get cold to the bone. After seven years of school in the Upper Midwest, and East, I've had enough snow! My lizard brain yearns for Sun and warmth.
Oh, I'm "Gluten Tolerant" and I really like bacon and charred red meats. Every time I encounter the word "Sapiosexual" in a profile, I pour myself a shot of Mezcal and toast your eruditetity (ness).

Now, about the dancing thing. I often put on my headphones and dance around for hours like a kid, alone. But it's been verified by musician friends, sound engineers, and general passers by, that I DON"T HEAR THE SAME THING OTHERS DO. I think it's called counter notes? I don't hide, but it does make partner dancing awkward, if not comical. Reggae seems to work okay, as well as The Stones, thanks in large part to Charlie Watts. Forewarned?
What I’m doing with my life
Searching for truth, meaning, direction, and hoping to find ....?
Well, I guess: Truth, Meaning, and Direction. And a really good Ruben.
How 'bout you?
Not on my "Bucket List," Skydiving (Why?), Zip Lining (Why?), Golf?
I’m really good at
Wasting Time, and Being oKay With It! (Man Must Have SLACK!)
(Yes, I'm a friend of Bob. You?)
Waiting till the last minute and then pullin' it together.
The first things people usually notice about me
Open Question! You Decide...
Maybe my shadow? The damn thing follows me everywhere!
Just like BigFoot!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
OMG: The List Would Be Endless. Truly Without End....
t s elliot, Mark Twain, Jim Carroll, Gary Larson, P.J. O'Rourke,
The Day Books Of Edward Weston,
Group f/64,
Man Ray and Lee Miller,
Vintage Catalogs,
Miro and Paul Klee and Keith Haring and Rudi Gernreich,
Buckaroo Banzai ("No Matter Where You Go, There You Are"),
King Kong (All Three Versions),
As Good As It Gets (see below),
Harrys Law (RIP),
Roswell, (Yes, I Believe)
Classic Surf (The Ventures to Los Straight Jackets to Man or AstroMan, to The Tarentinos (Best Bar Band, Ever!), and Eight Bar Boogie (jimmy Yancy to Fats Domino (what the Hell are TRIPLETS?)and Little Richard to The Blasters)
Anything Sam Cooke, Al Green, Jackie Wilson, Johnny Cash, Bob Marley, Erik Satie, Captain BeefHeart, The Mentors (Yes, Really), BOND (Yes, Really), FireHouse (Thank You, Prince), blah blah blah
Charred Meats (Kansas City) and Spice, Spice, Spice!
Did I forget Garlic? Garlic. Oh! And Bacon!
The six things I could never do without
True Friendships
Red Wine
Hot Sauce
Romance/Intimacy (Beyond the physical)
(Yeah, I fudged! Consider one an "alternate.")
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My Life, The Future, and Crap Like That...
On a typical Friday night I am
Well, maybe not always.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love "Chic Flics." Often cry during romantic comedies (see above). In my youth, I invented the number 4. Just one of those crazy things that caught on...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 51–71
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You Want To.., If You Really, Really Want To.
(Nods to Sally Field)