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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 23, 2014
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Dropped out of Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i bartend, exist mostly at night, and dont like the daylight too much unless i have things planned. and yes, walks on the beach, watching the sunset, blah blah blah. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a professional cocktail bartender, and full time drinker. Used to be fine dining chef, and before that... i was studying something medical-ish or other at university. but really, i'm in the process of have the time of my life wherever that takes me in the world. lived in New york for a little while in 2011 and am definately moving back when the time is right. otherwise, melbourne is definately where my heart is now.

i'm all about learning and experiencing new things. what i do is not who i am, but its nice to have to two collide now and then.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
telling if other people are on successful dates or not! otherwise, i dabble a bit in music, as befits the asian stereotype i am actually quite accomplished at classical piano (but i love my electric guitar more! shhh), and am very good at sleeping more than 10 hrs in a row. talents, i know!
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile, and the terrible attempt at beard growing. and usually the shoes i wear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: 1984, Imbibe, Vintage Spirits and forgotten cocktails
movies: Fight Club, Remember the titans
Shows: how i met your mother, Top Gear, House, The Big Bang Theory
Music: Old skool hip hop, tribe called quest, Relient K, Antiskeptic, Notorious BIG, Pharell Williams, beastie boys, alicia keys, john legend, nirvana, smashing pumpkins,
Food: everything, but especially mexican at the moment!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my car
my motorbike (even if i dont ride that much anymore, its like a speedy security blankie)
alone time
my guitar
the gym
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
which bar i should head to next when i'm in town. and how to get a job in manhattan. and why people still pay 6 bucks for a terrible cup of coffee at starbucks....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either behind a bar making cocktails, or on the other side drinking and making new friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've featured in a (almost totally) nude Calender for charity.
You should message me if
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you're intelligent, can hold a conversation, and you think we'd get along like a house on fire. i like to laugh, i want someone i can make funny jokes with! oh and you like what you see and read. theres lots more behind the scenes.