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msl1958

25 / F / bisexual / Single

Sewell, New Jersey

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English, French (Okay)

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I am ambitious, witty, and open-minded.

My Self-Summary

Hmmmm... a little about me? Well I guess I could say I'm a paradox in many ways... very compassionate and empathetic but also know how to stand my ground and offer tougher love when needed. I like to go out and have a good time drinking and dancing, but also I look for more enriching activities to occupy my time like writing or catching up on some current events or canoeing, kayaking in the ocean, playing tennis, shooting pool, and volunteering. I have a big heart and if you're close to me, you reap all of the benefits.

Other than that little tangent, I would say i'm an easy going kind of gal... I take things as they come. I've learned to never argue with people who always thing they're right. I can turn almost anything into a joke... oh, IMPORTANT... I hate drama and games were made for jealous reindeer.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a full time writer. I recently signed a songwriting contract with a company known as ParamountGroup. My first novel was published last year, and i am currently working on my second. Other than writing, i guess i'm just trying to find all of the answers to the questions that life seems to never fail to throw at me... but i have a lot of fun doing it.

I’m really good at

Being intuitive... i am a very compassionate person and i enjoy listening to other people's quandaries, putting myself in there position, and giving them the best advice i possibly can. That probably sounds really weird, but it helps the person in need and i get an immense sense of accomplishment and gratifying rewarding feeling.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am what i call "animated" especially when telling a story or a joke or something.. so people usually notice my jovial prescense.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music: I like anything that's in English, classic rock, country, heavy metal, it really depends on what mood I'm in. Movies: I like movies that make me think... but then again I also loved Grandma's Boy and Wayne's World Books: I like to read non-fiction and biographies Food: I like coffee, seafood, Italian, Chinese

The six things I could never do without

human interaction
car
socks
a pen
music
my hairdresser

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything... and then randomness spawns from that, before i know it, i'm at my desk with my handheld electronic dictionary/thesaurus, and a large cup of coffee, exhausting google.

On a typical Friday night I am

I have found that as you get older, Friday nights don't really exist anymore. On a Friday night i might be doing the same thing i did the previous Tuesday. But to answer the question I'm either out with friends, down the beach, or maybe at home cooking for my friends. Whatever it is I'm with people, but it's not the same as being with that one person.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I sucked my thumb until I was thirteen

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