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mrupert8

33 F Washington, DC

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:14pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm having a really hard time figuring out a way to describe myself that couldn't invoke the response, "wait, that's not me. That's EVERY PERSON EVER." Ah, well, such is life. As it turns out, we're not unique and precious snowflakes, and if ever you need proof, go Google something and see how quickly your exact question pops up as a suggestion.

Want to be reminded of our insignificance? Stand by the ocean. Want to be reminded of our lack of original thought? Get thee to a search engine.

Anyway, self-description. Here were go:

More than anything, I hope that I'm a kind person, and I try really hard to be one. I compliment strangers, make friends at bars, and try to do right by my fellow humans. I don't believe in criticizing people for the sake of it - especially other women - so while I probably won't trash celebrities with you, I will agree with you anytime you want to pay a woman in Hollywood a compliment, so I call that a silver lining.

I'm originally from southern California, which some people say is why I'm pretty laid back, but I only credit it for my love of the Lakers and avocadoes. In that order. I moved to D.C. for my job, which I love, and while I miss LA fiercely, I can't imagine leaving. I'm the Policy Director for a LGBT organization, and my work plays a really big role in my life. Not only does it take a lot of my time, but the issue owns a big part of my heart, and so do my progressive politics more generally. That's definitely something I would need to share with someone I dated, so if you're not a liberal, odds are, we're just not going to have enough in common.

I walk a pretty fine (and hard characterize) line between being pretty goofy and quite serious. I think a lot of things matter, and those I take incredibly seriously. But I think many more things don't matter that much - and matter much less than we think they matter - and I have a really great time refusing to take those things seriously. I love to read, I love watching television (seriously. Love it. Don't get me started), and I will generally watch any game that's on (because I'm my father's daughter), though my favorite is basketball. I also love to meet new people and just sit and talk. I ask a lot of questions (don't be alarmed!), and I genuinely love the process of getting to know someone.

I don't really have a type beyond loving men who are smart and funny. If you can make me think and make me laugh, I'm happy.

Anyway, if you think we'd get along, drop me a line! Hope to hear from you!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a lawyer. I promise I don't act like one.
I’m really good at
I hope I'm a really good friend (at the very least I give good hugs); I have a shocking ability to remember random lines from television shows I've only seen once; I'm a pretty good writer; and I can keep up some witty banter with the best of them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I smile a lot, and I'm usually talking to strangers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorites?

Television: Buffy, Sports Night, the West Wing, Battlestar Galactica, Arrested Development
Book: Mother Night by Kurt Vonnegut
Movie: Planet of the Apes (the original one)
Food type: Italian or Mexican or Japanese...I like food!
Person: my sister
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Food, why I'm still at work, and why being a werewolf made him a better basketball player.
On a typical Friday night I am
Making plans I am almost definitely going to bail on in favor of going home and recovering from the week. Call me on Saturday.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a cool, liberal, laid back guy who doesn't take himself too seriously.