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46 Oreland, PA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38-54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 26
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Not at all
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I should come right out and post that I am religiously positive...completely void of cynicism. Thanks Boss! I'm an eternal optimist and will always believe in the wonders of our existence. If you are negative or sarcastic, I probably won't "get" you. I'm a grown up 80s/90s punk rocker, rather spirited...the typical passionate Aries. I never get tired or bored of what I am doing, and always finish what I started. I am gifted with an endless supply of ideas and the energy to get them done. I still see the world through youthful eyes, but can now affect it with the wisdom of adulthood.
I suppose I have my life ducks in a row, live effortlessly organized, exist drama-free, and thankfully...financially secure. I can write my own hall passes at work to create free time for myself. I do tend to look for free-spirited women to let's say..."mess my stuff up". I am quick-witted, irreverent, logically practical, yet Romantic with a 19th Century capital 'R'.
I strive to remain unflinchingly non-judgmental, and would not a fault. I celebrate diversity in all lifestyles. I'm not sure why OKCupid posts that I might be 'more capitalistic'. I find that surprising, since I rarely spend time thinking about money, and support the working class.
I'm not religious, or even spiritual for that matter, but I am a raging secular humanist. If we do in fact have 'souls, 'music' is by far the easiest way to reach mine. I can't imagine not having music in my life.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am temporarily renting in Oreland, PA until I find my dream house in Frenchtown, NJ...or not. I have been working as an engineering designer for a small family-owned manufacturing company in Easton, PA for the past 18 years. My company was named the #1 TOP Work Place in the Lehigh Valley for small businesses in 2013. job basically rocks! I work hard to make our collective dreams come true.
When not working, I travel around America for music & swing dance events. Since I've mastered the Lindy Hop, I now want to learn Argentine Tango. Other than work, I am looking for more people of great character to spend time with, inspire me, and give me a better sense of community.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
partner dancing (well dancing in general I suppose), my geeky engineering job, talking technically about film and music, writing semi-formal prose (I maintained the text on my company's web site for a while), and keeping my life organized and on a righteous path.
The first things people usually notice about me
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1) I don't look at all my age (being a vampire has its privileges)
2) ice blue eyes?
3) pompadour haircut that I get tightened up every other week?
I'm not sure. My female friends often compliment me on how I present myself...dress, home decor, etc. I have no real need for that whole 'Queer Eye' thing, thank you very much.

[posted by SwirlyGig]
'Mickey, you forgot to mention you cook! As long as you leave sewing out, you're fine'.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I heart lists. So here we go...
BOOKS: 1984, The Exorcist, Memoirs of a Geisha, Contact, My Side Of The Mountain, The Road Less Traveled, To Kill A Mockingbird, The Road, Watchmen (graphic novel), World War Z ...I should probably read more.
MOVIES: Some of my 'recent' favorites are Inglorious Basterds, Bridesmaids, There Will Be Blood & Anchorman. I'll watch anything by Terrence Mallick, Stanley Kubrick, Martin Scorsese, Steven Spielberg or Ridley Scott. More? How about The Godfather, The Exorcist, The Sound of Music & Sunset Boulevard. I'm partial to contemporary indie dramas, artsy horror films, Oscar-nominated stuff, this list is endless...
SHOWS: nope
THEATER: I've seen Punchdrunk's Sleep No More nine times, and I can't wait to go again.
MUSIC: Now onto the important stuff. Here we go... big band swing, 20s-60s jazz, 40s-60s country, 80s-90s speed metal, hardcore punk, non-corporate pop punk, indie rock, Bruce Springsteen, Van Halen, Social Distortion, SLAYER, Sick Of It All, Green Day, Rancid, DanceHall Crashers, The Gaslight Anthem, should I go on?
FOOD: I'll be the first to admit that food as a hobby somewhat bores me. A $7 burrito at Chipotle is the perfect meal for me: clean, inexpensive, healthy & unprocessed. I've been strict vegetarian for 24 years, so that focuses my tastes. BTW, I don't care if you're not vegetarian. It takes all kinds. I'll eat anything made with pumpkin (sweet or savory). Lebanese is by far my favorite cuisine. I dig fresh Mexican. Thai & Japanese allows me to eat vegan. I can usually find room for anything sweet with cinnamon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) free will
2) music
3) dancing
4) movies
5) my job
6) women
None of these are physical 'things', so that says something about my desire to live a life without 'stuff'. My gypsy roots are manifest.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where I can plug in my electric car, correcting my grammar mistakes, finding a house in Frenchtown, NJ? Actually I think a lot about my company & co-workers, my place in this world, lowering my carbon footprint, other people's well being, how I can improve my lifestyle, and the art that I love (music, dancing, film). Like most single men...I think about the ladies a lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
almost exclusively out swing dancing (Lindy Hop, Jitterbug, etc.) in NJ, Manhattan, Philly, or Washington DC. If there is no dance in the area, I sometimes stay late at work to knock out some long-term projects. Otherwise, I am resting after a productive week, watching an artsy film on my home theater, perhaps with my movie comrades. Who am I kidding? On Fridays...I'm out dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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From 1998-2001, I grossed $8K selling Star Trek technical drawings that I created with AutoCAD. For a brief moment, in that little niche of nerd art, I was the "Roy Hobbs" of Treknology.
You should message me if
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you are interested in getting to know me better, want to go swing dancing, or just like to talk about film and/or underground music.

You should not message me if you have duck lips in any of your profile pics, or you are holding up a drink at a bar. I'm not the guy for you.