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46 M Bourbonnais, IL

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:13am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*** Updated photo and some new information. ***
I just uploaded my first new picture in over a year. I have been working out and have lost almost 85 lbs in the last 10 months.

I am honest, supportive, hard working, loyal, and have a sense of humor. I enjoy reading, talking online, shooting pool (just seem to never do it anymore) and meeting people.

I am looking to meet someone who has some things in common but I am willing to try new things. Everyone can grow in that area. So some differences are good as it allows both people to grow in new areas.

I look forward to meeting some great people on this site.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently an academic advisor at a community college. It is rewarding to help students as they continue to work on their desires to advance themselves academically.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking with people. I enjoy helping others and seeing them succeed
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Southern Accent. Also after getting to know me they call me a Southern Gentleman and that I look younger then my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies I like are adventure, sci-fi, action, disney and something with an actual plot. Sweet Home Alabama, Batman Begins, Harry Potter, Grumpy Old Men, Enough, S.W.A.T., Foot Loose, Camp Rock and Mission Impossible. Not much into horror movies though.

Being around students and my co-workers I have learned to listen to and appreciate different types of music. 80's, jazz, R&B and country. I normally fall back to country music.

When it comes to food, I am open to most things but almost any type of pasta ranks near the top.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family
2. Good Friends, They are hard to find!!!!
3. Back Scratcher
4. Good Books
5. My Fan (can't sleep when it is quiet)
6. A Good Lady (When I finally find one.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I am doing with myself now. I am looking to spend some time trying new things and maybe some old things. Also finding someone to do these with is something I think a lot about too.

I also wonder what has happened to common curtesy. If someone speaks to you or sends you a message then you should respond. It is not easy sometimes but a simple "Thank you but ...... " is very helpful to the person that sent the message and might even give them a hint that will be helpful to them in future endeavors.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out having a nice dinner or possibly at home. How about out with you this friday?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I get to know you better.
You should message me if
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Well this brings me to why I am actually on okcupid.

I am interested in making some new friends and eventually a long term relationship. I would like to have some fun, do some new things and see where things lead. A friendship that leads to more is fine and I believe a deeper relationship that is based on friendship has a wonderful foundation to build on.

* You just want to get to know me

* Want to introduce me to some new experiences

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