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muddiebee

54 F Waltham, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:46am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
"I began to realize how important it was to be an enthusiast in life… if you are interested in something, no matter what it is, go at it full speed ahead. Embrace it with both arms, hug it, love it and above all become passionate about it. Lukewarm is no good. Hot is not good either. White hot and passionate is the only thing to be.” ~Roald Dahl

I’m an independent, active, self-aware woman who is excited about this time of my life. I’m young at heart and looking to meet someone who is communicative, affectionate, and has a passion for living fully.

Friends and clients would say I have a compassionate heart, that I speak the truth, and that I take a stand for what matters. I’m an open book and love adventure; unimpressed by money and status, I'm unpretentious. Laughter, playful curiosity, sharing, simplicity. Being grateful and finding the learning in our personal trials.

My family gave me my grounding and is important to me. My grown daughter is on her own and amazes me every day with her intelligence, generous heart and contagious enthusiasm. She sure makes me proud and we’re very close.

I love my work as a certified Leadership and Lifestyle Coach (my own business), partnering with my clients to develop themselves and the life/career they want. So very rewarding. I’m a lucky fish! My previous 28 year career in IT has served me well in developing my coaching niche. I earnestly believe in giving back and try to volunteer pretty regularly. Would you enjoy doing some projects together?

I want to travel more. I’ve been to Hungary six times (lots of family there!), Kenya, Canada and only some of this country. There’s so much more of this world to see and cultures to experience! India, Australia, Ireland, South Africa... endless choices!

I’d like to feel that irresistible pull again, that undeniable attraction and connection that grows out of great friendship… best friends and lovers. Playful sparring, trying something new together, enjoying just being together. I feel like I have a lot of years ahead to share with a well-matched someone special. And while we all want to believe that's true, we know life can turn out to be shorter than we hope. So shall we create and make our way through our bucket list together!? Big things… travel the world, walk the El Camino de Santiago, skydive, dance lessons, hold a first grandchild. And little things… snuggle by a fire, hike a new trail, enjoy a glass of wine, New Year’s Eve together.

What would you add to the list?
What I’m doing with my life
I guess simplifying would be one word. Focusing on what's important... relationships, helping others, being adventurous, curious, playful. I'm never not trying to grow, it's just in my DNA, a life-long learner about anything that catches my interest. And I'm working to get back into shape... naturally athletic and strong, and working towards that level of fitness that feels like home again (yoga, walking, resistance training). I would love to find a partner in the journey, someone who loves being active as well.
I’m really good at
Being positive. Making people feel heard and understood, seeing the most in them and holding them grander than they see themselves. I have that eldest-child way of effortlessly taking a leadership role when needed, remaining clear and calm when things seem out of control, and being creative in finding solutions and new perspectives.
The first things people usually notice about me
My friendly, easy way. I'm very curious, casual and comfortable with all types of people. I'm passionate about things that matter to me and you'll recognize that sparkle in my eye when we're talking about those things. That I look and seem younger than my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
NPR, all sorts of music (rock, pop, classical, new age, country, world), a good drama and I’m a sucker for a love story, Modern Family, Law & Order, books on personal growth (for my work), any food that's not too spicy, red wine, dry champagne, chocolate
The six things I could never do without
Stimulating conversation
Friends that know you from the inside out
My daughter
Meaningful work
Being active
Romance/Intimacy/Passion
Chocolate
(not in any particular order)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lately... how to find more ways to be grateful and to give back, pay it forward, make a difference. And how to simplify my life and continue to make meaningful choices.

About someday having grandchildren... looking forward to that time of my life. About client work offerings I want to create. About my next trip and where it might be. About how we all have some responsibility around how things are today, locally, nationally, internationally. How easy it is to assume things and how letting those assumptions go can open up amazing possibilities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting together with friends for conversation, dinner, drinks; watching a movie, reading, spending time with my daughter, catching up at home from the week. I don't think there is a typical...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty much an open book and willing to share about wherever our conversations take us.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 50–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
... if you're looking for an easy friendship with possibilites of leading to a meaningful longer term relationship.
... if you find something in my profile that resonates and you want to know more.
... if you aren't afraid of intimacy on all levels.
... if you want to get out and play!