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muchagecko

48 / F / Straight / Single

Renton, Washington

Her Details

Last Online
Apr 13
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Music, dance, Flash.

I'm not very good at dating site etiquette. Please forgive any faux pas.

Yoga, comic books, action figures, video games, science fiction, rock concerts, and cycling.

I am creative, intelligent, and dancer
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a developer. I'm working on training games for a major industry. I work primarily in Flash, although I'm making headway into Unity.

I dance regularly. I will see any music live.
I’m really good at
Some days. Cripes. Today my brain was a Rube Goldberg device. Crazy inefficient, but eventually it accomplished my goals. I can't help but wonder if I'll wake up tomorrow with some fantastic answer.

I play the devil's advocate. My brain is contrary. A friend calls me a 'polarity responder'. That doesn't mean that I'm against everything, it's just that my head is always trying to find the exception to any rule. It's as if I have to know the limits, before I can find the middle. It makes sense to me, but then it's my brain.
The first things people usually notice about me
I never got the book on how a middle aged woman should behave. Maybe the message got lost in my spam folder?

I still read comic books and love SciFi. I'd be more excited about meeting Joss Whedon or Wil Wheaton then getting a $1000 gift certificate to Abercrombie & Fitch.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: One Hundred Years of Solitude, anything PKD, Tolkien, Dickens, blink, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, thinking in pictures, programming theories...
Movies: What Dreams May Come, Roxanne, Milk, Bright Star,
TV Shows: Walking Dead, American Horror Story, Whisker Wars
The six things I could never do without
Go ahead! Post something here again that you really care about, muchagecko, and watch the world conspire to take it away.

I'm just a little bitter about having to go gluten-free. The doc says I'll probably never get to have my favorite food (bagels) ever again.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Thinking styles. Visual, pattern, verbal - which thinking style is your dominant style? Thinking styles define personality more than anything else.

I'm predominantly a pattern thinker, although I have a visual component to my thinking. I find that I have no understanding of verbal thinking. Although I really appreciate people who can think verbally.

I was talking to a friend about how the way you think has a fundamental impact on your personality. Thinking styles are such a basic building block of who you are that I'm amazed that they don't test students.

Think about your primary thinking style: verbal, pattern, visual.
On a typical Friday night I am
Balkan line dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't have a lot of faith in dating sites.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 43–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You don't mind debating comic book theories.

I'm not poly. I appreciate that it can be hard for poly folk to find new people to play with, so you don't like to self-identify publicly. I find it frustrating that I can't weed you guys out of my matches because of your unwillingness to properly identify your relationship status.

I'm a bit cautious about meeting someone that I've met online. I won't just come over to your place for a bootie call, so don't even go there. I have met many people that I've met online, but it takes time. Patience is a desirable trait.

I'm kinda partial to monkeys. If you think you know what that means and you are one, let me know.