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45 Phoenix, AZ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:57pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Do You Remember Love? The passion, the romance, the butterflies when you anticipated seeing that special someone? Do you remember the first kiss, the first time that you made love, the way that time stood still and the rest of the world fell away whenever the two of you were together?

Call me a hopeless romantic, but I remember love and that’s what I’m seeking. My life, through various turns and detours has led me to this place. It is a place where I fully recognize who I am as a man, and what it is that I seek in a relationship. I seek a relationship that connects on all levels: emotionally, intellectually, spiritually and physically. I believe that communication is the foundation of the relationship. Without communication you cannot build trust, and without trust you cannot build true emotional intimacy. I seek to know a partner completely, her wants, dreams, wishes, fears or failures, and I will share my own. I seek a relationship where love is without condition, where each partner can express their love and desires without fear of rejection. I seek a relationship that supports one another’s individual goals and aspirations, and also acts as co-creators in our partnership. I seek a love that becomes greater than any we could have ever hoped for or dreamed of, but is also grounded in faithfulness and commitment.

I don't ask for more than I can offer. I take care of me- physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I exercise 4 to 5 times per week because being fit is important to me. I'm intellectually curious and openminded. I communicate my thoughts and feelings easily, and I'm always striving to be more self aware. I value my intelligence and that of a partner's. I'm empathetic, compassionate, and nurturing. I still believe that being chivalrous, a gentleman and a romantic has a place in this world.

So, if you remember love and want to experience it again, or for the first time, I’d love to hear from you. Perhaps it will be, as the poet once wrote, “Come, grow old along with me, the best is yet to come.”

“We come to love not by loving a perfect person, but by loving an imperfect person perfectly.”
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
By day, I am saving the citizens of Arizona through my work in government. At night, I fetch items from the top shelves in grocery stores for the vertically challenged, pet the dogs of random strangers, or help senior citizens cross the street.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Re-writing dating profiles.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Why don't you tell me when we meet!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I listen to the Alternative and Electronica channels on Pandora and Sirius/XM and I am constantly updating my playlists. Current favorites: Swedish House Mafia, Disclosure, London Grammar, Future Islands, Sam Smith, James Blake, Phantogram, Silversun Pickups, Cazzette, NIN, St. Lucia, Daft Punk, The Killers, Franz Ferdinand, Deadmau5, Chvrches, Nightmares in Wax. ALINA BARAZ. If you've never heard of her, youtube the song "Fantasy" by Alina Baraz. Pure musical candy !
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, music, writing, love, being healthy and fit, affection and intimacy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My work, politics, if the Cardinals, Suns or Diamondbacks will ever compete for another championship, why Scarlett Johansson doesn't return my phone calls.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There isn't a typical Friday night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have had a near death experience.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want a partner who would:

Run to the drug store at 1:00 am for tampons without complaint.
Go clothes shopping with you.
Write you a love poem.
Hold your hand in public.
Always be excited to hear about your day.
Give you a massage if said day was really shitty.
Kiss you like there's no tomorrow.
Sing to you.
Always say I love you.
Give you flowers for no reason.
Fill up your car with gas on Sunday evening.
Accept and love your children to the same measure he loves you.
Gladly cook dinner, do laundry or take out the trash.
Never go to bed angry.
Validate your needs, wants or desires.

Never forget that you were a blessing... to be cherished, loved, respected and appreciated every minute of every day.