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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Do You Remember Love? The passion, the romance, the butterflies when you anticipated seeing that special someone? Do you remember the first kiss, the first time that you made love, the way that time stood still and the rest of the world fell away whenever the two of you were together?

Call me a hopeless romantic, but I remember love and that’s what I’m seeking. My life, through various turns and detours has led me to this place. It is a place where I fully recognize who I am as a man, and what it is that I seek in a relationship. I seek a relationship that connects on all levels: emotionally, intellectually, spiritually and physically. I believe that communication is the foundation of the relationship. Without communication you cannot build trust, and without trust you cannot build true emotional intimacy. I seek to know a partner completely, her wants, dreams, wishes, fears or failures, and I will share my own. I seek a relationship where love is without condition, where each partner can express their love and desires without fear of rejection. I seek a relationship that supports one another’s individual goals and aspirations, and also acts as co-creators in our partnership. I seek a love that becomes greater than any we could have ever hoped for or dreamed of, but is also grounded in faithfulness and commitment.

I don't ask for more than I can offer. I take care of me- physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I exercise 4 to 5 times per week because being fit is important to me. I'm intellectually curious and openminded. I communicate my thoughts and feelings easily, and I'm always striving to be more self aware. I value my intelligence and that of a partner's. I'm empathetic, compassionate, and nurturing. I still believe that being chivalrous, a gentleman and a romantic has a place in this world.

So, if you remember love and want to experience it again, or for the first time, I’d love to hear from you. Perhaps it will be, as the poet once wrote, “Come, grow old along with me, the best is yet to come.”

“We come to love not by loving a perfect person, but by loving an imperfect person perfectly.”
What I’m doing with my life
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By day, I'm an executive in a corporate healthcare organization. At night, I fetch items from the top shelves in grocery stores for the vertically challenged, pet the dogs of random strangers, or help senior citizens cross the street.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Re-writing dating profiles.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Why don't you tell me when we meet!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I listen to the Alternative and Electronica channels on Pandora and Sirius/XM and I am constantly updating my playlists. Current favorites: Swedish House Mafia, Disclosure, London Grammar, Future Islands, Sam Smith, James Blake, Phantogram, Silversun Pickups, Cazzette, NIN, St. Lucia, Daft Punk, The Killers, Franz Ferdinand, Deadmau5, Chvrches, Nightmares in Wax. ALINA BARAZ. If you've never heard of her, youtube the song "Make You Feel" by Alina Baraz. Pure musical candy !
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, music, writing, love, being healthy and fit, affection and intimacy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being fit and healthy: physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. The best me that I can be!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There isn't a typical Friday night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have had a near death experience.
You should message me if
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I wrote this for a "Love yet to be found." If it resonates with you I'd love to hear from you...

I will not apologize for being who I am, full of love, joy, emotion, passion, sensuality, vulnerability and gentleness, but also with moments of sadness or self-doubt.

I will not apologize for needing to touch you, and to be touched by you, to make love to you with abandonment, to connect our bodies sexually, physically, but with hearts and spirits connected infinitely and eternally.

I will not apologize for being attuned to my masculine and feminine spirits, yin and yang, moon and sun, or dark and light. I will not apologize for being intuitive or emotive, or for being protective, supportive or instructive.

I will not apologize for needing to be heard, but also for needing to listen. I will not apologize for needing closeness, togetherness, but also for moments of reflective solitude.

I will not apologize for needing to express my love for you verbally, demonstratively, and for needing to hear your expressions of love for me.

I will not apologize for needing to know all of you, to your innermost spirit, to need you to be emotionally naked, unafraid, but also without fear of rejection or judgment.

I will not apologize for wanting to do things for you, not because you cannot do them for yourself, but because the act of doing brings me inescapable joy.

I will not apologize for needing to feel important to you, wanted by you, appreciated or desired by you, but also needing to express how important, wanted, appreciated, or desired you are to me.

I will not apologize for asking you to see me as more than my physical exterior, but to peer into my heart and spirit, for that is where my true beauty exists.

I will not apologize for asking you to open your heart to receive my love, to ask you to set aside fear or mistrust, to love me as I open my heart to you.

I will not apologize for wanting to share with you a thousand years, a thousand life times or realities, nor will I apologize for wanting to feel the infinite of the precious present in each moment we are together.