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72 F Palo Alto, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I grew up in the East Bay, went to UCB, and found my way to the Peninsula via marriage. My family has embraced mixing different ethnicities into our cultural stew. It makes for fascinating family gatherings.
I used to travel alone to Central America. As long as I am able-footed and minded, I hope to keep traveling, and not alone.
What I'd like to find on okcupid is a lover who is intelligent, kind and has a great sense of humor. Open to travel. Modesty and self- acceptance is very attractive to me. I'm rather shy. I must admit a great comfort around short men.
I've volunteered for NGO's doing photo work (in Africa, Mexico and Peru) and for 3 years have travelled with a group of photographers to teach street kids in Haiti.
I don't play sports. I do exercise, see a lot of movies, have my De Young museum membership, go to the Meetup operas, give dinner parties and spend time with my daughter who is great fun and a massage therapist (lucky mom!).
What I’m doing with my life
Studying Spanish, honing photo skills. Loving my little mutt, Lily, and old cat, Turtle. Right now I'm redesigning my garden and fixing up my house. Culling my belongings, concentrating on the people I love. Will be volunteering again over the holidays.
I’m really good at
Photographing children. Cooking. Losing things. Listening. Seeing the humor in little things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I would imagine people notice my height. I try to appear bigger with a big personality, but I don't know how people see me, really.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Historical novels, biographies and memoirs. Birds Without Wings and The Fall of Giants. Treme. Romantic comedies (Enough Said!). English TV. NPR. Jon Stewart and Steven Colbert.
Could live on grilled vegetables.
Love mellow jazz, r&b, New Orleans jazz, 60's music. Vivaldi and Puccini.
Belong to a Bad Movie Club, and our choices are mostly above our standards.
The six things I could never do without
My daughter, my big beautiful extended family, the summer cabin on the American River, the old home in Jamaica. Friends, traveling almost anywhere.
PLUS! Morning lattes. Mellow piano jazz. Back rubs. Turquoise, silver, jeans. Book stores. Pedicures. Reading in the late afternoon sun. Gin rummy, Jotto and Scrabble in a bar booth.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I can contribute to balance this crazy imbalanced world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once spent a month on a homemade sail boat with a crazy man.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 65–80
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You like me. You are a kind heart, self-accepting and happy. I would love to talk to you.