I am actively in search of moments of ordinary happiness and occasional transcendence. Who isn't?
I am relatively new in town and would like to explore. I tend to indulge my natural curiosity, and I am always looking for little adventures.
I would like someone who would text me fond and funny things during the day, cheer me up when needed, and be physically and emotionally and intellectually present in my life in good ways. I like happiness more than drama. I am reasonably calm even when functioning at high speeds.
Some random things about me:
>I truly believe in the value of kindness.
>Oral fixations include talking, tasting, kissing, among others. I did, however, give up smoking long ago.
>I don't think I look like my pictures because they all seem to look very different.
My best friends have been around for a long, long time. I am a gregarious hermit, but I like to get to know new people and new places.
I lead a rich imaginary domestic life, in which I garden, give delightful dinner parties, and always have flowers in the house and a fire in the fireplace. One day I'm sure this will all come together. Once I get all this laundry done.
I've been a fundraising and planning consultant to not-for-profit organizations--primarily arts and cultural organizations--helping to strengthen their ability to do the good work they do. I love my work and I love the fact that I have the opportunity to meet smart, committed people every day.
I am a volunteer for a couple of arts and architecture organizations.
And I'm always trying to learn to speak French so that I can be a politician's mistress in Paris one day.
I'll make you laugh: promise.
I'm very tactile.
I'm really good at discovering hidden gems (and lucky pennies).
I cook in several languages and I'm pretty good at it.
I'm thoughtful and curious and caring. And cute and curvy and charming. Alliterative, but not annoyingly so.
I may be kind of a smartass, but my heart and my enthusiasms are sincere.
Good with your hands. Good kisser (see oral fixations above).
A chef would be nice, if you're still willing to make me dinner. Or teach me Italian wines. Or makes a definitive cochinita pibil.
If you own too many books, stationery, and one good pen.
You are someone who has a sense of purpose, kindness, manners. If you visit your grandmother and are nice to people on the bus.
Extra points if you can fix things.
Double extra points if you can take me places I've never been.