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67 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:47pm
4′ 11″ (1.50m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
i'm a new york transplant and have been happy with the transition, although i miss intense thunderstorms and the vibrant look of fall.

i am hoping to find a friendship that has all the possibilities to grow into a committed relationship. the start of a friendship....let's take car trips to quaint little places, let's go kayaking or camping, let's go to the zoo or the santa cruz boardwalk. i'm into live music, festivals, and museums with interesting/unusual exhibits. i could do hours at the ocean. we could take a segway tour of the city. we could laugh a lot.
i am spontaneous, honest, compassionate, quirky, and an amazing friend. i want a relationship that includes much laughter, spontaneity, sensuality, adventures, vulnerability, trust and understanding.
i see the glass as three-quarters full, believe that difficult things are surmountable, and that you can find humor in almost everything.
baggage is inevitable....would prefer no more than a carry-on that fits in the overhead compartment.
i have a new york accent and a new york edge.
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a psychiatric social worker in a short stay psych. unit in San Leandro. I love my job. currently i am in the early stages of starting a private practice. i had a practice back east and am hoping to build one here.
i laugh a lot and make those around me laugh as well. I do the Sunday Times crossword puzzle. i've joined a couple of music and singing meetups and like that a lot. i also belong to a reader's theatre meet-up. i spend fun times with my 2 grandchildren. working out and staying fit is a regular part of my routine.
I’m really good at
being a friend.... laughing.....listening.... predicting the exact time i will get to my destination....being funny.....kissing....holding a plank for over 3 minutes...connecting with kids and animals
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: almost any memoir, The Story of Edgar Sawtelle, Wicked, Under the Banner of Heaven, the curious incident of the dog in the night (something like that), any Pat Conroy book, John Irving books and too many more to mention (or remember!).
Movies: Coen brothers movies, most Woody Allen movies, "Dressed to Kill", "Tootsie", "All of Me", indies and foreign films, "Jumpin' Jack Flash", "Nebraska", "Silver Lining Playbook", and, again, too many to mention.
Shows: Les Miz, Wicked, Cirque de Soleil, good dramas and good musicals (Andrew Lloyd Weber); TV: Breaking Bad, Homeland, The Killing, Downton Abbey, So You Think You Can Dance, Damages, Dexter, House of Cards, and some junk stuff, too
Music: Bob Dylan, Paul Simon, Simon & Garfunkel, Bob Marley, Pete Seeger, Crosby, Stills and Nash, the Dead, Bluegrass, some jazz, blues, soundtracks from Woody Allen movies and Broadway shows
Food: Vietnamese, Thai, Sushi, ny pizza, Burmese, Mexican....actually pretty much anything...except red meat, lobster, and overcooked vegetables
The six things I could never do without
my family, a sense of humor, a positive outlook, animals, friends, the kindness of strangers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what a long strange trip it's been. i think about where this country is going and what we are leaving our children. i think about earthquakes.
i also think about how lucky i am to have people in my life i love and who love and support me.
how this next chapter of my life will unfold.
On a typical Friday night I am
sometimes watching a movie on tv, going out with friends, unwinding from the week and planning my weekend
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i will admit to people i trust
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 60–73
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you want to check out if I am what is missing in your life