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mtinnyc

42 / M / Bisexual / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 15
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm 41, 5'8", 150#. I'm an entrepreneurial personal chef and videographer with multiple businesses. I'm passionate about world cultures as expressed through food. I love my Miniature Pinscher Stiva, and I'm interested in meeting people who are up for creating new things in the world.

I have always been creative and expressive. I was a Broadway performer for several years in my 20s, and I've also been a teacher (taught French at a private Girls School on the UES), worked for the Princeton Review, been a private chef for a billionaire. I own a small video production company,and I'm expanding my personal chef service to include home meal delivery.

I love travel and world cultures. One of my businesses is a food media website (www.gildedfork.com) where we create audio and video shows about the food and wine of destinations all over the world. As such, I'm blessed to get to travel and taste all over. I had to send in my passport to get extra pages stitched in, and I've filled up half of those! I even lived in Paris for a year. Favorite destinations include Indonesia, Spain, Italy, Ireland, Hong Kong, Belize, Nova Scotia, Switzerland, Hungary, Hawaii, Alaska, Peru, Thailand, etc. There's still plenty of places I HAVEN'T been, though, so still looking forward to lots more travel (on my short list: India, Korea, Chile, Iceland).

I'm bisexual, tend toward open relationships/polyamory (though I have had and enjoyed monogamous relationships), and at least here on OKCupid, I'm finding myself drawn to and contacted by men and women who are very open with their sexuality (often though not exclusively bi), find me and men like me intriguing, and who aren't shy about expressing it. (Think "The Ethical Slut" Haven't read it? Do check it out)
What I’m doing with my life
Life is NOT about finding yourself. Life is about CREATING yourself.

So I'm actively creating. I'm creating love, I'm creating friendship, I'm creating deliciousness (would you expect anything else from a chef?)

Alot of people think the search for love is about finding the lost other half (as in Plato's symposium). A romantic notion dramatized so well in Hedwig and the Angry Inch, but I think instead we are all whole and complete on our own, and finding love is about being together as two whole and complete beings and creating something new. We don't need each other, we create and ground each other. More fun, eh?
I’m really good at
cooking, making love, knowing exactly which subway car and door to be at to have the shortest route to the exit.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile! I'm always smiling, and I'm genuinely interested in others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Lord of The Rings, Atlas Shrugged, Les Miserables, Dr. Zhivago, 100 Years of Solitude, Foucault's Pendulum

Movies: Star Wars, Dr. Zhivago, The Godfather, Silence of the Lambs, Dr. Strangelove, A Clockwork Orange, Life is Beautiful, anything Monty Python, Contact, The Wizard of Oz, Slumdog Millionaire, Trainspotting, and anything Woody Allen.

TV Shows: Dr. Who, Torchwood, Top Chef, Amazing Race, Entourage, True Blood, Weeds, Modern Family, Law & Order: SVU, Glee, and yes, I'll admit it, the Real Housewives...

Music: Bowie, Joni Mitchell, Groovelily, U2, Beatles, Fleeetwood Mac, Aimee Mann, Bette Midler, Carly Simon, Stevie Wonder, Tina Turner, Chris Isaak, Duncam Sheik, Queen, Pink Floyd, Sting, Rufus Wainwright, and of course Sade.

Food: Carne Adovada, Beef Bourgignon, Haw Mok, Shrimp Chiles Rellenos, Pork Paprikash, Arepas, Luk Fun, Larb Gai, Chilled cucumber mint soup, Gazpacho, Pistachio crusted rack of Lamb, Carrot & Gnger Soup, Kobe Beef, chicken mole, banana & nutella crepes, Pork tamales, Banh Xeo, Pan-seared scallops, super crispy porchetta, speck, Escabeche, and sushi sushi sushi.
The six things I could never do without
My dog Stiva
A chef's knife
My iPhone
Friends
Family
Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex. Yeah, I said it.
On a typical Friday night I am
with friends, talking, laughing, having a beer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me in private and maybe I'll admit it!
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 22–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're up for an adventure.
You enjoy cooking and eating.
You love to travel.
You are open to dating a bi guy.
Your message shows some semblance of having read my profile, and this section in particular. We shouldn't get 8 or 10 messages down the path only to find out that you're not into dating bi guys! ;-)