Call me a hopeless romantic, but I remember love and that’s what I’m seeking. My life, through various turns and detours has led me to this place. It is a place where I fully recognize who I am as a man, and what it is that I seek in a relationship. I seek a relationship that connects on all levels: emotionally, intellectually, spiritually and physically. I believe that communication is the foundation of the relationship. Without communication you cannot build trust, and without trust you cannot build true emotional intimacy. I seek to know a partner completely, her wants, dreams, wishes, fears or failures, and I will share my own. I seek a relationship where love is without condition, where each partner can express their love and desires without fear of rejection. I seek a relationship that supports one another’s individual goals and aspirations, and also acts as co-creators in our partnership. I seek a love that becomes greater than any we could have ever hoped for or dreamed of, but is also grounded in faithfulness and commitment.
I don't ask for more than I can offer. I take care of me- physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I exercise 4 to 5 times per week because being fit is important to me. I'm intellectually curious and openminded. I communicate my thoughts and feelings easily, and I'm always striving to be more self aware. I value my intelligence and that of a partner's. I'm empathetic, compassionate, and nurturing. I still believe that being chivalrous, a gentleman and a romantic has a place in this world.
So, if you remember love and want to experience it again, or for the first time, I’d love to hear from you. Perhaps it will be, as the poet once wrote, “Come, grow old along with me, the best is yet to come.”
“We come to love not by loving a perfect person, but by loving an imperfect person perfectly.”