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45 M Phoenix, AZ

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Okay... time for a reboot.

Apparently, my last profile was too long, or too serious, or maybe both, so I wanted to just get to the basics of who I am and what I'm looking for.

Like most people on here, I'm looking for a relationship. What I've learned is that relationships can take many forms and colors... like a snowflake, or a rainbow. I don't mean to get all poetic here, but I was an English major after all. Relationships are about connections, and people need connection in their life.

Who I am is a single guy standing in front of a girl asking her to love him. No wait. That was Notting Hill. I am a single guy, though, hoping to meet a woman who is open to the possibility of a relationship. Relationships can start as friends, maybe stay as friends, fizzle out, or become something more. I'm open to all of those possibilities.

I am intelligent, creative, professionally employed, and have my "stuff" together. I'm young at heart, and I think that I'm pretty cool. I'm giving it my best shot, anyway. I love ALT rock, EDM and classic rock. Movies are a favorite, and my tastes range anywhere from American Beauty to Wedding Crashers, White Chicks, or Anchor Man. My favorite authors are John Irving and Steven King. I'm communicative, romantic, chivalrous, passionate, sensual, virile and funny as hell, even if I'm the only one laughing.
I'm probably quirky :)

So, now that I've certainly dazzled you with the wonder that is me, (It's meant as a joke, dammit), write to me. You know that you want to!
What I’m doing with my life
Living it.....Yo :)
I’m really good at
Re-writing dating profiles.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I listen to the Alternative and Electronica channels on Pandora and Sirius/XM and I am constantly updating my playlists.

I am vegetarian, leaning toward being vegan. I love Green Cafe at both the Tempe and Phoenix locations and I can always find vegetarian options at most restaurants. You won't find me at a steakhouse though :)

Too many favorite books to list, but one I will suggest if you are vegetarian or ever have considered becoming one. 'Eating Animals' by Jonathan Foer is the best writing on compassionate vegetarianism I've come across. After reading his exploration into factory farming, it will cause you to think twice about that steak on your dinner plate.

My current read is 'Haunted' by Chuck Palahniuk.

I'm a huge fan of True Blood on HBO. The Sundance channel is a favorite for indie and foreign films.
The six things I could never do without
Books, music, writing, love, affection and intimacy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My work, politics, if the Cardinals, Suns or Diamondbacks will ever compete for another championship, why Scarlett Johansson doesn't return my phone calls.
On a typical Friday night I am
There isn't a typical Friday night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's hard not to get discouraged, at times, with online dating. Too many people want to play games, it seems.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want a partner who would:

Run to the drug store at 1:00 am for tampons without complaint.
Go clothes shopping with you.
Write you a love poem.
Hold your hand in public.
Always be excited to hear about your day.
Give you a massage if said day was really shitty.
Kiss you like there's no tomorrow.
Sing to you.
Always say I love you.
Give you flowers for no reason.
Fill up your car with gas on Sunday evening.
Accept and love your children to the same measure he loves you.
Gladly cook dinner, do laundry or take out the trash.
Never go to bed angry.
Validate your needs, wants or desires.

Never forget that you were a blessing... to be cherished, loved, respected and appreciated every minute of every day.