i enjoy a good mix of keeping busy and being lazy. i adore new gadgets, geeking out on some new way to be self-sustaining, yoga and semi-regular trips to the gym. there is nothing better than sitting in front of the fire on a cold day, lounging around in your pj's on a sunday morning, relaxing by the pool with a good book or hiking the rockin' trails in the james river park system. i like hanging out with friends and just being chill when i'm not toiling away. i'm looking for someone who enjoys good music, going out occasionally, enjoys being outdoors, is willing to leave the west end bubble, and thinks nerdy girls are the best.
i have a slightly wacky sense of humor, so making me laugh is a must. basically, like everyone else, i want someone who knows me and still wants to wake up beside me in the morning.
i'm looking for a partner not a caretaker and prefer the easygoing to the chaotic. i want someone who is happy with himself and is able to take responsibility for that happiness, someone who wants to spend time together and be in a real relationship, not just 'hook up' when they're in the mood. i'm too old for that. honesty, communication, and respect are necessary qualities. being reasonably intelligent is pretty important too. anything else can be worked out along the way.
to head off the inevitable...no i've never been married, no i don't have children, and if i knew why i'm still single at 39 i wouldn't be on ok cupid.